will u be happy.... r u rili happi?

[werty]

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will u be happy, when in xchange for that happiness is hurting & giving pain to som1?

[dreamgirl]

is this a love problem again werty

you have to follow your heart whatever makes you happy even it if means breaking somebodys heart. thats the way it goes.. would you rather spend your life with someone you don't love anymore just becasue youre afraid of breaking his heart that would be unfair on your part and you are lying to to yourself and to your gf about your true feelings... why not tell her the truth that you just can't be with her anymore and that you have found someone new.

[psyche_08]

id rather not...

[crazy_monkey]

a difficult question indeed...if you don't care about anyone else other than yourself then you could be happy...but if you're a person who thinks of ohters and their feelings then you will not be happy even if you're with the one you really love...CHAR!!!!!!

[psyche_08]

if this is a love problem then hear this...
we all have diff situations and one of this is mine...

yes! i admit... i made someone unhappy bec i love him and i took the risk just to be with him... i knw i was hurting somebody but i just cnt let him go... i maybe selfish for thinking all bout myself but at least i was not being hipocrite... i was just being honest with myself... and i still am in love with him... really in love...

[crazy_monkey]

hm...gravehh ka psyche_08 ha...it depends man sad sa situation.but i don't know im not the judge here...eheheheh

[moonstone]

i think 8s being egoistic to think of ur own hapiness...
being hapi at the expense of hurting sum1 s being unfair!!
unfair!!! unfair!!!

[psyche_08]

it really is unfair but u deserve to be happy too... ey, moonstone wat f u really really love somebody (u think he/she is the one) and that somebody feels the same way bout u but he/she happens to hav somebody nga d nya love... but that somebody really really loves him/her... wud u or wud u not take the risk of having that person

[END]

saddist ang mga people who are happy while hurting and inflicting pain to other people.. love is not hurting someone else and making yourself happy.. its how you give them freedom.. pero kanang gnthink "nimo" nga freedom lahi na na..

[werty]

it really is unfair but u deserve to be happy too... ey, moonstone wat f u really really love somebody (u think he/she is the one) and that somebody feels the same way bout u but he/she happens to hav somebody nga d nya love... but that somebody really really loves him/her... wud u or wud u not take the risk of having that person

naay koy mahatag na suggestion ani kay ako frend ingon ani sad.. well if i was that guy sa laktod i wont insert myself or fit dayon sa ilang relationship.. but instead ill let the girl decide & settle the matter with his current bf. if she think dat things can stil work out between them, den ill be happy for her coz she will be happy... but if dili jud sila, and she decided to break up with him and stay with me, den ill be happy with this tooo... yes, she may have hurt that guy but i can stil say that this guy is better free & swerte gamay coz her gf was being honest with him.. wala sya nasakiti coz nagbreak sila, but he is hurt becoz things are not the way he expected it to be... ako sad tingali, i wont feel any guilt, or any pain on wat happened coz i gave them a chance to settle the matter before i make my move with this girl... im a person na usually thinks about other person man gud before myself, no matter who dat person rili is....

taasa sa ako drama uy... luv luv nasad? ting tugnaw man gud mao puro ta luv diri,or is it ako lang ang sige luv luv... hehehe :mrgreen: