how to say NO/DILI to your suitors ug sa gpanguyaban nimu?

[xiaomai]

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hello istoryans,

need your comments and suggestion about these common event in our lives where we meet people we fall in love with and to people we don't fall in love to. How do we say yes and how do we say NO? saying yes is simple but lets focus on HOW TO SAY NO, where we really mean it without hurting their feelings

How to say NO or dili to our suitors or sa atong gpanguyaban?
ANyone can help?
I have a few to count in my list nga suitors (haba nang hair ko)lol
anyways i want to tell them that i am not interested in a good way ba nga
dili ko kapasakit sa ilang feelings...

i am good to them and because i am too good, i can't find the right words to say nga im not interested.

i dont have anything in mind now and if i had i don't know if this will work out, so i might need
your help gyud.


bring it on girls and boys...
i would appreciate you guys to respect this thread kay
ako intention makabuhat ug makasulti ug tarong sa mga taw nga
dili ko makapasakit..

[Maikeru]

You'll be breaking a bad news so it is inevitable.
Sakitan jud na ang person if maBusted (provided tinudAnay iya intention).
La jud ni workaround. Bad news always hurts.

So my advice, be honest on what you feel for them then, hinay-hinaya lang gud og sulti.

[xiaomai]

i could be honest coz im as transparent as a luminous plastic but i don't know which
word to use to say NO and how would i be able to confined them if ever they get hurt
or ilang ego, u know na bya...EGO AND PRIDE ..lisud gyud

[PipayNove]

i wud love to befriend you-my pleasure really
thank u 4 admirng me,let's get 2 knw each ader well hun,
for now,i tink we'll be betr of rens

[jamloy2009]

up ko ani... lindot ni cya nga thread... Nice TS

[xiaomai]

OT: lamatz.. comment pud dha

[jamloy2009]

ok...

Just tell him what really is the reason kung why d jud pwede nga magkadaun mo... pasabta cya... tell him everything... para di cya magduda.... if he really loves you he will understand and if possible can w8 nimo hangtod madawat na cya sa girl... kai as they says, "love can wait" hehehhee... if di jud cya kasabot di nana love... obsession nana.. ehehhehe... if that's happen palayo nlang daan.. ehhehehe

[jamloy2009]

kung d jud nahan ang girl nko then basted ko.... wa na jud ko mahimo ana... dawaton nlang jud.... lain man sad kung ipamugos nko ako self... masayang lang ako time nga anay nko ihatag sa right girl para nko...

[mhelgarfield]

naa koi friend nga nanguyab naku sauna...
but i don't want to bring our relationship to the next level..
so i just told him that im not the right girl for him...and i don't deserve his time and effort..and in time he will find a girl who's much worthy of him..

[xiaomai]

OT: thanks sa ni post.. keep it coming pls