HELP I'm confused about my feelings for girls and guys!

[jackie_datsme]

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something's bothering mi jud..

im not dat girly²
im a boyish one.. ahuhu
and i dont like dat..

feel nako double blade ko.. wahahaha

masmore ako crushes na girls den i would stalk dem which is bad..
less ako crushes na guys, himili jud kaayo ko..
i dont want to have a gf but i would rather have a bf and have a husband in the future..

pero mao lagi, masgrabe ako desperate anguish from the same *** dan opposite.. what u think?

[daelite_mistress]

haha
confuse jud....
btw, its easy for me to say na find urself kay lisod man...
lisod pud if, just be true to yourself kay tingali mao nah jud nah......

para ako lang, anah nalang..
haha
at least you know..

[topaz]

kinda ka relate ko ani, dah..hehe
my bestfriend (gal) and i used to admre girls sa mall whenever we go out together.
la lang.admire lang how the gurls looks but not really to the point of stalking them.
scary na pud na.
but laki japon amo, oi..

anyways, jackie,since you are pretty aware na man sa imo behavior, you can do some deep thinking and reflections on what you want. to know what is right and not. and then act on them.

goodluck. GOD bless. may God englight you.=)

[laagan_si_organizer]

at this point, ur having an identity crisis. first thing to do is to reflect on urself. i know it's easier said than done, but it should be the first thing to do. reflect on what u really want to achieve. if u want to get married with a guy, why won't u try having one? i mean, it wud be worth taking the risk, since it wud answer ur questions. if it wudn't work out, don't easily give up. admiring someone of the same *** isn't that bad at all. sometimes, when u admire a girl, it means u have something in common or u share the same interests. i see that u admire girls most, but u can't see urself getting it on a different level. u shud be happy for this, that if u really want to end up with a guy. divert most of ur attention to stuff u usually do that u think is 'girly' i'm not trying to tell u to change everything about u. u can always do the stuff u used to do, but sort it out - like which stuff is more boyish, and which is girly - and do what u think is the girly stuff. i hope u got my point. again, it doesn't hurt when u try go out on a date with a guy. it wud answer ur hesitations and stuff like that.

[akosabni]

i think your normal

your just caught up on what society think is acceptable

[kabz]

ka relate ko gamay hehehe...

[Soul_Captive]

it's all about what you want, which is something you alone can figure..do a little bit more thinking about the issue of what is it that you really want..and stop thinking about what others want for you or whatever other people think..it's your life, you have the right to decide for yourself..

[jackie_datsme]

sa mga nakarelate unsa man inyong gbuhat?

[laagan_si_organizer]

sa mga nakarelate unsa man inyong gbuhat?

i tried to reflect on myself and asked me what i really wanted...i took some risks, and learned a lot of things..from there i made my decision to wherever i'm happy at, which is what i am right now. it made me a better and greater person.

[princezzz_pucca]

di man ko ka-relate gud oi... hehe... but i think when ul finally meet ur destined guy, all those attraction to the same *** thingy will evaporate for good...