Sign or coincidence

[carbrill]

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Do you believe in signs?

Well, people ask for signs and most of the time they'll receive it or is it just a coincidence. Like the more you think of it surely it will happen, for instance if you'll say if you'll see a dove it means you do that or do this. subconsciously your brain is thinking of it and everywhere you go you'll look for your so called "sign"; eventually you will see one.

Now, is your sign worth to follow or it is just a trick of fate for you to keep on fighting even in the end you get the bad end?

As we grow older should be clever enough to use our cognitive thinking on making desirable decision, even if it is not favorable to our side just to save whatever left behind for us. We do everything make our self busy with work, gym, watch movies and etc. but in the end of the day no matter how tired we are, before we shut our eyes to sleep, there it goes that person we love most, pops out from nowhere, wondering in our mind and it makes us weak and dam* it makes us happy yet it gives us that sadness of reality that person is not ours anymore and will never be.

so this morning when I opened my FB - boom! the name appeared across my screen, even though the owner of that name is not the same person that I'm longing for. still why in the world I'll see that name 1st thing I opened my computer. Is this a SIGN or just coincidence? and the fact that I miss that person so much.

[slabdans]

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[carbrill]

Thank you!

@mods pls merge it to the old one and sorry cause when i search it didn't pop out since it is very old topic already.

[silent-kill]

for me, its not really a sign unless you give it your own meaning.. you know when you close your eyes and think about that person? its not really "longing" anymore after a period of time, its just nostalgia... you remember the good times, and you remember why it ended. it serve's as a life lesson. a piece of memory for you to reflect upon for the rest of your life.

You become "weak" when you think of them not because you "miss" them but, you feel regret and guilt of your immature ways before. It does not say anything about how much you "love" that person. But rather it says a lot about your capacity to love a person.

As we mature, we learn that having lose ends, no closure is ok, and its just something we have to let go, and charge it to experience, and continue to moving forward.

I talked to my father once, he shared his break-ups and told me it took him 10 years to get over one break-up.. but he continued and force himself to move on, and married my mom. you know what? just recently, after more than 30 years his ex actually looked for him in FB. his ex became a widow early (I guess she was lonely), and my father, got my mom and they are very happy, my mom is a very loving and caring woman, I guess that is his closure..

[carbrill]

for me, its not really a sign unless you give it your own meaning.. you know when you close your eyes and think about that person? its not really "longing" anymore after a period of time, its just nostalgia... you remember the good times, and you remember why it ended. it serve's as a life lesson. a piece of memory for you to reflect upon for the rest of your life.

You become "weak" when you think of them not because you "miss" them but, you feel regret and guilt of your immature ways before. It does not say anything about how much you "love" that person. But rather it says a lot about your capacity to love a person.

As we mature, we learn that having lose ends, no closure is ok, and its just something we have to let go, and charge it to experience, and continue to moving forward.

I talked to my father once, he shared his break-ups and told me it took him 10 years to get over one break-up.. but he continued and force himself to move on, and married my mom. you know what? just recently, after more than 30 years his ex actually looked for him in FB. his ex became a widow early (I guess she was lonely), and my father, got my mom and they are very happy, my mom is a very loving and caring woman, I guess that is his closure..

10 years? that's a long time. I just don't like for myself to take years to move on. Your dad must be a great lover then. his ex looking for him after 30 long years.

yeah you have a point.

[P-Chan]

i believe ikaw mag himo sa imong own destiny...

[silent-kill]

10 years? that's a long time. I just don't like for myself to take years to move on. Your dad must be a great lover then. his ex looking for him after 30 long years.

yeah you have a point.

my father's love story involves betrayal that's why i guess it took him 10 years. but he did not wait until he can fully "move on" to marry my mom, since moving on is a continuous process...

you should also live your life the way you want it, and not think of how long it will take you to fully move on. get a girlfriend, create new experiences, improve yourself, learn new things. there is so much things to do... and every time you "see" those signs relating to her, make it a reminder, why you are walking towards the opposite direction olryts!

[JakLine]

in some cases, maybe it's just a coincidence. for it not to be one, ask for a sign that is impossible to happen that time. personally, i tried to ask one. only one. and it happened after 8 years. and for you to be sure, include prayer in it.

[slabdans]

mostly somebody hacks those signs of yours kay sige mog status sa fb, that's the reason why you are being fooled by a wrong person or events

[care_bear]

Do you believe in signs?

Well, people ask for signs and most of the time they'll receive it or is it just a coincidence. Like the more you think of it surely it will happen, for instance if you'll say if you'll see a dove it means you do that or do this. subconsciously your brain is thinking of it and everywhere you go you'll look for your so called "sign"; eventually you will see one.

Now, is your sign worth to follow or it is just a trick of fate for you to keep on fighting even in the end you get the bad end?

As we grow older should be clever enough to use our cognitive thinking on making desirable decision, even if it is not favorable to our side just to save whatever left behind for us. We do everything make our self busy with work, gym, watch movies and etc. but in the end of the day no matter how tired we are, before we shut our eyes to sleep, there it goes that person we love most, pops out from nowhere, wondering in our mind and it makes us weak and dam* it makes us happy yet it gives us that sadness of reality that person is not ours anymore and will never be.

so this morning when I opened my FB - boom! the name appeared across my screen, even though the owner of that name is not the same person that I'm longing for. still why in the world I'll see that name 1st thing I opened my computer. Is this a SIGN or just coincidence? and the fact that I miss that person so much.

Everything is predetermined by fate. No such thing as coincidence. U make your own destiny. I used to believe in signs but not anymore. You're so ryt, imo lang nmn na pugson na mao na mahappen ky mao ang sign. I used to be happy in the past becoz I was thinkng nga naa jud person nga imo gi love sauna mao rapud ang person nga sya karn but I was wrong.. da*n sh*t wrong.. now I tell u TS.. naka plan na tanan. Sakit bitaw mu wake up nga ang person dili na atoa pero mas sakit mag long sa tao nga never ka ghtagan importansya. Pero kana imo pain make it constructive. Think anything to ur advantage.. make ur life merrier even sa reality nga wala na sya nimo.