should one's past matter?

[xyrcler]

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I fall for a woman who've had quite a number of past relationships. And no doubt I love this woman so much, so much that the thought of how much I love her could make me cry. I could say if not for the fact that she's been with so many guys, everything would have gone smoothly. just wanna know if normal ba ko nga tawo for taking this into consideration or there are also men out there nga makarelate...geunsa ninU pagrecover?

Girls opinion are welcome...

[irishe]

TS, you're just definitley in love.!! what made me say this..? because it doesn't matter to you her past and iya binuhatan..

[twistedANGEL25]

TS,if you really love her,then you won't mind her past...
I know lisod na buhaton,pero just want to give you a thought:

If she didn't have her past,it wouldn't lead her to her present...Which is YOU.

[kentoy0224]

past is past they all say but if your not careful, the past could bite you in the ass...

susiha lang ug maau TS kay basin ikaw nasad unya ang mahimong past...but if both of you have the same disposition of the present and are willing to take a chance for the future then by all means take the risk...if it's all worth it.

[noel_llapa]

It's OK to love her DESPITE her past, but it won't be healthy if you completely IGNORE her past. unsaun na lang basin kung naa syay anak sa lain or worse naa nay syay STD. Kinahanglan jud na you both reveal to each other your history para mabal-an daan ang katag. hehe. After anah, you can both start over with a clean slate dayun, no secrets, only a loving and open relationship. ^_^

[kentoy0224]

TS,if you really love her,then you won't mind her past...
I know lisod na buhaton,pero just want to give you a thought:

If she didn't have her past,it wouldn't lead her to her present...Which is YOU.

...but if her present would suddenly become her past maybe you should kick the s*it out of her future bwehehehe... sakto ba twist?

[Edifier]

Quoted from a girl.

"I had a life before I met you but doesn't matter now. You are my life since the day we met. "

[twistedANGEL25]

...but if her present would suddenly become her past maybe you should kick the s*it out of her future bwehehehe... sakto ba twist?

Ikaw gyud Kentoy!Kick gyud?!Di ba nahan man ka mu KISS arse?LOL!

[Insanitarium]

Should one's past matter? In love, no.
Should you care about one's past? Yes.

If you're expecting a short term relationship, I guess it would not matter. Love is irrational and unexplainable afterall. Only humans try to reason out.

But, IMHO, it matters in society and in a long term relationship.
- What if kasal na diay ang tao? Nya wala ka kabalo? Gibuang-buang ra diay ka? Mura ka ug kabit.
- Children? Children from other men or women?
- Probability of STDs. Sad to say but almost every one is doing it. And some people have weird practices and fetishes.
- Scandals. Basin ikaw ray wala kabalo!

Sakit man makabalo sa past sa usa ka tao, especially sa imong lover, but we have to face reality. You can try to avoid or repeat old mistakes by knowing the past.

Also TS... regarding multiple relationships. You might as well know a bit of why they failed or ended. There's always more than 2 sides. Bad and decent endings. Ang babae nagbinuang or gibinuangan sa laki or the relationship just didn't work well and both fell out of love for each other.

If hilig magbinuang ang babae, and a major flirt, basin mao sad mahitabo nimo.

[azaleayve]

It doesnt really matter kung pila na kabuok ang nauyab sa usa ka tao as long as u love him/her and accept him/her for who he/she is..but u also have to know her past,like sa usa ka applicant sa job: know jud what are the reasons or unsai gidugayon niya sa previous relationships niya...basin pul.anun siya or mugbo ra og stints..