Failure as a breadwinner, need your opinions

[tophat]

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you welcome it's nice to know sad that we we're of help to you
blik2 nya dri, tngali pd naa dghan dha nag kinahanglan sa imong tambag

i am not out of the woods yet and maybe has not seen rock bottom still but..ill get better hopefully...

[dKyOrt22]

i have failed my role as a breadwinner to my family...lost my job and my career...and possibly lost their love as well. shud i just end this?

present here... pareho ta bro... pero ayaw lang kawad-an paglaom..
trabaho rman na nawala.. ug kung love sa pamilya.. dili na mawala oi...
ako gani...

just dont give up...

[ronz_rodz]

bro makarelate ko sa imoha kay almost nako buhaton eventually, ako friend ni encourage nako never to give up.. not just my friend but also my GF ... mao ni try ko usab and i explain to my parents and siblings to be patient coz not all the times luck is always at our side... then several months in applying for a job... unexpectedly i was hired in a job that has a high salary.. mao to ang start sa akong life nga nigaan gaan among life sa family... Never Give Up!

i have failed my role as a breadwinner to my family...lost my job and my career...and possibly lost their love as well. shud i just end this?

[tophat]

Never Give Up!

salamat bro, i wont call it giving up nor surrender. this is how it looks to me: it is like a game of chess and it is a losing game actually. however, life is more complex than chess. i can not just resign and play another game. life has to go on, bahala na. as long as i am not surrendering. i lose, but i end this fighting to move on.

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@tophat:

you know what's the good thing about failing? it's because you've got no other way to go but up. you only have two choices, stay down and give in to your feelings or fight and bounce back. life could be harsh if we don't give our all out. remember that you can learn more in failing and defeat than in winning and success. you can never be successful if you don't fail.

just a rough statistic. i have read in a book that more than 95% of successful people have at least experienced major setbacks at some point in their lives (whether it's in business, family, career, or anything else). the other 5% were just blessed either they had a brilliant mind or an affluent family. how did they rise? they just simply didn't quit and diverted their setback into a stepping stone towards success.

in life, only the strong survives. notice one characteristic that is common in successful people, they've got confidence in themselves (they believe in themselves no matter what the circumstances are), and they simply don't quit not until they get what they want. develop that hungry attitude. learn new things (the more you know, the more opportunities would come your way), make new friends (they can be good contacts and source of opportunities later on), and strengthen your inner self (you can never do all those things without a good character).

remember, failures are temporary and they become permanent only if you let them do.

[ufc_fighterguy]

i have failed my role as a breadwinner to my family...lost my job and my career...and possibly lost their love as well. shud i just end this?

end? as in end? nah u dont have to think that way. habang may buhay may pag-asa.
ang uban mu ingon, "ang taong nagigipit, sa patalim kumakapit" (sayop na)
you must say " ang taong nagigipit, sa dios kumakapit" (evrything will be solved)

[ronz_rodz]

nice suggestions bro.. i thought you hate the world na... hehehe

end? as in end? nah u dont have to think that way. habang may buhay may pag-asa.
ang uban mu ingon, "ang taong nagigipit, sa patalim kumakapit" (sayop na)
you must say " ang taong nagigipit, sa dios kumakapit" (evrything will be solved)

[m.garz]

musta TS? nana kay bag-ong job o small business?

[tophat]

musta TS? nana kay bag-ong job o small business?

wa pa jud bro. just bag-o and possibly better outlook n life. no surrender man kaha ko ani hehe. i have my resume in almost all job portals out there. besnis? murag lisod na bro...wa man gani ko load sa celfon. free ride lang man ni ako internet access gani.

[maitoots]

wa pa jud bro. just bag-o and possibly better outlook n life. no surrender man kaha ko ani hehe. i have my resume in almost all job portals out there. besnis? murag lisod na bro...wa man gani ko load sa celfon. free ride lang man ni ako internet access gani.

heheh cge lang gud.. think possitive bro.. and pray lang jud..
ana man jud na ang life unfair usahay pero usahay ra pd na
basta no surrender lang jud keep it up