How to say "NO"

[dimplesheaven]

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How to say "NO" to someone who is so important to you but you're just like an option for them . It's really hard especially if they mean so much to you... Share ideas naman oh...thanks...

[sugbuana]

cut all means of communication & be invisible

[cjmagowan]

uhhmm.... "NO" ??

[noctURnalGAL]

How to say "NO" to someone who is so important to you but you're just like an option for them . It's really hard especially if they mean so much to you... Share ideas naman oh...thanks...

--say NO? to what specifically?
btaw, for me, e cut ang communication since option raman ka.
sayon ra ky isulti pro lisod buhaton, i understand.
been there, done that.. and the pain is killing me

[noel_llapa]

'Wag po! Huwag po kuya. hehe. :P

[bowee]

saying No and not anymore to someone who treats you as just an option, is pretty much simple. Don't go with that person anymore.. There's no need to say NO and there's no need to reason out or explain to that person why you don't want to be with him or her na.... Avoidance is your key...

Avoiding someone (w/o the need to explain to him/her) can have a beneficial effects on you.. and can also let that someone realize on how valuable you truly are, that is..

once he or she will be missing you already...

[dimplesheaven]

saying No and not anymore to someone who treats you as just an option, is pretty much simple. Don't go with that person anymore.. There's no need to say NO and there's no need to reason out or explain to that person why you don't want to be with him or her na.... Avoidance is your key...

Avoiding someone (w/o the need to explain to him/her) can have a beneficial effects on you.. and can also let that someone realize on how valuable you truly are, that is..

once he or she will be missing you already...

Thanks..Sounds easy...I already tried it for some, so far it works...But when they tried to contact me, I'm always reminded of Mother Theresa's unfading love to mankind...Medyo may conflict na sa belief ko and doing the act of avoiding someone...

[dimplesheaven]

Painful kasi kalaban ko sarili ko... Kahit nasasaktan nah..sige padin kasi ang teachings sa atin,love one another...

[Sand Man]

Painful kasi kalaban ko sarili ko... Kahit nasasaktan nah..sige padin kasi ang teachings sa atin,love one another...

Although I feel your pain, and believe me I was like you before, but I think you are over thinking it. Take it from someone who's been in that situation -- you know what you have to do, but you don't wanna do it coz it "hurts".

Tell you what, it hurts if you continue to see him, and it also hurts if you decide to walk away. But the biggest difference between the two options is that the latter will allow you to explore new things. Walk away.

Cheer up! Ask BoBo for advice...

[bowee]

TS..

I know your a good natured person.. but in this world.. if you don't distance yourself to someone who mistreats you a lot, then your tantamount to be abuse in the long run... Please don't be a martyr anymore.. for pete's sake!

I agree.. there are no abusers if there are no person to be abuse to.. first thing you need to learn before loving other people is TO LOVE YOURSELF first.. How can you really love others when you yourself doesn't value yourself... for what your worth as a person..

Judging from your personality.. the persons you love are really lucky to have you.. your one of a kind.. but your not lucky to have them.. that's my take...

I hate martyrs because they are the reasons why there a lot of abusive persons in this world.... Persons who oppress tends to be more opressive because they are being driven by people who let them be...

I pity you TS... you don't really love yourself jud.. (you may have a low self esteem when your a child, and because of this low self esteem, you just allow others to treat you this way inorder for them to just stick with you..bisan sakit na kau sa imong self)


wanting and hunger to be love... is okay.. as long as that persons you tend to love.. does not violate your human dignity as a person na..

again TS.. I pity you... Love yourself first.. before you can give love and let someone love you in return... Its the last thing you can ever give yourself to... Loving you for who and what you are