Gone after so LONG..

[sabrinxy]

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There always comes a time when relationships are really over even if how long you've been together with that person. Well, mine goes like this..

I've known this guy since 2nd year HS and we've been together for almost 4 years. We have 2 kids, one of which is 2 years old and the youngest 2 months old. We separated a week before I gave birth to my 2nd because he had another girlfriend when I was 7 months pregnant. I was already having doubts about him. And every time I ask him what's wrong or is there somebody, he'd always tell me 'wala'.. So, I thought everything was ok until a week before I gave birth. He left me. Bummer for a pregnant lady eh? If he only knows what he could have caused me. He could have caused me my life. I was already having BP of 150/110 because of all the stress, worries and problems he has given me. Well, obviously you'd know how I've felt during the process right? Very much depressed. Then here he comes to me with all the insults, making me feel very down. Degrading me to his friends and family. Is it right for a guy to do that to a girl? I have done everything for him and for his kids. Taking care of them and loving them and that's what he repays me back with? Well, I guess he's just sour graping because he can't see his kids anymore. I mean, my family, they are all so pissed at him for doing that to me. And he should have thought that having s3x with his girlfriend was the most disgusting thing he could ever do knowing that he would want me back. I don't have the heart for him anymore. So, after a month, he then calls back and says sorry.. I'm like, "your apologies are not even enough for the things you've said about me. What you've said to your families and friends can't be taken back anymore." I honestly can't stand it. Now that I want to enjoy my life, he's always tagging around. What should I do? Any advices I can take from you guys?

[xinevirtucio]

ambot sabrina.....

wa koi masulti..kung pwede i-assassinate na xa..hala go...

bitaw oi...akoa masulti lang kai..if mubalik ka niya tabla ras imong gdukdukan imong kaugalingong ulo ug hollow block...hahaha

[singlespeed]

damn!!! naa jud diay in-ana ka baga ug nawong nga tao??!!!!!
paligsi nang tawhana sabrinxy

[vikkz]

Let him tag along if he really wants to. Just act like he doesn't exist. If he wants to tag along even when you're on a date...haha...good...so that he gets a taste of his own medicine. It's not like you're asking him to be around. Are you guys even married? Because if not...then he can't do squat with what you do with your life. If you guys are...well, that's another story. Don't let him go easy on you. He disrespected you when you are even the mother of his two children...not just a gf. There's nothing good to say about a guy who badmouths the mother of his kids. He could have just shut up and let you be...but no, he had to rub it on your face and put you to shame.

[ashcries]

surprise him with a restraining order.

[sabrinxy]

@singlespeed: haha! i wish i could.. lelz..

@vikkz: definitely NOT married.. hehe!

@ashcries: haha! he knows some officials so i won't dare..

[vikkz]

Are you sure you don't love him anymore? If you are...then do so...but if you're not sure...and you have even the slightest feelings for him still-then I suggest you just let him be. For all you know, he might actually really be sorry for what he did. Guys still change you know, no matter how bad they can be. Only you can tell kay imuha manang uyab/husband (I don't know if minyo mu). You have to remember you have two kids with him...so you might want to think about that. No matter how bad a guy can be, if he changes for the better...eventually your family and everyone else who hates him as of the moment might welcome him back. You'll never know. For now though, let him suffer. hahahaha...The best way you can do that is by showing him that you're happy even without him...that you can be independent and that you can play his game too...When i say play his game...I don't mean do what he did...just make him think you can so that he knows what it's like being done to him. Sometimes when a guy thinks he has you on the tip of his finger, he will do all sorts of things to hurt you...but if he loves you (pero acting like he doesn't...you'll be able to tell), then playing his game will drive him crazy.

[mhelgarfield]

khnumdum jud ko aneh nya mommy...grabeh au manulti...
atleast naa nmu ang mga kids..

you deserve to be with someone who's nice to you all the time..
and accepts everything about you...

mommy sab..you're a great person..
move forward..

[xinevirtucio]

death by garrote....hahahhahaha.....and ayaw tabuni iya nawong hap...hehehe

he deserves so much worse....grrrr...so immature of him.....a**hole....^^

[sabrinxy]

@mhel: thank you

@vikkz: i guess im giving him a taste of his own meds ryt now..

see! naa man gni koy witness kung unsa ka salbahis ang laki nko.. huhuhu..