What am i going to do? Do I need to sacrifice everything?

[AshLeyann31905]

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I want to share something and ask some advice guys if what should i do. I really hope that you guys can give some advice.
I have a bf and seven years nami ..so naglibog ko kay nahan na xa magminyo mi but the problem is we're not the same religion man.
.i'm just confused or let me say na ga libog pa ko kung m convert ba ko..I understand sa iyahang side na d xa pwd m convert kay it's a big problem man
gud ma involve tanan family niya.
I need to sacrifice this relationship ang akoa is ang pag pananghed sa aku parents kay member man gud sila sa CFC..
.it's a big problem for me.
I don't like to lost him he's the best and the perfect guy that i've ever met...Even ako mga friends mo ana na swerte daw ko kay buotan kau
siya den responsabli sad kaau. masinabtanon pa jud kaau...I want him to stay in my side forevEr.
Guys i need some advie what Am i going to do? I need to fight our relationship...Do i need to convert? or i'll jus give up...I really love him..

What am i going to do? Do I need to sacrifice everything?

[bbnescia]

if ever magminyo jud mo, ayaw nalang mo pakasal ug church day mas maayo civil wedding nalang. I dont know pud kng kauyong pud inyong mga parents ana kay mga dedicated man sila sa ilang tagsa tagsa ka religion. pagsabot mog maayo jud ana, pero kng makahukom jd mo nga magpa civil wedding nya masuko na inyong parents aw agwantaha lang sa pelmiro ra na masuko then mawala ra pud na,makasabot ra na sila sa kadugayan.

[666satan]

naa ra sa inyo duha kung kinsa magpa convert...kung wla mo give way sa inyo duha...dli jd destiny....

[AshLeyann31905]

if ever magminyo jud mo, ayaw nalang mo pakasal ug church day mas maayo civil wedding nalang. I dont know pud kng kauyong pud inyong mga parents ana kay mga dedicated man sila sa ilang tagsa tagsa ka religion. pagsabot mog maayo jud ana, pero kng makahukom jd mo nga magpa civil wedding nya masuko na inyong parents aw agwantaha lang sa pelmiro ra na masuko then mawala ra pud na,makasabot ra na sila sa kadugayan.

Thanky but the problem is how do we start sa conversation if nana mi atobangan sa akng parents? they already know that lain religion aku bf but la paku n open up nila na nahan na mi mag minyo....as of now i really feel confused pman gud sa amu situation. anyway thanks kau i will gain a lot of advice here and maybe it can help me to decide if what wud b the best thing that i can do..

[iwantmyboyfriend]

ning demand siya na magpa convert ka? muslim siya?

ug tinuod giud na love ka niya, his personal beliefs should not be in the way.. because whatever his religion is, his love should be stronger... pwede man na mag kanyahay lang mo ug practice ug beliefs pero shempre, mu create giud ni ug conflict..

mao na imong ingon na love giud ka niya and 7 years namo.. pero this is where you will be tested, and this is where you will find out if you really love him.
If ikaw gnahan ka mu convert sa iyang religion, then your parents SHOULD understand na imo mana kinabuhi.. anyway, CFC should not discriminate other religions for we are all the same in the eyes of God.

dapat giud tanan tao mag respetohay unsa religion sa lain.. i think a muslim, a christian, a jew, and an athiest can live under one roof as long as they will set their differences aside.. mag kanyahay lang gud sila unsa ilang kan-on hehehe..

ug ako sa imong situation, if I really love him, i will marry him but dili ko mu convert sa iyang religion.. and he has to accept na dli ko mu convert sa iyang religion kay dli man pd nako siya pugson mu convert sa akong religion. I will remain who I am despite what they want me to be, and if they cannot deal with it... sila nalang mag minyo sa ilang kaugalingon simbahan..

I know what I said is harsh, but there's no use sugar-coating something as important as this in your life.

Good luck sis and I hope you see beyond your religious belief.. LOVE giud dapat mag una.. love for yourself, your family, and your community..\m/ rock on!

[AshLeyann31905]

naa ra sa inyo duha kung kinsa magpa convert...kung wla mo give way sa inyo duha...dli jd destiny....

oh! no..i'm willing to give way..but mao lageh how we're going to ask permission to both parents..

[arf2]

if the guy loves you siya pa convert

[AshLeyann31905]

ning demand siya na magpa convert ka? muslim siya?

ug tinuod giud na love ka niya, his personal beliefs should not be in the way.. because whatever his religion is, his love should be stronger... pwede man na mag kanyahay lang mo ug practice ug beliefs pero shempre, mu create giud ni ug conflict..

mao na imong ingon na love giud ka niya and 7 years namo.. pero this is where you will be tested, and this is where you will find out if you really love him.
If ikaw gnahan ka mu convert sa iyang religion, then your parents SHOULD understand na imo mana kinabuhi.. anyway, CFC should not discriminate other religions for we are all the same in the eyes of God.

dapat giud tanan tao mag respetohay unsa religion sa lain.. i think a muslim, a christian, a jew, and an athiest can live under one roof as long as they will set their differences aside.. mag kanyahay lang gud sila unsa ilang kan-on hehehe..

ug ako sa imong situation, if I really love him, i will marry him but dili ko mu convert sa iyang religion.. and he has to accept na dli ko mu convert sa iyang religion kay dli man pd nako siya pugson mu convert sa akong religion. I will remain who I am despite what they want me to be, and if they cannot deal with it... sila nalang mag minyo sa ilang kaugalingon simbahan..

I know what I said is harsh, but there's no use sugar-coating something as important as this in your life.

Good luck sis and I hope you see beyond your religious belief.. LOVE giud dapat mag una.. love for yourself, your family, and your community..\m/ rock on!

Thank you sis.,.so i need to think it over and over again.. hehehehe

[AshLeyann31905]

if the guy loves you siya pa convert

hehehe..thanks sa advice.

[dallaxz18]

ayaw pa convert oi... stay wat ur religion is.. sukad pagkabata ingon ana na imo religion tapos mag balhin2 lang ka? .do u really understand wat religion s ur bf?

let ur bf convert to ur religion..not u..f he really loves u, maybe he will understand u.. and of corz, mo give xa sa iyang religion and modapig xa nimo.. f dli xa mogive up, nah, kuyaw na ikaw maoy ma under, or maybe magka conflict mo f modako ang pride sa both sides.. dapat naa gyuy mopaubos..