Wrong words, good Intention

[Tan Irvin Irek]

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I have a GF, mag 2 years and 4 months nami and still going strong. Akong problem is, nagka lalis mi sa una about marriage. Nya naka sulti ko ani..."Yes, I will marry you and I plan to but I take a step back whenever we quarrel or fight." Supposedly, naa ra unta ni sa akong huna2x pero mi gawas man gud sa akong baba kay wa man ko kapugong. Akong GF super sad ka selosa. Akong gi explain sa iyaha na, marriage happens when two couples are mostly happy all the time, but if you keep getting jealous, and keep getting mad over small things, magkalayo ta sa marriage point kay sige man ug away. That is my point. But sometimes I am poor at constructing words on the spot. Among away, for me are almost petty, pero modako kay sapoton pud kaayu sya as I go on to explain. I can say nga going strong gihapon mi kay until now, we still love each other very much. gikan lang mi sa Cebu the other day para pa check up and we were holding hands on our trip back to the province.

Now, akong question maybe, is: How can I make her trust me nga dili ko ing.ana nga pag ka tawo nga traydor. Or mangita pajud ug lain. Because that is the truth, I know myself. Na trauma cguro sya sa mga na uyab nya sa una nga pasakitan lang sya. But how do i construct such explanation para motoo sya nako?

[care_bear]

I have a GF, mag 2 years and 4 months nami and still going strong. Akong problem is, nagka lalis mi sa una about marriage. Nya naka sulti ko ani..."Yes, I will marry you and I plan to but I take a step back whenever we quarrel or fight." Supposedly, naa ra unta ni sa akong huna2x pero mi gawas man gud sa akong baba kay wa man ko kapugong. Akong GF super sad ka selosa. Akong gi explain sa iyaha na, marriage happens when two couples are mostly happy all the time, but if you keep getting jealous, and keep getting mad over small things, magkalayo ta sa marriage point kay sige man ug away. That is my point. But sometimes I am poor at constructing words on the spot. Among away, for me are almost petty, pero modako kay sapoton pud kaayu sya as I go on to explain. I can say nga going strong gihapon mi kay until now, we still love each other very much. gikan lang mi sa Cebu the other day para pa check up and we were holding hands on our trip back to the province.

Now, akong question maybe, is: How can I make her trust me nga dili ko ing.ana nga pag ka tawo nga traydor. Or mangita pajud ug lain. Because that is the truth, I know myself. Na trauma cguro sya sa mga na uyab nya sa una nga pasakitan lang sya. But how do i construct such explanation para motoo sya nako?

Dili man need nimo mag construct ug nindot na words.. ang importante ky ang intentions nimo. Besides ur girl would understand kng gustuhon lng niya. Kng cge rag selos then ni xplain nka madugay ma worsen rana then mao na dha huna2 kng gnhan ba jud ka ingn ana klase nga relasyun kng kaya nimo agwantaha. kung kaya niya ma agwanta pod na niya kng ingn ana imo mentality. Accept each other if u really love each other.

[Bonito4U]

Panguyabi xa taga adlaw TS.. ug baliki og panguyab. hehe

[21guns]

TS explain lng TS nga dika maayo mo explain lol,,give more love lang TS kulang ra siguro nas hapyod

[slabdans]

sayop imong perception sa marriage brad kaning imo gi ingon "marriage happens when two couples are mostly happy all the time" paminawa ang vows sa kasal "For better or for worst till death do us part"

ang kaminyoon mura nag suicide, kung andam naka e surrender ang tanan, kung kahibaw naka mokaon sa imong tae ug mopaubos sa imong pride then go pagminyo mo. kay kitang mga laki bisan pag unsay atong buhaton pirme raba jud tang sayop basta asawa na atong kuntra, bisan sakto ka sayop lang gihapon ka mao man bitaw ang atong balaod tua lang naka sentro sa pag proteksyon sa kababayn-an

[aljy]

Boss, Marriage is not the absence of misunderstanding and quarrels, it is rather a judgement or mindset that the person you are with is not worth losing over a petty fight...

SO, my advise is don't say it to her rather prove to her that you love her...action speaks louder than words...

[yumi_yan]

The key to a good relationship is willingness to compromise and put the needs of your significant other ahead of your own sometimes. Kami mga babae are generally emotional so imo jud na i-consider. Kinghanglan makat-on ka to pick your battles to minimize fighting over petty things.

[<SMILE>]

Paminawa si Father slabs sakto gyud kayo na ang iyaha,
wala ra ba gyuy tawo nga perfect pero naay perfect love.

[kevitzrey]

Heads up lang TS, naa rabay usahay dili sad tanan. Nga ang kusog mag duda or mag doubt, maoy naay binuhatang dili mao..

[Tan Irvin Irek]

sakto bitaw ka bro slabs... kato imo gi quote words lang to nako pero you hit the point. Ako nalang bitaw mo paubos basta kita kog dag-om para walay kilat ug dug2x kay nay babae sama sa akong partner nga di papilde. pero as ive said to myself, ako maning sudlan, then dapat ready ko sa mga bundles and packages that come with her. Bitaw mga bros/sis, salamat sa inyong mga reply, ako naman xang nadawat kung unsa siya. bahalag unsa pa kakusog sa bagyo, gunit jud ko kay kabalo ko sa tanan relationship, nag tanaw ang ginoo.

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kevitzrey, dili sad cguro (in my case) kay taga adlaw mi nag kita (we live in the same house) nya iyaha man kong ingnan or patanawon unsay nahitabo sa iya fb, nya kung unsay nahitabo sa iyang adlaw or sa work. (family business).