What prevents separation/divorce/annulment

[i-c-u-p]

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This is to express your thoughts about the subject of separation/divorce/annulment.
The what, why, where, how...and anything in between (infidelity, abuse, conflict....).
Whats really makes you believe the purpose of a relationship.
Why a relationship gone sour?
How to understand MEN and How to understand WOMAN.
What Men wants/needs, What WOMAN wants/needs.
What can you do to keep the passion going.
What can you do to to prevent the increasing statistics of divorce/annulment/separation.

(this is in Lieu of so many Celebrities Marriage gone Bad....Why?)

[i-c-u-p]

What MEN want and need most is to feel successful and provide fulfillment for his partner.
This is his means to feel loved. When a man does something and the woman acknowledge it just even to say "thank you", it makes them feel good about themselves.
This is because the mens role in womens life is to portray as her hero.
There could be some other reason but this is instinctively main reason.
We can expound about this but this should be good for a start.

[carbrill]

para mag sinabtanay ang duha ka tao, sa gi ingon pang soul doctor kanhanglan gyud nga naa mo same level para makasinabtanay mo...

one of the factors sa separation is misunderstanding due to lack of communication, trust, over protective taas nga garbo... better open ur mind and by giving a space between both of u para maka think mo before mo himo ug move nga maka daot sa inyo relationship...

dnhi na mo sud ang saying nga kung di jud mo para each other ayaw na lng pugsa kay di jud na mo work out...

[aozora]

guys, everything should start in the dating phase and not after marriage.
you should not overlook your partner's behavior and attitude during dating.
most of the guys' interest level towards their partner is so high up to the stratosphere that they tend to overlook bad things their partner does. which is a no no.

over the long haul, you must give your partner respect, affection, romance and humor and keep her interested to you!

[i-c-u-p]

guys, everything should start in the dating phase and not after marriage.
you should not overlook your partner's behavior and attitude during dating.
most of the guys' interest level towards their partner is so high up to the stratosphere that they tend to overlook bad things their partner does. which is a no no.

over the long haul, you must give your partner respect, affection, romance and humor and keep her interested to you!

The whole relationship exist before, during and the ongoing part of it.
The frequently asked question is how to show respect, affection, Romance, and humor to eventually keep the interest to one another.

[i-c-u-p]

para mag sinabtanay ang duha ka tao, sa gi ingon pang soul doctor kanhanglan gyud nga naa mo same level para makasinabtanay mo...

one of the factors sa separation is misunderstanding due to lack of communication, trust, over protective taas nga garbo... better open ur mind and by giving a space between both of u para maka think mo before mo himo ug move nga maka daot sa inyo relationship...

dnhi na mo sud ang saying nga kung di jud mo para each other ayaw na lng pugsa kay di jud na mo work out...

This is such an interesting thought.
I agree that a relationship to flourish and served its purpose is when both individual stands to the same principle, philosophy, and beliefs and values in life....
It is easy to spell Miscommunication, distrust,jealousy, pride...but we need to know how to prevent it from happening...
Why these things happen??
To the extent that if things dont work out, its conclusive that its over....Its that easy....
Can it prevented?....
Why 2 people who once enjoy each others company, celebrates joy and contemplates sorrows synchronously.....then all of a sudden they are torn apart.....?How to prevent this from happening?

[aozora]

The whole relationship exist before, during and the ongoing part of it.
The frequently asked question is how to show respect, affection, Romance, and humor to eventually keep the interest to one another.

hey! if you don't have those qualities or you don't know how to do them, what's there to begin with?!
ngano magminyo man ka in the first place?

others may say, just for fun...sunod sa uso...feeling lang...let's see...unsa kahay lami ani... <= then that's the problem!
na-ay family planning but literally there is none!

come on guy! study study study apply apply apply sa tibuok nimo nga kinabuhi! i think this is the answer to your faq.

[Blackjellybean27]

it's not just about love, it's commitment.

[i-c-u-p]

it's not just about love, it's commitment.

Statistic shows commitment in its strict meaning failed by 90% of all marriage, no matter how manny years they are in the relationship. They found out that relationship who coexist leaves when things does not go their way, literally, and mentally as short as 10 minutes to years....they abandoned the marriage.....As simple as ignoring ones concern to communicate....
This is where it all starts......its snowballed up to the time that one hires a lawyer...Or just simply pack and leave...

[i-c-u-p]

Why are there conflicts to a relationship, Where does it come from.
Whats the solution to conflicts.
Its is best to understand how to keep yourself aware and understand what the conflict is all about.
Once there is something going to happen on a relationship, your reaction is the domineering factor to the outcome of your emotional status.
Some people Claimed that they are "stressed" about constant conflicts in a realtionship.
STRESS is the code for FEAR.
If things dont go your way...you are stressed...You feel like you are not enough and therefore you are not loved.

first you have to learn to create a great Love to yourself.
If 2 individual go into a relationship because you want to get the love instead of give a love...Its like 2 people starving trying to take each other food...thats as close as hell is defined...All that you are looking for is inside you...
Loving is giving not taking...Because whatever you give to your partner...you will get that love in return...in most cases getting it more...

Always asked...
What else could the conflict means....
In every negative reason you have ...find 5 good reason why someone would do it to you...