How to express it?

[stallions]

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A general question, how do you express your feelings to a family member? In my case, I don't know how to express it to my father. I am struggling with emotions right now, I just want to let it out so badly coz it's been months, but I just don't know how. My father is not a man of many words and most of all, emotions. The only emotions he expresses are happiness and anger. When he has a problem, he doesn't express it, he just keeps it in but it still shows. Because of that, it's also hard for him to handle emotions of other people.

It's also hard for me to express because he has a hard time understanding people. He doesn't know how to relate to other people. It's like he doesn't take into account the side of other people.

Our relationship right now is a bit rocky. But he has never even bothered to ask about my side of the story - how I'm feeling, why I'm doing this and that, why I go here and there. It's just all about how I made a mistake.

I don't think it's fair.

I just want to let these feelings out. I don't care if he won't understand, I just want to have a breather.

Since I don't know how to talk to him about it in person, I have tried to construct a letter. But, organizing my thoughts is a problem since there are so many things I want to write down. I don't know how I should write it. I know it should just be plain and simple - right from the heart but I just don't know where to start.

Any other ideas out there? (I'm a girl, late teens by the way, if that helps)

[THE KID]

asa d i imong mama?

[stallions]

asa d i imong mama?

Naa ra man diri but wala ra man cyay tingog2x about aning problema namo sa akng papa. I know magsturya sila about it pero d man cya mo sturya nko about it. Mura rag pa as if nga walay nahitabo.

[brian joshua]

buntis ka dai?

[edoy]

murag galutaw pa ang imong istorya TS...kulang sa saysay kung asa nagsugod ning problemaha

[stallions]

buntis ka dai?

d sad oi hehe

murag galutaw pa ang imong istorya TS...kulang sa saysay kung asa nagsugod ning problemaha

hehe yeah, sorry pero still working on how to explain the problem. naglisud pa ko og organize sa akng thoughts gud. naglutaw ang utok hehe

[Crimson_Viper]

unsa d.ay planu nmu.?

[street_of_no_return]

maybe he's thinking about your future and probably your in the wrong path.

[Klave]

Ani lang TS...

If there was one thing your father could do unya malipay ka...unsa manang butanga?

If there was one thing YOU could do to make your father happy unsa man imong buhaton?

Ani mana TS gud...kung galibog ka unsaon og hunahuna unsa imong buhaton...
Samot pana siya kalibog unsa iyang angay buhaton...

Simple Reasons Why...

Lalaki siya...babaye ka....lahi kaayo og utok
Edaran siya....bata pa ka....Age gap matters, because different generations have different thought processes.

So he would act upon the only way he knows how.
If he doesn't like what you are doing, he will frown, otherwise malipay siya.

Kani lang gyud pinakalast, BABAYE KA.
Luoy gyud ang babae sa mga possible situations mahitabo sa usa ka babaye.
So if there is something you are doing that he doesn't like, he will be worried.
All the excuses in the world would not matter, when a possibility of disaster will happen, it might as well happen.

Ako lang gyud gi-imagin noh...if i would have a daughter in her teenage years...
It would be hell on my part, all the planning and all the worrying.
And the possibility ma-baliwala ra tanan effort and support nimo sa imong anak kay niburot na ang tiyan.
Ingana na lang og hunahuna, if your father thinks you will have a good future with what you are presently doing, then he will be happy.

[noy]

smiley imung papa TS, then ingna naa nya koy isulti nimu pa..