Failure as a breadwinner, need your opinions

[maitoots]

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bro bsan nsaun pka namo tambag dri, everything should start with you and in you. kutob ra sa insights ug inputs amo dri, pero kung ikaw mismo dli maningkamot nga ma overcome nmo imong self pity wana mi mahimo.. self pity raman na imo na feel bro, naluoy ka sa imo self.. hope is always there pero dli man jud ta mabuhi sa hope lang.. tngali taas pd kaau ka ug standard sa job..

[bugztronic]

i have failed my role as a breadwinner to my family...lost my job and my career...and possibly lost their love as well. shud i just end this?

na onse man tawon ka bro oi,

miagi baya ko anang imong naagian..halos akoa tanan paningkamot gikan sa konsumo sa pamilya hangtod na sa mga manghod..naningkamot ko para sa tanan sulod sa pamilya..

mas midat-ug nako ang kalibutan sa dihang nasakit ako papa ug cancer ug namatay rasab anang tuiga then nawad-an kog trabaho ato nga time, ako kaugalingon paningkamot para mapakaon nako ako mga manghod, ako inahan way kabangkaagan nga mangita ug resourceful..mas mi grabe pa gyud sa dihang naa nay mga tarbaho ako mga manghod, ako gihapon ang breadwinner ang ilang kita ila-ila ra dili mo share...

Grabe pag-antos nako bro, sa paningkamot nako nga mapadako nako ang mga manghod ug sa eskwela...wala man gihapon sila maghunahuna sa nahimo nako nila infact abroad na ang uban karon..

nakalingawas rako bro sa dihang nagminyo ko..

pero wala jud ko mi give-up....kay nakita nako nga duna pay mas naglisod kaysa sa ako kahimtang...

always look the people around you nga naay mga apan, mga bakol, buta o unsa pa diha pero naningkamot gihapon nga mabuhi, bisan gi biay biay sila..

[tophat]

so... Sir Tophat.... kumusta na?

...which options or suggestions did you or do you think is feasible to your situation?

sir jack, i think getting back at life is slow and best taken one step at a time. for now i realized ending it is indeed a stupid and cowardly thought. thank you sir.

[fackerr]

na ForceLeave ka bai? ayaw kawala og pag asa karun rana continue wat uve done. strive more.. sure ko 2mrw would be the best 4 u

[knight007]

sir jack, i think getting back at life is slow and best taken one step at a time. for now i realized ending it is indeed a stupid and cowardly thought. thank you sir.

Congratulations for realizing that bro.... Everybody have failures but it is not failures that matters, it's how you face it and start a new beginning.

[sunsetbeauty]

My only advice to TS is to always remember that no matter what you are and where you are right now in your life you'd have to remember that somebody loves you and they don't want to see you losing hope and giving it all up. Draw your strength from them and from that One Supreme Being that you believe in. May that strength be your light in this temporary darkness of life. Cheer up coz life is still worth living

[maitoots]

good to hear you are slowly bouncing back ana jud na ang life oi, take everything 1 step at a time.. sumtimes, the worst endings can be a start for wonderful beginnings.. open line of communication can be a very best buddy

[elmariachi]

life goes on bro..

i went thru ur situation b4..my father told me that he's frustrated about me..coz i failed him..i know how it feels...

but, find a way to move on..it's not our responsibility to support our parents but it's them..

dli man ang anak ngita ug ginikanan kundi ang ginikanan ngita ug anak..don't tell me pag mag make love ang parents mag think cla na kani sya mo tabang ni nato...it should not be..ky bunga ra ta sa ilang gugma..dapat di ta nila e oblige to support them...


time will come..

[tophat]

i thank you all who posted encouraging words of wisdom here...it is not easy to get bounce back..but yes, life must go on..or find its natural end. there is no room for stupidity and cowardice but when in desperation and feeling so low, i agree, i have to draw strength from those closest to my heart...

[maitoots]

you welcome it's nice to know sad that we we're of help to you
blik2 nya dri, tngali pd naa dghan dha nag kinahanglan sa imong tambag