
Originally Posted by
Jayzee
Whats wrong with asking the reason of debt? Like I said, in my previous post... "If he/she doesnt mind, telling"... let her decide whether he/she is comfortable of telling it.
1st, you cant say its personal since most of the forumers here in istorya have no identity.
2nd, the TS is presenting the problem in a third person's perspective. It may or may not be him/her.
3rd, I will still stand in my early post, that in order to really provide a better solution to a problem is to fully understand the bigger picture.
Why? Are we asking the TS the name of the debtor? Still, personal matters have been disclosed.
Like the TS said, the subject is frugal. Hence, I believe this debt was availed not in vain.
The TS already shared a problem, why stop putting on the details that some istoryans would want to know in order to help?
NOTE: THERE ARE A LOT OF REASONS WHY A PERSON IS IN DEBT. THERE IS GOOD DEBT AND BAD DEBT. INVESTMENTS ARE GOOD DEBTS. CREDIT CARD DEBTS AND WHAT NOTS ARE BAD. THEN THERES DEBTS DUE TO BASIC NEEDS AND EMERGENCY SITUATIONS.
SO YOU SEE, DIFFERENT DEBTS NEEDS DIFFERENT APPROACH TO THE PROBLEM.
We cant just simply say - SELL YOUR STUFFS! Wow! thats helpful! --> havent you really thought that the debtor already thought of that?
So TS, if you dont mind, why is this person in debt?
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