My married friend gets a divorce since she just had a baby with a gay guy

[nitwit]

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please close this thread. problem has been fixed.

[akosabni]

if your going to adopt the baby, make sure its legal ... have the proper documents

[darkraven]

if i where your hubby, or bisag friend lang, i'll advice you the same...
if ever ganahan jud ka to adopt the child. make it legal. do some paperworks para dili lang madalidali og kuha ang bata. like you hubby said, basig ma emotionally attached naka sa bata then kuhaon lang, masakitan pud ka, mao nay gilikayan sa imong hubby nga masakitan ka in the future.

as to the gurl nga imong friend. kung ako ang iyang hubby, makigbuwag sad jud ko...
lisod na mabalik ang trust once it is broken....

[pigrah]

yeah i agree...u should have it legit pra walay complications in the future. kaluoy sad sa bata, unwanted but u have the power to change that.
i hope u will have the strength to take care of it and love it like ur own.

ang safe thing to do ra jud is to adpot it legally.

[nitwit]

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[nitwit]

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[maitoots]

luoy pd sa baby sis oi.. adopt na lang the child kay i think murag dli na jud kakaya ang mother ana.. pero before doing that talk to the mother jud.. settle things with her arn klaro and make it legal arn way labad sa ulo later on.. kay what if in 2 months dli nya mkuha? nya ma attach njud ka sa bb since wpa rba moy bb sa imo hubby... you'll be amazed as to how bbs can really make you do the impossible everything happens for a reason.. tngli kani nga bb is destined to be with you jud.. tell your family the truth.. tngali sad oi they will understand kay bsan kinsa pa mabutang sa imong shoe i think will do the same..

[nitwit]

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[maitoots]

ingna nlang imo hsband na practice nani kay sooner of later we'll gonna have one might as well prepare you for this.. btaw lisud sad if imo jud ipugos kay tngli kamo na sa imo hsband ang mag away.. i guess the best you can do is talk to your friend.. ingna cya na nahan aau ka mo help pero ing ani pd ang situation nko karn with my hsband.. then gai cya time frame as to how long you will keep the bb, say mga 3 weeks or a month of less if dli nya kuhaon, wa ka lain mahimo bt ibilin sa papa ang bb whether she like it or not.. dli napd tngli cya mka blame nmo ana oi.. then talk to your hsband ingna nga temporary rman ni pag keep sa nnyo sa bb while the mommy is sorting things out.. then ingna cya how long u gonna keep the bb, cguro sad mkasabot cya..

[jntio]

adopt nalng na sis oi... luoy pd sa baby