Is it love, if that someone is controlling you?

[Little_Mermaid88]

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Nature sa mga guys nga possesive.. d gnahan nga naay laing katxt, naay dghang conditions. would you consider this as something as concern?

[caris.]

Well..as for me! one of the reason ngno dili ko ganahan na naa lain ka txt akong boyfie kay basin ma tempt or ma develop niya sa ka txt then mg sabot2x dayon na manglaag! and ma consider pud na cya na concern, kay mgkita2x palang uroy sa ka txt, then what if something bad will happen.

[yvonne6]

everything in life comes with rules and guidelines just like governance, ug wala gud tay i follow nga rules, mura na lang na ug mahulog ug open relationship. no matter how open minded and high tech people are these days, a lot of us still desires faithfulness, honesty and exclusivity. daghan na kaau relationships nangabungkag, a lot of people here and there got hurt kay ang usa or both dili man mo follow sa rules or i should say, expectations. when u get into a relationship, naa moy responsibility sa usag usa. now, if u r the type of person nga dili gusto but an, then choose someone to be with which is exactly like you para magkasinabot mo nga mag buhat mog bisag unsa ug walay but anay because its just nature too for anyone to be selfish with the person they love. mawala man gani na ang gikasal na ug matintal pas uban, kana pa ba kahang gf/bf lang. understand why the other is also being possessive, if u cant handle it (both) then mau pa magbuwag na lang ug d magkasinabot. i guess for some they call it controlling but for others its probably their way of showing they love you because they are concern about eventually losing you kaysa sa partners nga walay paki ug asa naka or na unsa naka

[psychologic]

love is freedom TS..

[mbneiz]

everything in life comes with rules and guidelines just like governance, ug wala gud tay i follow nga rules, mura na lang na ug mahulog ug open relationship. no matter how open minded and high tech people are these days, a lot of us still desires faithfulness, honesty and exclusivity. daghan na kaau relationships nangabungkag, a lot of people here and there got hurt kay ang usa or both dili man mo follow sa rules or i should say, expectations. when u get into a relationship, naa moy responsibility sa usag usa. now, if u r the type of person nga dili gusto but an, then choose someone to be with which is exactly like you para magkasinabot mo nga mag buhat mog bisag unsa ug walay but anay because its just nature too for anyone to be selfish with the person they love. mawala man gani na ang gikasal na ug matintal pas uban, kana pa ba kahang gf/bf lang. understand why the other is also being possessive, if u cant handle it (both) then mau pa magbuwag na lang ug d magkasinabot. i guess for some they call it controlling but for others its probably their way of showing they love you because they are concern about eventually losing you kaysa sa partners nga walay paki ug asa naka or na unsa naka

agree ko ani sis, naa koy uyab sauna nga paranoid, akong ka text bisan kaela pan txsan ug dle maayu, I learn her style gbuhat sad nako na nya para ka amgo cya unsay iyang gbuhat bisan nagtinarong ko, and guess what nasakal na hinuon cya igo ra unta ko nagfollow sa iyang gusto at the same time nagremind nya, nag cool of nalang me, wala nay txsanay, walay kitaay kay nilarga man pud cya sa gawas, tapos karon wla na dle na ko ka open sa iyang fb etc, block na gane ko.. thats the freedom she wished for, ghatag nalang nako...

[yvonne6]

^^naay reasons why people can become controlling or paranoid. we have to take into consideration kung gi unsa ninyo pagkaila, diin mo nagkaila and how soon did u jump into the relationship without taking much time to get to know each other. for example, when you met your partner, he/she was with someone else and he/she cheated on his/her partner with you, of course, you will be thinking, he/she can do this with me too. usahay kita man gud ang mangita ug reason nga mag duda ta. kahibalo nata ug unsang klase sa taw ug unsa ang puede nilang himuon but then we fool ourselves by believing that they can change (which rarely happens) what im saying is, ang reason controlling or paranoid ang taw sa relationship is because we know what our partners are capable of doing. sa sugod pa lang, start the relationship right and it will not likely to end at the wrong position

[gboy0313]

ingon ana na ang laki nga way salig sa uyab...sa ako lang...

[Mapz182yo!]

I don't think it's considered love na because in love, dapat fair jud mung duha dili lng kay usa ang mag control sa relationship.
The one that controls is the one who less loves. Char hahaha

[borge_009]

everything in life comes with rules and guidelines just like governance, ug wala gud tay i follow nga rules, mura na lang na ug mahulog ug open relationship. no matter how open minded and high tech people are these days, a lot of us still desires faithfulness, honesty and exclusivity. daghan na kaau relationships nangabungkag, a lot of people here and there got hurt kay ang usa or both dili man mo follow sa rules or i should say, expectations. when u get into a relationship, naa moy responsibility sa usag usa. now, if u r the type of person nga dili gusto but an, then choose someone to be with which is exactly like you para magkasinabot mo nga mag buhat mog bisag unsa ug walay but anay because its just nature too for anyone to be selfish with the person they love. mawala man gani na ang gikasal na ug matintal pas uban, kana pa ba kahang gf/bf lang. understand why the other is also being possessive, if u cant handle it (both) then mau pa magbuwag na lang ug d magkasinabot. i guess for some they call it controlling but for others its probably their way of showing they love you because they are concern about eventually losing you kaysa sa partners nga walay paki ug asa naka or na unsa naka

sakto jud ni. So ang dpat huna2on worth it ba kung nkay i break na rule. dli lang para sa atong mga selfish interest kundi dpat mag
huna2 pud ka sa imung partner.

[THE KID]

og naka feel ka nga gi tuok ka..dili na gugma....