Failure as a breadwinner, need your opinions

[tophat]

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i have failed my role as a breadwinner to my family...lost my job and my career...and possibly lost their love as well. shud i just end this?

[vp-rakista]

please don't give up...the more mas maka-lolooy imu pamilya when you are weak... be strong, opportunities will come... adjust lang usa sa lifestyle nimu karon...

[Tirong-say]

I could see you are such a responsible person, you already have the dedication to support your family an impression that I think would last, I do not think that they will lost the respect and love that they retribute on you in return of your kindness. Lossing a job is inadvertent just merely a case of running out of luck, just be persisitent just set your sail always so that when a good wind would come it is ready then to catch it.

[whiskey]

The love a family is always around,don't think that they dont live you just because you lose your job.The more they will love you because your thinking for there goods,you are worried of them just the same feelings that your family felt on you.Dont give trust yourself that one of these days you can find a job for your survival.Believe in yourself and always stay strong coz you need to be strong at this time.Weakness will pull ypu down,so trust youreslf..... I know you can make it.

[tophat]

Im sorry if i may have to call you stupid. What you are thinking now is clearly stupidity out of despair.
as i've said, its not the end of the world!
Never loose hope!
Habang may buhay, may pag-asa!

jackd...thank you..i guess u r right...im a big S...its just too much ..and no man is really an island...salamat again

[tophat]

The love a family is always around,don't think that they dont live you just because you lose your job.The more they will love you because your thinking for there goods,you are worried of them just the same feelings that your family felt on you.Dont give trust yourself that one of these days you can find a job for your survival.Believe in yourself and always stay strong coz you need to be strong at this time.Weakness will pull ypu down,so trust youreslf..... I know you can make it.

they called me useless maam...

[AntitaniC]

dude.... even people living in the streets... didn't think about giving up.... ikaw nga maka internet2x pa gani ka... tsk2x...

[tophat]

just set your sail always so that when a good wind would come it is ready then to catch it.

i like your analogy of the sail bro...thanks. hope the good wind do come.

[r3roble]

it's not that we do not fail, but what we do after we fail....

basin kulang pa imo paninguha, kay kung nakita nila ang imo paninguha, i'm sure motabang pud nimo ang imo pamilya...

[maitoots]

it's not just hope for the good wind to come... you have to make the wind... instead of feeling desperate and useless.. sit down and talk to your family about the situation. make them understand nga dli tanan nato gusto matuman, and ang kada family mo agi jud ug ing ani, swerte na ang dili. pagtinabangay mo kay karn panahuna dli jud pwede usa ra ang magtrabaho... hasta mga anak apila sa brainstorming and planning kay you'll be amazed as to how smart kids are these days.. mkasabot jud na cla if pasabton tarong. stand up and be proud.. if you fail as breadwinner you can always rise up and start again but if you fail as a person kana lisud nana ma repair.