hubby caught cheating!badly need an advice..

[Blackjellybean27]

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They're right, give him a chance. Maybe he meant it when he asked for forgiveness. Been in the same situation, but unfortunately it didn't turn out well for me. but i still believe in giving a person a second chance. so give him a chance. if he does it a second time, then get away... really...

[agillite]

Hi,

i think one more chance is good for both of you and to your baby. Ask him to marry you and you guys should live in separate roof na as one family.

Pray ka always and ask His guidance.

[maritess]

Ambot lang sis ha, kay sa ako experience before, kung ang lalaki magbuhat na ug milagro, giminosan na jud siguro na siya nimo. Mura bag kampante na kay siya nga bisan unsa pa iyang buhaton, pasayloon ra nimo siya nga secure siya sa feelings nimo para sa iya. Pero para nako, once the TRUST is gone, I don't think mag work pa in the same way ang isa ka relationship. TRUST ang basehan sa usa ka relasyon. Kung mawala na, i don't think higugmaon pa nimo siya in the same. Most of the time, you'll gonna love him less and less every passing day. But kung para nimo, worth it mag stay pa ana nga relationship, then give him a chance but if kundili, save yourself some pride.


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[beeprecious101]

hi guys..

i thank you all so much for the great advise..
it is greatly appreciated!
im so touched with all of it..

[beeprecious101]

sis, nasakitan gyud ko while nagbasa sa imong gipost. i too can relate in your situation although i did not caught my hubby kunohay pud nga nag cheat nako. but there were also times nga wala na ko niya ulia and he always delets inbos messages, sent items and call logs. we are also under one roof and like you, we also have a baby.

sa imong case kay dili man gyud mobiya ang guy, then i can say nga love gyud pud ka niya. so give him a chance kay its not easy mawala atong partner. stress pa ta bantay bata and stress pa gyud ta emotionally. its not like many times many times na niya gibuhat sa imo, so give him a chance gyud. kay ako abi nako kaya nako mawala akong partner, but when he left me for no reason but i doubt nga naa gyud syay lain, mura kog mayabag.

talk lang gyud mo sa inyong problem karon, forive him though i know sakit gyud kaayo na and malessen na imong trust niya. but then if you love him, fight for him. ayaw sugot nga mapildi ka or mawala sya sa imo.

nya sis are u still together with ur hubby right now? did u both of u manage to resolve the issue?

[classicrock]

tagae lang pud chance sis.. masayup man gyud ning tao.. d baya ta perfect gyud.. last chance!

[jntio]

tagai lng chance sis oi cguro namn pd luv ka sa imo partner ky wla gyd bya pd cya mi sugot na mg buwag mo. ingna lng gd cya na dli na pabohaton ug mka daot sa inyo relasyon labi na wla na i hide

[cherie]

ayaw tinggi ipakita na suko ka. kay kung imo siya dawaton dayon. gitaga.an lng gyud nimo ug chance na buhaton to niya usab.

[sushikandi]

Tinuod kaha nga SOT lang jud? Is there such? Grabiha na diay ron noh? SOT? Seriously?

Anyhow, Kumusta naman mo ron? Is this the first time nga ni likoy cya?

[snowwhite]

pray for guidance...nya if close mo sa imong parents ask for their advice kay naa bya na parents' instinct nga kng d cla ganahan sa guy maybe d jud cya deserving sa imo but if you think sincere ang guy sa iyang apology then give him another chance but kng mu-usab gani ayaw na jud kay the kid will suffer in the future makakita nga dili ok inyong relationship..