We create our own misery..Agree?

[coolguyiam20]

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Really? I wonder why you think so negatively... There are so many books available, just find something that would suit you best...

naa pa mn gud ang skit nga akong gibati gud ron..
wa ko kahibaw kung asa ko magsugod na pud..
mura kapoi na au cge og sugod gud..unya ang padulngan wala ra japon..
pro salamat nlng nkabasa ko ani nga thread..ingon ana ra d.i ang teknic..

[vahnhelsing]

pagpalit cool uy.... naa na sa natinal bookstore.. d ka magmahay ana libroha.. one of the best books or pinaka best jud para nako!!!!! barato ra na...

[dimplesheaven]

naa pa mn gud ang skit nga akong gibati gud ron..
wa ko kahibaw kung asa ko magsugod na pud..
mura kapoi na au cge og sugod gud..unya ang padulngan wala ra japon..
pro salamat nlng nkabasa ko ani nga thread..ingon ana ra d.i ang teknic..

True, there will be a point in your life that you can feel the futility of starting all over again and end up with nothing. This is just normal. Sometimes, we can say na "Dili na jud ko mousab" , but, this feeling will soon shall pass.

Being in a relationship is just like an investment, it's either we lose or gain. But for me ,there's no such thing as a loss, we only gain...We gain an experience and much more wisdom to become a better person. Also, we can test how strong we are emotionally. Just take on the positive side of things..

[babypaupau]

i agree but not all the time..
not everyone would process his thoughts and emotions
and make his own miseries....
its choices... what to chose, two things:
happiness or pain....
chose happiness then....

so what about those who choose otherwise?

[coolguyiam20]

True, there will be a point in your life that you can feel the futility of starting all over again and end up with nothing. This is just normal. Sometimes, we can say na "Dili na jud ko mousab" , but, this feeling will soon shall pass.

Being in a relationship is just like an investment, it's either we lose or gain. But for me ,there's no such thing as a loss, we only gain...We gain an experience and much more wisdom to become a better person. Also, we can test how strong we are emotionally. Just take on the positive side of things..

mao xd noh..cguro ang time nlng mgheal ani..
mwala ra guro ni..bsta dli lng huna2on..
pro ang nkapait mn gud kay mgcge og kontak akong ex..
bisan dli na nko pakontakon..dli mn xd ko kaagwanta nga dli mkareply..
imbis mkamove.on na unta ko..mka.atras na pud..grrrrrrrrrrrrr..

@vhan:cge palit nya ko ana..bsta mkalugar ko..

[vahnhelsing]

so what about those who choose otherwise?

when you chose pain then for sure you will have pain... you will be in stress and feel uncomfortable
.. whenever we entertain negative thoughts we attract negative things...
there are many factors why others chose pain rather than happiness...
maybe they just couldn't let go of what they used to have and dwell upon what was lost..
they can not see the brighter side instead they focus on the pain and not on what they could gain
or the opportunity that may come to them as they learn from their experiences...

cool gamit jud kaayo na.... pwd sad na pangchiks!!! weeee

[dimplesheaven]

mao xd noh..cguro ang time nlng mgheal ani..
mwala ra guro ni..bsta dli lng huna2on..
pro ang nkapait mn gud kay mgcge og kontak akong ex..
bisan dli na nko pakontakon..dli mn xd ko kaagwanta nga dli mkareply..
imbis mkamove.on na unta ko..mka.atras na pud..grrrrrrrrrrrrr..

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Well, hindi ka nag-iisa... Been to that stage as well, and I might say it's really difficult especially if the feeling is still there. Some ex's still maintain the communication because they know that you had a special bond before and it's something that you both value. It will take some time ofcourse, but I think it's best that you open your heart to other people or be with your friends. Stop thinking about starting or finding a new one, it will just come naturally. Just be open.

Cutting the communication is not even the solution, just go on with your life and make her the least of your priority. Go out with friends and meet new people as well...

[vahnhelsing]

cool decision making ra jud na imo blema.. if you want to move on you can but somethings holding you back dba ngano mawili man ka... ayaw padala padayon sa imo pagpanaw!!!! weeee......

[dimplesheaven]

.. ...
there are many factors why others chose pain rather than happiness...
maybe they just couldn't let go of what they used to have and dwell upon what was lost..
they can not see the brighter side instead they focus on the pain and not on what they could gain
or the opportunity that may come to them as they learn from their experiences...

Yes, usually this is where the problem lies. We focus too much on what we have lost ( the kilig moments, the shared laughters and tears, the feeling of being loved etc..) . Even if 80% of your time together are good still it can easily be broken and it's something so hard to accept. Now, it's really up to us whether we allow such things to ruin our lives further...So, the choice is yours...

[babypaupau]

when you chose pain then for sure you will have pain... you will be in stress and feel uncomfortable
.. whenever we entertain negative thoughts we attract negative things...
there are many factors why others chose pain rather than happiness...
maybe they just couldn't let go of what they used to have and dwell upon what was lost..
they can not see the brighter side instead they focus on the pain and not on what they could gain
or the opportunity that may come to them as they learn from their experiences...

cool gamit jud kaayo na.... pwd sad na pangchiks!!! weeee

one word, masochist. hahaha