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    Default My boyfriend and I broke up, and its been almost a month na.


    We were in a long-distance relationship for 8 months. He lives in Singapore and we have only been together once for 2 weeks which was Christmas and New Year with my family. All throughout the 8 months we have been ON and OFF because I would catch him flirting or having other women on FB. We finally broke up in January but we remained friends on FB. Lately, I have been posting quotes that I am recovering and moving on. I don't initiate chats with him anymore just a move so I can move on faster, and all of a sudden there would be times that he would send me nonsense Viber messages like he's depressed or something, like one time he said he's in a Mental Institution daw coz he's depressed, thhen I ask if he's okay, he's say he's fine, then that's it. The next day he messaged me with "Hi", I said "Hello", then he said he just got discharged, I asked how he is, wala na dayun ni reply.. Sometimes he'd message to ask how I'm doing, when I say I'm fine, he'd reply with "Ok", then that's it.

    What does it mean? Does he miss me or something? I know he has been chatting with many women on whatsapp and tagged lately, so verytime he'd message me, I just say to myself "don't expect something, he's just bored". Am I right to think so?

    Sometimes I flatter myself into thinking that he does miss me, but most of the time (during the duration of the relationship), I felt like I was just an option and he was with me until he found the one he wanted. After all, it is kinda impossible for us to end up together since we are miles apart.

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    olarks na kaau na cya gurl oy! call it quits nalang.. you can find sum1 better than your x. kapoy manang ingon anang stayla. wala mana padol-ngan.

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    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

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    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

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    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

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    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

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    Quote Originally Posted by iNot View Post
    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

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    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

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    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

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    ay sus pride chicken ra na niya TS...prangkaa gani...di ba dali ra kayo na cya mkatubag ...kun naa pa kay feelings TS then go.. ana mn gud mi mga guys...kun unsa mogawas sa baba lisod na kayo bawion...

    honestly, yes naa pa ang feelings but lately i am trying to distant myself na kay sakit sad baya makita ko nga nagcge siya like sa mga pictures lain2x babae and especially nga same country niya niya lagyo mi. I just wanna try to move on kay meedyo hopeless jud among case. naa lang jud times nga mabother ko especially kung mutry na siya'g contact. maski hi and hello.

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    everytime he message you and you reply, pang lamon na sa iyang ego, bisag unsa pa ka mubo imong reply, dako na kaayo na pra niya coz nag reply pa ka, yaw na reply sunod

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    ayaw nalang na dibdiba iyang mga text og paramdam.. lisod na kaayo butngag meaning coz naay ubang laki
    nga lami kay modag istorya, dyan sila magaling

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    TS if yo really love him give him another chance! Pero if dili jud siya mausab mao nana ang time mo quit najud ka totally!.. I know you have feelings for him pajud!.. But if kana iyang pagka babaero dugay na keu na unya wala jud siya mausab aw! Move on daghan pa keu lalaki sa kalibutan dili lng siya!.. Stop reading his message, don't reply, much better you unfriend and block him on FB! Cut off your ways of communication!.. =)

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    didto diay nakuha ni mattmatt ang iyang pagka way klaro oi..

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    Quote Originally Posted by mom_ni_matt2x View Post
    honestly, yes naa pa ang feelings but lately i am trying to distant myself na kay sakit sad baya makita ko nga nagcge siya like sa mga pictures lain2x babae and especially nga same country niya niya lagyo mi. I just wanna try to move on kay meedyo hopeless jud among case. naa lang jud times nga mabother ko especially kung mutry na siya'g contact. maski hi and hello.
    honestly ts, ingon ana sad ako situation 3years ago sa ako ex. bisan gani sa social networking sites daghan kaau cya chix. ma-stress jud ko pirmi kay long distance man mi atoa.. i still hav feelings pasad ato niya. kabalo ka unsa ako gibuhat?? ako cya gibuwagan oy,kay ako nalang pirmi musabot gud. kana bitaw mangotana ka niya ug kinsa ng mga chix.. tobagon lang kag mga friends lang na nako sila or whatsoever.. (palami ragud ug storya ba,cge lang pamakak. bisan seryoso kaau ka ug pangotana ba). gibuwagan jud nako cya ts,okey raman pod niya ato nga gibuwagan nako cya. but,mag sige pa cya ato ug communicate nako. syempre kung love nimo mingawon sad bya ka ts noh? gusto pod ka moreply ts noh?hahaha. ako gibuhat ato, g.motivate jud nako ako self nga never najud ko mo communicate niya bahala ug magsige cya ug communicate nako. maoto,naka move on rasad ko after 4months. kapoy sad kog pugong2 ato na tym.. until na ok najud ko. kay kung magpadala rako sa iyang palami nga storya, ma-stress jud ko. mka stress jud 2.hahaha

    P.S. yaw nlng na hunahuna,ma-stress jud ka ana..lol pwede pod ka mag-change ug simcard kung motivated ka nga mo move-on.
    Last edited by hans josefina; 02-23-2014 at 10:59 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mom_ni_matt2x View Post
    We were in a long-distance relationship for 8 months. He lives in Singapore and we have only been together once for 2 weeks which was Christmas and New Year with my family. All throughout the 8 months we have been ON and OFF because I would catch him flirting or having other women on FB. We finally broke up in January but we remained friends on FB. Lately, I have been posting quotes that I am recovering and moving on. I don't initiate chats with him anymore just a move so I can move on faster, and all of a sudden there would be times that he would send me nonsense Viber messages like he's depressed or something, like one time he said he's in a Mental Institution daw coz he's depressed, thhen I ask if he's okay, he's say he's fine, then that's it. The next day he messaged me with "Hi", I said "Hello", then he said he just got discharged, I asked how he is, wala na dayun ni reply.. Sometimes he'd message to ask how I'm doing, when I say I'm fine, he'd reply with "Ok", then that's it.

    What does it mean? Does he miss me or something? I know he has been chatting with many women on whatsapp and tagged lately, so verytime he'd message me, I just say to myself "don't expect something, he's just bored". Am I right to think so?

    Sometimes I flatter myself into thinking that he does miss me, but most of the time (during the duration of the relationship), I felt like I was just an option and he was with me until he found the one he wanted. After all, it is kinda impossible for us to end up together since we are miles apart.
    ayaw nalang usiki imong panahon ana nya mam. obvious na man kaayo.

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