6. Know your Love Minions! Scouting and attracting love is hard and you shouldn’t be hesitant to ask for help along the way. We are sure there are willing friends or relatives or co-workers who would gladly help in your endeavour. Make sure that your “love minions” know what you are looking for. You should also be able to trust their judgment, otherwise, it will be a myriad of flopped dates and failed expectations. Do not alienate yourself from online dating, either. Of course, iSTORYA.NET is not a dating site but it is a great avenue to meet new people and interact with interesting individuals. There are a lot of iSTORYAn couples who worked things out and some even made it to the altar! You can check out some featured stories of love from our Valentine series last year (click on featured couples to read more about their stories):
BeoR and Galadriel
Potterboy and Mimsnav
RusteD and cottoncandy
Melvinthegreat and hyrei
CraSHBURN and thisbe.ara
7. Desperation breeds Disappointment While we advise that you should be open in getting to know people, if you realize that there is really something off during the dating period, do not feel obligated to stick things out just for the sake of being with someone. Some get too desperate and say, “This may be my only chance”. Know that your goal is to find your one true love and this doesn’t grow in desperation. If you feel that things just do not work out, it’s better to end things right and get back out in the dating scene and keep trying to look for that one true love.
8. No Tutorials, No Short Cuts Bear in mind that your quest for your true love will probably lead you to some bad or disastrous dates. We dare say, don’t stop until you reach your goal. There really is no concrete plan, pathway or definite guarantee of finding your one true love but it will lead you to where you should belong. Love can be found in the strangest of places, in the most unexpected of people. While love may be a never-ending quest for some, once you’ve found it, you know it’s all worth it. For now, try to pamper yourself with some ice cream, browse our threads, make yourself ATTRACTive (not just physically but in all aspects) and prepare yourself for the miracle that this life has in store for you.
What’s your love story? Mag iSTORYA Ta! (Let’s talk)
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