My cousin has a baby with our other relative!

[AnakinXD]

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Fellow Istoryans im posting this for my cousin, the situation is that he had a relationship with a girl who happens to be our relative, they say that both of them are also cousins, but the girl wont accept the fact that their relationship could not be accepted in the community she wont agree that they are cousins for she love the guy so much,

Now the girl is pregnant and is living with her classmate, she already stop attending her class at a nursing school at banilad, for she is pregnant. Now she is confuse and wants to let go of the baby for the guy which happen to be my cousin dont want to commit, "if angkonon sa guy nga mao toh nihitabo sure ang girl nga ma patay sa parents sa laki ang guy" im advising the girl not to abort the baby pero ganahan pa jud daw siya mo tiwas ug school, wala na siya ron ni uli sa ilaha kay tungod sa nahitabo then ang guy mura ra ug wala, wala gani ko sulti,e nga naa na diay tong bata,a sa tiyan sa girl, then this bothers me a lot kay sige ug tawag ang girl na ko kada gabie then mag sige ug hilak, then gusto siya nga pa adtoon ko sa iyang g stayhan ambot ug ngano, tsk tsk guys I need some other advices unsa mas maayo buhaton,
Take note: Im on a relationship too.

[THE KID]

to wat degree ang pagka relativef dili na sila 1st degree cousin..oks rana....kinahanglan na i inform ang parents sa girl no matter wat will happen..ayaw na i tago2..kai mogawas ra gihapon na.....

[coolguyiam20]

need rana cya nga naa mg.comfort niya..

[Dax101106]

BItaw bro, maayo pah nga e-sulti nalang nah siya nimo sa both of their parents kay para dili mo dako ang situation... Nara nah sa parents nila if unsaon nah nila pag settle... If layo rah gani kaayo ang pagka relative nila kay murag madala raman ngali nah but depende hah...

First move kay sultie ang ilang parents kay basin maghikog nya ang girl or iyang ipakuha ang baby niya...

[AnakinXD]

guys mao lagi, then ang guy wala kahibaw nga kibaw ko nga pregnant iyang uyab, kay ang girl ra ni deritso ug tawag na ko dunno diin siya kuha sa ako number pero, childish ug utok man gud ang guy bisag 20 na toh akong cousin, basta lahi jud guys,
@THE KID: murag naa sa 2nd degree bro, mao lagi guys need ra niya naa mag comfort niya naka plano na gani siya ug mag hikog na lang daw, saUnz

@All ok ra nga mo adto ko sa iyang g stayhan? bisag naa ko uyab?, i told my gf about the situation and dili siya mo sugot nga mo adto ko, but ang iya g advice is that ang girl maoy mo ari sa amo,a then kuyogan na ko sa balay sa akong cousin, which i think if it would happen magka world war 3 jud didto sa balay, Y_Y

[I-lab-Iero]

Very complicated,
Impossible things made possible does make impossible outcomes.
No the baby should stay,
Does the parent of the girl know about the situation, there is no other being
who can help the girl except the parents.
She can still continue on studying, I know the parents will look after her future.
Just open up the problem with her parents, she needs help now very badly.

[AnakinXD]

@ I-lab-Iero: thanks sis, ang parents sa girl wala pa kahibaw sa situation, currently nag tago2 ron ang girl ug walay uli2 sa ilaha tungod sa nahitabo, ang iya ron kauban kay iyang classm8 sa college, I told her that kind of strategy once pero dili jud daw niya kaya mahadlok jud daw siya kay gubot jud konoh kaayo ang mahitabo, tsk tsk @_@

[hollister_06]

1. Continue and finish school. BOTH THE GUYS.
2. Keep the child and raise it. Everyone needs to help.
3. Cooperate, Reconcile, Mediate and arrange aggreements.

Not about what you want or your status.

Now...what is best for the child's future and well-being?

That should be the most important. Children/Babys are not toys, possessions, property. They are human.

[hollister_06]

Just means EVERYONE will have to work twice as hard and be more efficient and budget wisely.

[tobeymaguire]

Very complicated,
Impossible things made possible does make impossible outcomes.
No the baby should stay,
Does the parent of the girl know about the situation, there is no other being
who can help the girl except the parents.
She can still continue on studying, I know the parents will look after her future.
Just open up the problem with her parents, she needs help now very badly.

remember this brader.....