The Cure for Lovesickness

Pink Thunder gets a lot of traffic and comments to her article on Lovesickness. Many of the comments left behind ask for a cure and so I would like to offer these suggestions for the lovelorn and lovetorn.
I believe that the cure for lovesickness lies not within the success or failure of the desired relationship nor does it rest with the behavior or character of the beloved. Instead you and you alone hold the key to curing your lovesickness.

I have described at length the symptoms and experience of lovesickness. Now more on the cause: perhaps the root of lovesickness is found in personal insecurity and fear of the future. You fear the power of the beloved to enhance or destroy your life. Your very chance of happiness on earth depends on the favorable attention of and access to the beloved.
However, if you can free yourself from this fear of the future...if you can release the connection between happiness and the beloved, then you have a chance at reducing or eliminating your lovesickness. For you can be happy no matter what happens between you and your lover. No matter what happens, over time you may find another. Or perhaps you may indeed be alone without someone to love forever. That doesn't mean your life has no meaning and that you are in fact alone. Dedicate your life to yourself -- your own growth and development. To helping and serving others. Get interested in what's going on out there in the world. Shift the focus as much as you can from the other person and expand your vision and heartpower to encompass the world.
This is your cure. Be unafraid of the future -- with or without this person in your life loving you and you alone, you will survive, thrive and contribute to a better world. Have courage and never give up hope for a brighter day...

quoted from: www.pinkthunder.com