I am so STRESSED!!!! Help me please!

[TheInfidel]

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my only way of releasing my stress now is my opening up in istorya...

Then by all means, please do post more here in Instorya. It's good to think that it helps you at the very least.

[lainedram]

Err, are you a guy? If so, get yourself laid. Get some *** <--- you know what this censored word means.

Kidding aside, you'll just have to be optimistic about your work. Before you can even achieve that, first, you must confront what causes your stress. If you can then confront it, solve it. Once solved, you'll be amazed to see that unfinished workloads and those "people that you can't get along with" are just a thing of the past. Being stressed and pessimistic about work will obviously reflect on your output.

Remember, that if you can't do this alone (and most probably you won't be able to), you can ask your friends for some help. It eases the burden and widens your options in thinking.

I know it's always easier said than done but you really have to stay optimistic

It's all in the head.

thanks for the very positive advice... i really want to stay positive but some circumstances are just very hard to resist that i have no choice but to think the other way around..

and FYI, im a lady.. 100% lady.. hehe

yah.. im sorry but i need to say this.. Some people are just "shits".. they really make my life miserable..

as for the unfinished loads, i think the only way to finish all the loads is to work 24/7 which i think is impossible..

[lainedram]

Then by all means, please do post more here in Instorya. It's good to think that it helps you at the very least.

yah.. honestly, it helps a lot.. it makes me feel as if i have so many friends here who gives different advices.. which really helps..

however, i only have limited time to surf the net so whenever i get the chance to, i usually post something in istorya..

i even open istorya more often than facebook..

[TheInfidel]

thanks for the very positive advice...

You're very much welcome, miss

i really want to stay positive but some circumstances are just very hard to resist that i have no choice but to think the other way around..

Everybody tends to feel the same way as you do so don't worry much about it. That's pretty normal and give yourself some rest from time to time.

and FYI, im a lady.. 100% lady.. hehe

Then I stand corrected

yah.. im sorry but i need to say this.. Some people are just "shits".. they really make my life miserable..

Haha. There will be people who will try to make your life miserable. Thing is, would you really let them achieve their goal in watching you suffer? Learn to fight back.

as for the unfinished loads, i think the only way to finish all the loads is to work 24/7 which i think is impossible..

An impossible task is job not worth doing. You should just simply tell them that this is unattainable. Break the work down and put numbers on it, look at the statistics and apply how many staff you've got. If the figures show that the work in question is obviously impossible then ask for more staff. If your boss denies your request, then I think it's time to find a new job.

[Mr_NicePrice]

i have to work 7 days a week and more than 10 hours a day!!!! huhuhu

but i cant leave my job.. huhuhu how can i destress myself?

its just a state of mind... try enjoying your work instead of looking at it as a problem....

its just all about how you see things... if u see it as a problem then it is one...

[brachypelma]

well at least im just trying to be a little precise than just blabber around just to have something to say
and besides...taking a shower is a no-brainer when it comes to relieving stress even a carabao knows how to
destress using that method

and being outspoken is not OA if you have a point
I even wonder why such acronym "OA" or what it stands for fits in my level of discussion
coz it seemed a like a terminology w/o weight or just a rogue term
use to patch up concluding a dull statement
...well go figure then

OT: lol who's blabbering now?, why not offer some ideas to help the TS than just criticizing someone else's suggestion that you feel "a no-brainer".

on topic: sus samot jud na kung imong partner di mo support nimo, pasabta lang maayu imo partner arun maka tabang pud siya ug pawala sa imong stress, pahilot baka niya nig gabie arun mejo relax ka ba. problems seems less when shared.

[Cory1986]

Massage!!! Ahhh

[Deanmonyo]

lupig pa man nag work ka sa production area sa mepz, take a break and relax....

[crysyani]

DOTA or HON = mawagtang imo stress

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[TheInfidel]

DOTA or HON = mawagtang imo stress

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Diba stressful pa gani ang makigtrashtalk? Labi na kung kapildihon pa?