Your Parents vs. Your Dreams

[blakrabit]

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Tabang daw guys.

Hahays.

I'm originally from Manila and I've been staying here in Cebu for almost 2 years now.

The thing is, ang ako parents want me to go back home.

Ako kay I already fell in love with Cebu and has a stable job na. Happy na kaayo ko diri.

My parents think na ang ako work karon is not well paying enough for me to hold on to kay mangayo pa man ko sa ila usahay ng money.

Back in Manila kay naa man mi mga business and if mobalik ko hayahay jud ako life didto but I know I won't be happy kay mahimo na pud ko puppet sa akong parents. They will make decisions and impose it on me. Eversince, I've followed whatever it is they want me to do from where school to go to to what I have to take up in college. They've made all the decisions for me that karon at loss pa ko kung unsa jud ako buhaton sa ako life.

Nya diri, bisan budget jud ako money, ako mismo ang mag decide on things in my life. I have a chance to discover myself.

I love my parents and I respect them and kahibaw ko they only want the best for me pero unsaon man nako ni diri man ko happy.

I'm worried about disappointing them. I'm worried that, if I am to trust my guts and follow my heart, that I may end up being disowned by the very people I owe my life to.

[noearthko]

lisura ana TS oi.. bcn na worry ra pd cla nimo.. pasabta lang nganung ganahan ka mo.stay dri.. if possible, ayaw nlang pangayo nila.. mas maau ganikung ikaw muhatag nila bsag ginagmay lang. bahalag daghan clag kwarta aron makita pd nila ba nga ok ra imong kahimtang dri.. di jd na malikayan nga mabalaka imong ginikanan nimo.. mao njd na xa..


lisod jd ibuhi sa imong anak kai pinangga bya kaau na... mkasabot raka ana TS kung naa nka anak..

[mj.pocholo]

Tabang daw guys.

Hahays.

I'm originally from Manila and I've been staying here in Cebu for almost 2 years now.

The thing is, ang ako parents want me to go back home.

Ako kay I already fell in love with Cebu and has a stable job na. Happy na kaayo ko diri.

My parents think na ang ako work karon is not well paying enough for me to hold on to kay mangayo pa man ko sa ila usahay ng money.

Back in Manila kay naa man mi mga business and if mobalik ko hayahay jud ako life didto but I know I won't be happy kay mahimo na pud ko puppet sa akong parents. They will make decisions and impose it on me. Eversince, I've followed whatever it is they want me to do from where school to go to to what I have to take up in college. They've made all the decisions for me that karon at lost pa ko kung unsa jud ako buhaton sa ako life.

Nya diri, bisan budget jud ako money, ako mismo ang mag decide on things in my life. I have a chance to discover myself.

I love my parents and I respect them and kahibaw ko they only want the best for me pero unsaon man nako ni diri man ko happy.

I'm worried about disappointing them. I'm worried that, if I am to trust my guts and follow my heart, that I may end up being disowned by the very people I owe my life to.

by the way how old are ts?

[blakrabit]

by the way how old are ts?

mid 20s na ko boss.

[blakrabit]

lisura ana TS oi.. bcn na worry ra pd cla nimo.. pasabta lang nganung ganahan ka mo.stay dri.. if possible, ayaw nlang pangayo nila.. mas maau ganikung ikaw muhatag nila bsag ginagmay lang. bahalag daghan clag kwarta aron makita pd nila ba nga ok ra imong kahimtang dri.. di jd na malikayan nga mabalaka imong ginikanan nimo.. mao njd na xa..


lisod jd ibuhi sa imong anak kai pinangga bya kaau na... mkasabot raka ana TS kung naa nka anak..

mao jud. hahays. mouli man ko ron Christmas. I hope maka understand sila.

[amazed]

I heard a story before.. pareha nimo ug situation TS.. His family wants him to study Medical courses pro ang gnhan niya is music jd.. pro sunodsunoran lage xa sa iyang parents.. amo 2 gi kuha nalang niya ang course na gusto nila para iyang kwaon.. after studying that course.. graduate na xa, pasar ug board exam.. but then dli jd xa happy.. he did that just to please his parents.. sa iyang thanksgiving celebration nag speech xa.. ana xa nga iyang gbuhat ang tnan para malipay iyang ginikanan niya.. ana daun xa.. kay na accomplish na mn niya ang gusto ipa buhat sa iyang parents niya.. xa na pd daw mag buot sa iyang life.. after a2.. ni study xa ug music.. wla ny ma himo iyang ginikanan sa iyang decision kay iya mn gi tuman una ang gusto sa iyang ginikanan niya..

[blakrabit]

I heard a story before.. pareha nimo ug situation TS.. His family wants him to study Medical courses pro ang gnhan niya is music jd.. pro sunodsunoran lage xa sa iyang parents.. amo 2 gi kuha nalang niya ang course na gusto nila para iyang kwaon.. after studying that course.. graduate na xa, pasar ug board exam.. but then dli jd xa happy.. he did that just to please his parents.. sa iyang thanksgiving celebration nag speech xa.. ana xa nga iyang gbuhat ang tnan para malipay iyang ginikanan niya.. ana daun xa.. kay na accomplish na mn niya ang gusto ipa buhat sa iyang parents niya.. xa na pd daw mag buot sa iyang life.. after a2.. ni study xa ug music.. wla ny ma himo iyang ginikanan sa iyang decision kay iya mn gi tuman una ang gusto sa iyang ginikanan niya..

did he support his own study sa music or parent finance pud?

[neversaydie]

Your parents just want the best for you, all parents do.. we know that.. your parents dili ganahan na maglisud ka, and they're thinking that your job cannot compensate what you need since you ask them sometimes, they knowwhat you need, just let them know how are you doing, visit pud sa ila sometimes para dili sad sila magworry, try to be involve with your business bisan layo ka, atleast makafeel pud sila na okay ka and you care sad sa inyo business, kay it's for you raman pud na kung wala na sila..
Your parents will be happy when they see you happy... you can tell them na it's a way for you to know how to be independent and to live alone with your own way of getting your needs and wants in your own means...

[yvonne6]

ako, parent naman ko. i will respect kung unsa ang gusto sa akong anak even if this means he will be away from home. tungod sa technology karon, naa may daghan means nga ma feel ra gihapon ninyo ang closeness. puede ra pud ka mo uli kung special occasions like Christmas kay duol raman ang manila or ask them to come to cebu and visit you so they will understand why u like it there. dapat man jud nimo tagaan ug chance ang bata ma discover ang iyang kaugalingon. u have to understand as a parent nga importante ang independence sa taw kay not forever naa ta to take care of our kids. write them a letter and be very honest. lisud siguro i verbalize imong feelings just assure them that even if u r not with them you love them dear

[amazed]

did he support his own study sa music or parent finance pud?

on his own na bro.. mka afford na gd xa..