hubby caught cheating!badly need an advice..

[Sol_Itaire]

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If I were in your shoes
I wouldn't check his phone
same way I can't check his mind.
The fact that we have separate bodies
despite the intimacy, marriage, and all
Tells us that we have afterall
personal space.

If I were in your shoes
I wouldn't force myself
to trust him.
Not now.
By golly, it's normal
It's predictable.
Trust is earned
and in his case
he needs to earn yours
again.

[beeprecious101]

hi guys..

tenkyu all for ur advice n comments..
ur words really makes me strong..
u might think it is nothin but to me i consider it a big thing hearing it all from u..

ds s my first time encountering all ds heavy loads so im reli kinda lost what to do..

tenkyu agen!

ur good words inspire me..!

[dleniako]

true ang gitell sa u hubby na parting ways is really not a good solution..
but saying na dle mu mgbuwag for the sake of the baby is not a reason also..
you can at least give him another chance..but this time make rules..
like on how you like it to be...
it may sound like gipiit siya but he deserves that, kay kato wla nmu xa gipiit nagbinuangan gani xa..
so mag antos siya..
make terms & conditions

[miaka_cham]

Everybody deserves second chances..and when you do mean it..as much as possible, don't recall his mistakes para dili mag cge balik2x ang kato nga incident.

And sis, maybe there's something missing w/ your relationship..do you still date? or do things together other than making love?

i guess it boils down to giving each other QUALITY time, kanang kamo ra jud duha..

Hope you'll both be just fine.

[acecrystal]

na jud manifestations sa sa taw nga nay gitago.. one of them is kana,deleting messages and call logs.. gud thing he's not into net surfing gai kaau, another form sad na sis

im sure you won't be totally happy unless you stay in a deep shit whose hubby plays dirty old tricks with other whores..but after all, choices are yours.. it's either you give up or accept what went wrong... lisod jud na masayop ta ug lifetym choice sa? God forbids...

[maria V]

if he can cheat u once he can cheat u for whole life its up to u if u can still consider him like nothing restart a new life of ur own without a chaeter man. life is matter of choice kung asa ka comfortabli if u rather want to be bota bongol with him or set urself free.

[maria V]

just make sure mabarogan nimu whatever choice u made in life para wly regret

[tessF]

dump him.. y au cge ka paninaw ug cheater d kasaligan nga laki

[doom_angel]

i assess imo love sa imo hubby and you will know if you want to stay or not.

dali ra ayo na sultion na wlay second chance or dli jud ka mopasaylo, labi na ato wla pa kasulay. maayo kaayo na cla moingon na biyai. pro sa mga nakasuway ug tinoud na gugma (true love pag ingnon pa sa mga s) daghan ila gi saad na wla nila mabuhat igo ra sila sulti, la cla kahibawo ngano, pero pra nako tungod na sa love. para sa kato dli makapasaylo dli to nila tinood love, storya ra or ang word na LOVE ang ila gi love. there is no practicality in LOVE, there is no WIN-WIN situation ( kung lay swerti ma LOS-LOS pa imo lyf) , when you are in true love, be ready coz pain inevitable.

if there is LOVE - GO
no LOVE - GO away

[piper4ever]

a number of things:
1. choice ninyo to live with your parents? lisud jud na sa other party, ang nakipuyo. that really changes the dynamics of a relationship. by itself dili jud ni siya excuse, pero basin naka add ni sa inyo problems.
2. your partner still has an active mmorpg account (cabal)? hmmm.
3. why are you constantly checking his phone? mails? it appears you guys have trust issues.

ok, proceed. hehe.