Nang tayo'y Magkakalayo Trauma... whatever (need inputs)

[miss tapya]

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I know istoryans are well known for their sensible inputs and suggestions.... Just would like to gather some feedback regarding this situation...

Let's just name this gf = Betty, and this guy = Armando... TO start with..

Betty and Armando manag - uyab for 6 long years. And so, pinag hiwalay ng tadhana. Armando meadto sa Manila. And si Betty let's say nabilin sa Cebu. Walay putol ilang communications, sila lang gihapon. Physical lang sila d mag kita pero cge lang sila gihapon og tawag og text text. So to cut the story short, kini si Armando meuli og Cebu after a year or so, nagkita sila og balik ni Betty. Masaya na sana sila kasi back to each others arms eh... `til meabot ni nga time nga si Betty nakahalungkat sa CP ni Armando. Tapos naa didto nabasahan nya ang exchanging of Text between Armando and this girl atong itago sa pangalang Marsiella, as in nakita pa gyud niya ang interval sa time between etxt text nila armando og si armando and marsiella. Ilang tinawagan kay "TART". Nabasahan ni Betty nga kibali nagbulag si ARmando og si Marsiella tungod kay nabal an ni Marsiella nga nag exist si Betty sa life ni Armando. And so, murag nahagbong nga Murag gipili daw ni Armando si Betty kay meuli sa Cebu si Armando.
GI textan ni Betty si Marsiella pretending to be someone. Og kinsa xa and how is she related to armando. ang tubag daw kay. This is Marsiella B. BlahBlah, x gf of Armando. D na shocked si Betty kay uyab sila how come nagka X si Armando. Iya pa gyud gi ask og ..love ba ni Marsiella si Armando.ang reply daw si Marsiella is that OO, kaya lang wala xang magawa mas Pinili nya ang nasa Cebu.

Ang dilemma ni Betty is that, wala kabalo si ARmando nga kabalo na xa nga si Marsiella existed. UNsa daw iya buhaton. Iya ba daw i comfront si ARmando, but mahadlok xa daw sa Tubag ni ARmando. If yes, daw or NO. If yes daw ...mawindang ang iyang earth.How could ARmando do that to her. as in ga mata ra xa og morning.. nawala iyang trust. wala na xa kabalo og kapila na namakak sa iya ang guy for that 6 long years sa ilang panag uban. Pag moingon sad og NO daw si armando as in ilimod nya, magpuyo rasad xa sa kalibog for in fact she knows and naa evidence nga naa gyud third party.

Question: KOng ikaw si Betty or ikaw si ARmando, What will be your reaction? Ug unsa imong pagabuhaton...

[lady_blackrose]

firstly,if im betty id confront armando...id rather get hurt in facing the truth that continur blinding myself for something that already existed yet ur scared of facing it coz its gonna hurt u. if the truth turns out that armando cheated on her... he should really have a very good reason why he has done it and see if she can still forgive him and start in a clean slate or move on and start all over again without armando coz once a cheater..is always a cheater. but if armando really has a very good reason...worth acceptable and forgivable...and if she think he deserves still a second chance then give him a second chance...but if his reasons arent worth it then let go.she should know the entire story first before she is gonna judge him.who knows?she,herself has her own mistakes back those days thats why armando has cheated on her.

my opinion lang ni ha?hehehe