Is it Love or Infatuation?

[airam_asereht]

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my hands are always cold everytime i see him... omigosh... help help.. i can't almosty breath... o mu o my.. is this love or what??.. help.......... dilemma? pano mo nga ba masasabi na love or infatuation lang na fefeel mo sa isang tao... ??

[smoke]

sometimes infatuation means biga lang....heheheheh

[Suzume]

gi biga-an ra diay ko ato? paita sad oi. abi nakog mao na to. hahay, i have a lot to learn pa gyud diay.

[ScReWfAcE]

infatuation ra na.... mata na sa imong mga damgo!

[heaven_ice21]

As a person I still can’t seem to understand the Rules of relationships. In my experience, love has always been about lust, and infatuation. Love, being a word that is often misused almost always describes a liking or a desire for materialistic objects or as a source for ***.

Guys and Girls, who don’t understand the meaning of the word love, throw it around without its significant meaning. Without taking care to know that Love is not just a word in our vocabulary, but a feeling, an emotion. Those who truly appreciate the expression of Love know the twists and turns that love can implore on us, and the good and bad times that love imposes us against.

I’ve lived my life thinking that love would come running to me, without me having to give no effort at all. Surprisingly, I found out soon later that my assumption was wrong, and that it takes two people, to create and mold a bond, which will soon later gradually transform itself into unconditional love, and serenity.

I came to realize some time ago, that love is that itching feeling you get deep within your chest, a feeling that gradually shortens your breath for a brief moment in time, a feeling that you can’t control, and you can’t dismiss or ignore entirely. Although you try your hardest to forget about it and brush it off, that feeling will always be there, waiting for us to decide, and realize what it is that’s really out there for us, and if for some reason, we can never come to our senses and listen to what our hearts our telling us, that feeling, that opportunity will slip away. And finding it again, will only be harder then it was when it was still in our presence.

Once love has found its way into our hearts, there’s no looking back, and there’s no telling what will happen next. Because once Love has found a home in our hearts, it wont leave, unless you let it.

Love will always be true; Love will always be our comfort to run too, Love isn’t right or wrong, Love isn’t pointing fingers at each other, and Love is never forgetting.

Love will steer our hearts into a place unknown, a place not like the world we live in today, but in a place where we “breathe imagination and exhale wonder”. It’s a place where we can be ourselves, it’s a place where we don’t have to look good, or impress anyone, a place that’s isolated from the world of chaos and stress. A Place we can run too, when we want to feel cherished.

To love is to accept every part, every detail, and every flaw, the one you love has. People nowadays create an image of how they want their partner to be or how they want their partner to look like in the future, without already knowing, that once you found the love of your life, the way they look, the ways they act, and the flaws that they have, don’t matter, not even a little bit.

To love is learning how to forgive, and how to give others a second chance. Everyone makes mistake, because no one is perfect. So once we all learn how to forgive, we learn the curves of relationships.

In order to love, we all know we must love ourselves first. That being a difficult task for some takes a lot of maturity and accepting. But once we accept who we are, and what God blessed us with, we no longer take advantage of the people around us. And loving someone deeply for who they truly are, will brighten our horizons, and expand the way we think and the way we act. Accepting who you are is a step into growing up, and we grow up progressively every single day.

Real Love? It’s a feeling.

And feelings have their way of changing or concentrating on different path ways and roads. Sometimes feelings fade away, and soon they disappear. And when that happens confusion and regret tend to interrupt the tranquility that once was.


If your heart only beats for this person, then the love you two share is worth fighting for, it’s worth risking and sacrificing your all. If your heart stays true and loyal, then the feelings that seem to fade away can at once be restored. Even if the feelings you have seem to slip out of your finger tips, there’s always a resolution, and there’s always a way to fix it. Being in Love is believing in the love you have. And believing in the love you have and the love you created can get you two through the toughest times and still the love will always be there.

[huslabiatch]

read my forum THE LOVE THAT I KNOW....

[ya]

mao jud biga ra na tanan

[madzZz]

well.. if you're heart beats really fast i think that's love giving u a sign...

but if other...I guess you're just nervous or too excited to see him...
libog man sad kaau ma ing ana nga situation gud...
it's really hard to explain..

[KaTzKi]

well.. ikaw mismu kibaw ka ana if love or not.. if infatuation.. ud go "OMG! there goes my heart.. HELP! i cant seem to move my feet.. am stuck.. oh NO! am flyin!".. kanang mga over na kayu ba.. but when it comes to love.. miskan unsa pa na nawng niya.. miskan pag matawag kag martyr.. ud stick it wit him.. na if ever a times comes hed leave u, ud break down.. but it could be other things fer some ppl.. lahi² mn dyud na.. so u yerself shud knoe tha difference..

[blackened]

infatuation will just lead to impacho!!! hahaha