We create our own misery..Agree?

[vahnhelsing]

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i agree but not all the time..
not everyone would process his thoughts and emotions
and make his own miseries....
its choices... what to chose, two things:
happiness or pain....
chose happiness then....

[maitoots]

i agree but not all the time..
not everyone would process his thoughts and emotions
and make his own miseries....
its choices... what to chose, two things:
happiness or pain....
chose happiness then....

yes we have a choice but naa man jud times gud nga things that makes us happy is not the right and proper choice. sometimes we have to choose the other way around, even if it would cost us a great deal of pain but knowing that somehow you made the right choice,can give us peace of mind and contentment in the heart. anyway, the pain heals thru time, at least ing abot sa panahon we can still stand up proudly and tell ourselves that i've been there and i made it
dli man jud malikayan and pain gud... ana lang jud na cya jud

[vahnhelsing]

wee... i believe that we can process our thoughts to make a better outcome.. just like the same when we seem to chose pain rather to chose happiness... i have this book titled "the power of positive thinking" by dr. norma vincent peal.. so true that when you practice your thoughts thinking of miseries it will eventually cause you pain and more pain but when you entertain only good thoughts you will be happy...
its really in the mind but not everyone can control his thoughts always...
i haven't mastered it myself but it was a great help when im down...
in our lives we have pain but surely we can lessen its impact and aftermath if we know
what to do and how to make countermeasures with our problems and trials...

[maitoots]

wee... i believe that we can process our thoughts to make a better outcome.. just like the same when we seem to chose pain rather to chose happiness... i have this book titled "the power of positive thinking" by dr. norma vincent peal.. so true that when you practice your thoughts thinking of miseries it will eventually cause you pain and more pain but when you entertain only good thoughts you will be happy...
its really in the mind but not everyone can control his thoughts always...
i haven't mastered it myself but it was a great help when im down...
in our lives we have pain but surely we can lessen its impact and aftermath if we know
what to do and how to make countermeasures with our problems and trials...

Amen
mao ba vhan? have read that book too and am on the process of mastering it too
cge lang maabot ra ta dha, hinay2 lang gud

[luke0917]

Based on observations, I believe that we create our own miseries thereby letting the outside factors control our feelings. Why do I say so?

Let's take for example, failed relationship.. When we are in this stage, we undergo too much depression, so many weird thoughts crossed our mind. We think so low of ourselves, low self-esteem, and etc. Haven't you noticed that these are all self-inflicted? We allow ourselves to be the victim of what other people say and what our minds dictate?

When in fact, we are given a free will to chose what we want out of life. You could opt not to accept negative thoughts nor feedback from others. We all have a choice.

I think it's safe to say, that we all create our own misery and not someone else doing. Agree?

i felt this before, "so many weird thoughts crossed my mind", however, i managed to get rid of it little by little, i just think of happy thoughts and everytime i can think of the bad things that happened to me, i just pray.

[vahnhelsing]

Amen
mao ba vhan? have read that book too and am on the process of mastering it too
cge lang maabot ra ta dha, hinay2 lang gud

weeeee.. congrats, its really a nice book...
napa sya daghan na book.. still ang topic is positive thinking and happiness....
weeee....

[carbrill]

agree kaau ko ani... whahahaha...

[dimplesheaven]

wee... ...
its really in the mind but not everyone can control his thoughts always...
i haven't mastered it myself but it was a great help when im down...
in our lives we have pain but surely we can lessen its impact and aftermath if we know
what to do and how to make countermeasures with our problems and trials...

Yup! I agree... Controlling one's thought is quite difficult.. No matter how many good books you've read still it's not that easy. It may take some time for us to truly grasp and penetrate the concepts in our mind.

Great power lies within us...

[coolguyiam20]

mao xd unya ni akong himoon..
negative au ko huna2 ron..

OT:@vhan..pahulma xd ko sa imong book beh..basa xd ko ana..ehehhe

[dimplesheaven]

mao xd unya ni akong himoon..
negative au ko huna2 ron..

OT:@vhan..pahulma xd ko sa imong book beh..basa xd ko ana..ehehhe

Really? I wonder why you think so negatively... There are so many books available, just find something that would suit you best...