the ENDING and the start of my new life

[manoy15]

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@silahis definitely..i still am hurting BUT i just cannot afford ha to sulk down..it's been days, and im tired of it, and God showed me a window when He closed one. So do i need to worry no? but am i hurting ? yes! but do i have to stay that way? heck no..it's my choice to get up, and thanks for the wishes man! sometimes i know it will get a toll of me..but im pretty sure it's not going to be the same as it was.

[ireneolive]

relate sad ta ani light.. start of something new.

okay lang na ts, life must go on..

[manoy15]

yup indeed it is crazy at times @ireneolive...we just dont know. @Passport might say na we might bump each other soon...who knows, im not hoping but who knows. it's just me and him understood what it is...but who knows tommorrow i might bump her over in some malls..hahahahaha

[ireneolive]

yup indeed it is crazy at times @ireneolive...we just dont know. @Passport might say na we might bump each other soon...who knows, im not hoping but who knows. it's just me and him understood what it is...but who knows tommorrow i might bump her over in some malls..hahahahaha

ug destiny gyud nga kamong duha ts, time will tell basin kamo puhon magdayon. basin panahon na mismo maghtag ug higayon magka kita mo. pero di lang molaom ug ayo kay lisod na ma disappoint lang unya. sakit bya kau na.

[obelisk]

Kinda sad dyod na the people who give it their all for the significant other ends up the ones being hurt the most. Think of it this way, the relationship taught you more about yourself. On how much you can give love. Personally, ka relate dyod ko sa imung gi.agi.an and maybe I will share it sometime in the future.

[manoy15]

@obelisk - feel free dude!!! ingon ana jud ang life, it is unfair to those who do NOT play the game, BUT it is also rewarding to those who truly believes and holds onto it no matter how many times we we're thrown. It's like a Gold that has to be in a refiners fire, you cant have pure gold without being inside it to take the impurities away. sige lang, we'll find and it will find us soon. Let's keep and treating women with respect and like princesses coz that's what they are, princesses. After all there was once a woman who took us inside her womb for 9 months and almost or sometimes lost their lives giving birth to us and raised us to be who and what we are, so dont loose hope in and on loving women for they deserve all the love we men can give.

[manoy15]

ug destiny gyud nga kamong duha ts, time will tell basin kamo puhon magdayon. basin panahon na mismo maghtag ug higayon magka kita mo. pero di lang molaom ug ayo kay lisod na ma disappoint lang unya. sakit bya kau na.

yah...di lang jud mag laom...kay iya nako gipa laom ang ako lang jud ang nasakitan..so dili na jud..kung magkita di casual and and hello nalang...coz soon ill be working on the same job description. nia pa lang ko gi askikaso ron

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maru maru sd bayhana da hehe

anyway another lesson learned the hard way boss

take time to know the girl completely before offering any money solutions

kadudahan naman gani na basta mag-sige pangayo ang girl bisan ug uyab namu kana pa kahang dili? hehe

@manoy15 thank you for sharing TS...
move on...gamit kaau imong story para panaminan sa uban...
pangamigo og daghan para daghang resbak...

i would have thought that you decided to lay off on her when we told you so last time boss. never expect jud especially if the relationship is not official. i hope you'd learn from this experience and would try to put caution every time you meet someone. love can make us do stupid things sometimes, but it doesn't mean that you would let yourself be a FOOL for anybody just to prove your love. think before you proceed.

to be honest, id rather be a FOOL but im not going to be stupid, so when things were so out of hand na, great thing was we both said i cant handle it...but it's all good really...

[manoy15]

hahaha na LSS lang ko ha..YOU MADE ME STRONGER BY BREAKING MY HEART, YOU ENDED MY LIFE AND MADE A BETTER ONE START!

[2nderemperror]

next time, don't expect too much sa imohang ka partner TS.
be strong enough to love and endure the pain kung magkalisod.
if someone really loves you, ipakita ra na niya ug balik diha nimo
without asking her to. if sometimes mo fail cya sa pagpakita
ana nimo, sabta ra kay di permente fair ang higayon.
be inspired with her smiles to love her back BUT don't use those
smiles to fool your heart.

[obelisk]

@manoy15 Then I shall share mine.

Once upon a company far far away, I just got employed with a company. A month later, I met this girl. She is quirky, weird and has a very nice smile. I tried to make jokes when around her to see if she responds. Sooner or later, I took the initiative and tried to make small conversations with her and overtime it became long conversations until we developed feelings for each other. Then we dove into a relationship. A month or two after, we went on an outing with friends. She drank too much and flirted with another guy while I was not around. She confessed few days after and said she was weak at that time. I forgave her. After which, we continued. Frequently, she finds reasons to quarrel and break up with me (reasons like jealousy over my close friends and me not having time for her). Every time, I had to be the one who asks for forgiveness. During dates, I pay for almost everything. From cinema to taxi fare to concert tickets. I gave her my best. Tried to be always be there for her. Delved into her world which I was never interested in the first place.

My best friend, which also became her friend, was her adviser. She shares that I was not serious. Every little mistake, she reports to my best friend. From not buying her couple stuff to simply carrying her bag, she made a big issue out of it-considered it as me not being serious. That I was bound to cheat or leave her behind. I stayed strong. Hoping that one day, she will realize that I was serious with her. A year went by, she left that company. She warned me that because she wasn't there, I would cheat on her. I promised her that I wouldn't, because I was never the type. In her new work, another guy was making moves on her. She re-assured me it was nothing. I trusted her. Little did I know, she gave her number to him. They took lunch together. And on one event, went on a date while I was at work all the while worried what had happened since she never replied. Days after, we broke up. I tried to fix it but to no avail.

She tells everyone of my mistakes that I've done. My best friend acts like neutral but when asked for a comment, the reply was simply "I am sad that they broke up. Yet, thankful that they won't fill each other's flaws." Sooner or later, I found out that my best friend was not giving her advises that are constructive. Rather, destructive. Saddened that me being not serious and that I was not good was the advises given. Even while we were no longer together, she still kept calling me unfaithful and etc. And that was while she was dating that other guy.

Time has passed. I have lost both the person who had my heart and the best friend who I had considered as a sibling. The latter was a choice I had to make. I was considered the cheater, the unfaithful, the traitor, the bad friend to our common friends.

I have learned a lot from it. And maybe that is why, I feel better after everything that has happened.