Unfaithful husband....kinsa man jud ang sad-an?

[3nZ0y]

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It just got me thinking ba, ang kabit wala siya naka huna huna nga the fact nga nabuhat na sa bana (within the marriage, ha!) nga mobiya and look for another, samot na kaha sa iyaha nga wala silay 'kontrata'? What if mapul-an sad ang lake sa ila og mobiya kay mangita og lain? Oh, how I wish...it is like giving them a dose of their own medicine and let's see how they react to it.

For the erring husband, well sense of reason tells me that he is still my father and I should forgive him. But what if he ceases to be a father to you? What if he stops from being a provider, a bread-winner, and only acts like a 'berdugo'? That is exactly what happened to my father unfortunately. (Well, for the record I never felt that he was a father to me, to my siblings perhaps. Have you heard of favoritism? )

Now, I hope you understand why I am now happy he is out of the family. But again, I know that my mother still loves him and my younger siblings still need him. I acknowledge that. So I am left helpless with no choice.

I thank you for your inputs guys. At least naa koy mga kakampi diri.

[kit_cebu]

kng ing.ana ka sexy sa im ava ako maasawa sis, d gyud ko mangita lain..promise...
p.s. kaw na?..

swabe kaayo dah.... unhan ko pangutana.... hahahha

[elisa]

not to pick a fight or anything but i think it's SO SO SO SO SO wrong for a husband to fall out of love for his wife kay dili na siya SEXY. first of all, guys shouldn't be talking about their private lives (i.e. *** with their wives, how "lami" she still is) with their friends. i agree that girls should take care of themselves and their bodies even after marriage and childbirth but NOT for this very shallow reason.
as for kinsay sad-an when marriages fall apart, i think there's wisdom in the cliche na "it takes two to tango" (although sometimes, maka-ingon jud ta na nay MAS sad-an, hehe).
so i guess it's true that sometimes, the situation at home makes it so tempting for a guy to "explore" elsewhere (and mo-agree kaayo ko na nay mga WAY BREEDING dira na mga babae na moentertain and even seduce married men). like when puro na lang problema ang inyo madiscuss as a couple and when the discussions always end up as lalis, when the wife is too preoccupied with taking care of the kids na she can't give as much attention and affection sa husband as when uyab pa sila or newly married etc. daghan kaayo reasons that make unfaithfulness tempting.
BUT none of these reasons will ever justify being unfaithful. every marriage goes through ups and downs, happy and trying times. the key why others succeed and others don't is COMMUNICATION and COMMITMENT.

[kitty_kittens]

not to pick a fight or anything but i think it's SO SO SO SO SO wrong for a husband to fall out of love for his wife kay dili na siya SEXY

agree jud ko ani. of course we know na visual au ang mga lalaki, pero d mn sd na sakto na mangita cla'g lain kay losyang na tan-awn ila wives. d man sd na sala sa mga babae if malimtan nla ilang self kay busy au cla pag atiman sa ilang family.

now kung tan-aw nimo d na attractive imo asawa, why not think of ways na matabangan nimo xa na maka atiman pd sa iyang self? like tabangan xa sa household chores if housewife xa? or if kamu duha nag work, why not suggest a get-away, kanang mg date2x mu panagsa kamo ra duha unya dad-on ba nimo sya sa spa or parlor or unsa na, kamo duha magpa pamper sa mga parlorista didto aron d kaayo halata na si wifey ra jud unta imo ipa asikaso sa mga tao didto hehe

i'm sure there are many other ways help make your wife more appealing to you, if mao mn jud gae na ang main factor na maka pangita'g lain ang laki. akong point is d lang ta kutob ra sa reklamo ang laki, help your wives pd kay usahay labi na if selfless au ang babay, makalimtan na lang jud nila ilang kaugalingon kay unahon man ang pamilya.

[KASAAC]

Para nako ang bana. Bisan unsa pa na ang rason wala jud sya right mo guba sa ilang vows prior marriage, kung mao naman lang gale nga dili maka keep up sa marriage nganu nakigminyon man? Ubang lalaki hilasun kaau lingi sa lain kay ang pares nalusyang, unya naa gale ubang bana dira dili kahibaw maligo bisan panghimasa nalang, utong nalang ang babaye

[THE SKULLS]

sa Bibliya, daghan man asawa sila Abraham. Unsa man jud diay pasabot aning unfaithful? Dili honest nga naay laing babaye ang bana?
Klarohon kuno ni nato.


Usa ray asawa,
Kuya-Ig

[kerengkeng42]

both parties. depends.

[jumper_stage]

asus aron dili ma moblema, enjoy being single lang usa then inject here and there..joke..anyway before magmenyo ilailaha usa imong mapares if shee/he is really para nimo if possible bisag abtan pag 10years..the thing in there is that and contento sa usag usa og ang oras and much possible communication og ang panagkoyog.

[SioDenz]

If theres No God in a relationship, makasala jud.

Having God in your relationships works in 2 ways:
1. If you believe in God there's a small chance to commit sin.
2. And even if sure naka nga ma tintal jud ka, God will Not give you any opportunity to commit sin.

[yanong_banikanhon]

sa Bibliya, daghan man asawa sila Abraham. Unsa man jud diay pasabot aning unfaithful? Dili honest nga naay laing babaye ang bana?
Klarohon kuno ni nato.Kuya-Ig

In general sense, marital infidelity (unfaithfulness) is any form of sexual relationship outside of marriage.

Technically speaking, kadtong kaso ni Abraham ug sa iyang mga asawa, walay marital infidelity nga nahitabo adto kay iya man tong mga asawa ang iyang gikalambigit, which means the relationship is 'INSIDE of marriage'. Kun buhi pa si lolo Abraham karon, kasong polygamy (dili adultery) ang iyang atubangon.

Kun ang kapikas makig-relasyon og lain, automatic na mahulog nga marital infidelity (unfaithfulness) kay ang relasyon nahigawas man sa kaminyoon. In that case, dili relevant kun motug-an ka o dili. Unfaithful gyud ang tawag sa imoha. Unya magbantay2x na ka'g sugod kay simbako unya'g makasuhan ka'g adulteryo. Na, kwartong dagha'g rehas gyud ang mahimo nimong puy-anan sa umaabot nga mga katuigan. Hehe...Taas2x ra ba pud ang sentensya anang adultery.