give up or stay martyr.... girls and guys, drop an advice, thanks..

[sugarcakes_babe]

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dugay2 napud mi galive.in, wa pajud mi makasal, 3yrs old nlng among anak wa pajud, next year napud kuno, hahay, im a girl d i by the way, im planning to break up with him, sakto kaha ni akong buhaton? as in dli jud niya priority ang kasal, kay pang karaan ra daw na, karon dili na kuno uso ang kasal importante, way gabinuang nya love ninyo ang usag.usa, nya unsaon paglove nga dli gani ko secure sa akong status, sa among status... hapit najud ko mugive.up, you know diba we girls are so sensitive and big deal kaayo nang wala paka makasal, esp. naa nay anak, nya gipuyo2 raka.... haaaay..... galibog nako unsa akong buhaton.... and gusto ko naa koy buhaton...



your advices are highly appreciated....

[zzexniwp312]

Wa man jud kahay ga binuang missis? Why worry?

pero hinoon sad importante man jud ang kasal, maybe wla pay kwarta si mister maong sige ra cyag saad, e open up lng na niya nganung d jud madayon iyang mga saad. Try to talk to him kay sayang kay inyung relation kung makig buwag ka tungod lng ana. Not just the relation pero inyung anak pud maoy pinakagrabe maapektohan

[sugarcakes_babe]

Wa man jud kahay ga binuang missis? Why worry?

pero hinoon sad importante man jud ang kasal, maybe wla pay kwarta si mister maong sige ra cyag saad, e open up lng na niya nganung d jud madayon iyang mga saad. Try to talk to him kay sayang kay inyung relation kung makig buwag ka tungod lng ana. Not just the relation pero inyung anak pud maoy pinakagrabe maapektohan

hi thanks sa advice, tho i was also thinking the same way, pero bitaw sad noh, i thnk im being too selfish lang pud, luoy kau among anak, pero kana bitawng naa kay gut feeling nga dli xa wiling mo.commit nimo, kutob ra sustento and all, pero kung tying the know nah, wa na, buwa2 ang alibis... paka.martyr nlng para sa anak, pero i myself came from a broken family, kumbaga rampant kaayos among clan ang buwag2, pero infairness kasal sila tanan before pa nagkanda buwag2...

[cuteboy_kahoy]

unsay d.i lain gi busyhan sa imong bf why he always procrastinate naa ba syay gi iponan pra sa inyong kaugmaon?? importante jud oi na makasal mo..naa na mn kahay saktong budget??kung naa ask him the real reason why..

[intellicare]

ka nice ra single ts dah.

[zzexniwp312]

I dont have experiences about jud ana, padung pako diha ug bata pako, but I've been reading lot of relationship problems here in istorya since 2008.
pero naa pajuy mas grabe sa imo problem miss, ang akong point is dont give too much time for those problems have time for your self and your kid too you both deserve to be happy.. but after all that ang pag storyaanay lng jud ninyo sa imong uyab nga nganung d niya mahatag ang ika palipay nimo.

If you came from a broken family that's not a much issue around here. Dpende rana sa pag dala ug sa pag diskarte sa imong kinabuhi.

[sugarcakes_babe]

ka nice ra single ts dah.

hahahahah as in? pero lagi, the depression is all on me, pak! after all, magbuwag rapud d i mo. like lisud kaau i.start sa life after wrecked one, mejo makaya, most esp, naay anak, luoy pud among daughter... pero in time, i know i'll outsmart him...

[naglibog.nako]

Onsa imo age miss og age sa imong partner?......

Ako advise is to sit with him and tell him how you feel.. nga need nimo ang security... through wedding... and then tell him you will give him time to think about it... pro di lang sa nimo siya samukon... which means di sa mo mag puyo... sometimes gud kong naa raka permi.. i neglect rapud ka og permi, kai available man ka... also.. ako advise is don't depend sa lain tao with regards to your own security. You have to be secure sa imong kaugalingon.. remember dili guarantee ang kasal nga di gihapon mo mag buwag.

He has to marry you tungod kai gusto ninyo duha.. di ka tungod gusto nimo. And by giving him space maka huna huna na og tarong. Pero ayaw pag minaldita.. talk like adults.

[sugarcakes_babe]

hi guys, i also transferred the same thread dinhi, refer lang nya, thanks... https://www.istorya.net/forums/family...preciated.html

[sugarcakes_babe]

Onsa imo age miss og age sa imong partner?......

Ako advise is to sit with him and tell him how you feel.. nga need nimo ang security... through wedding... and then tell him you will give him time to think about it... pro di lang sa nimo siya samukon... which means di sa mo mag puyo... sometimes gud kong naa raka permi.. i neglect rapud ka og permi, kai available man ka... also.. ako advise is don't depend sa lain tao with regards to your own security. You have to be secure sa imong kaugalingon.. remember dili guarantee ang kasal nga di gihapon mo mag buwag.

He has to marry you tungod kai gusto ninyo duha.. di ka tungod gusto nimo. And by giving him space maka huna huna na og tarong. Pero ayaw pag minaldita.. talk like adults.

like much! loved ur advice..... as in separate walls sa mi? will think about that, basig makakita na nuon ug lain? hahaha igo kos "aya pag minaldita"... i was actually doing that the whole relationship, making some blackmails and all, but it just wasnt effective....i was then tagged as immature, i don't know, i guess this relationship will eventually drift away, more so naa nami history of infidelities, but he chose us..... marami narin kaming away napagdaanan but still kami parin... i dont hanggan kelan... i guess,nagiging selfish and self-centered lang cguro ako...