Unhealthy Relationships

[scorpia]

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This is like waking up in somebody else's house... grabe ka sakit cguro. chabaw2 na man gali kog 2 years hahahah

Good for her. Kaso sayang ang na invest na time didto sa karaan niya.

hmmm murag it would be more of a waste if she'll go for the 9years and realize too late dili diay jud sila for each other...I just hope it won't happen to me... I'm going 3 years LDR

[yenice]

respect ra jud to your likes and dislikes...

because OPPOSITE Attracts..

[Sophie_Claire]

Relationship is unhealthy if one is already paranoid and murag na obsess na. kanang tanan lihok, bantayan nalang.

[kuraho]

usa pd ni ang maka pa unhealthy ai...if an gurl/boy kay duna gani cla past relationship na naka pa down nila din mura ug na hadlok na cla?kabantay mo mura ug mahadlok na cya mahitabo ug balik...dri gani mugawag ang word na "way salig,duda" dha mugawas daun na pina mongol na batasan higtan ka sa liog....kun gus2 mo ma healthy inyung relationship tagae cya ug freedom....open mo sa usag,usa..."open ra jd mo"

[gingergarlc]

most unhealthy relationships can be diagnosed with the following symptoms: frequent quarrels, undecided and divided in making decisions, lack of specific goals for the future, *** problems, and religious differences can also be a factor. Compatibility is not what makes a healthy relationship most of the time, what matters most is the cooperation of each other. Both at least have got a mutual understanding in many parts of the relationship. They say action speaks louder than words.

[polarisvenus]

If one is in an unhealthy relationship, do something about it. if you want your relationship saved, go see a counselor (a priest or nun would be the best choice) but if you want to destroy waht you have right now, go and see a lawyer

[EightEqualsD]

Here are some warning signs that can alert you to whether you or your partner may get 'stuck' and develop an unhealthy relationship:

* Seeks instant intimacy: A person who develops an immediate sense of attachment and belonging without really knowing anything about the other person and pressures the new partner for an exclusive commitment has unhealthy dependence needs.

* Clingy: Considers intensity of need for each other as proof of love. Wants you alone for himself / herself. At the extreme, tries to isolate you from friends and families with constant demands of attention.

* Excessively possessive: Trust issues - extreme inquisitiveness about the partners activity and whom they talked to, jealousy and controlling behaviors like keeping the money or car, demanding he / she ask permission for activities.

* Unrealistic expectations: Expects you to be perfect in meeting his / her every needs or becomes disappointed and angry.

* Lacks a sense of responsibility: Blames others for problems and mistakes. Makes the other person responsible for his / her feelings - instead of saying "I am angry", he / she says "You make me angry".

* Hypersensitive: Feels insulted, hurt or angry at perceived slights or criticism when realistically there wasn't any.

* Cruelty to animals and children: Often very impatient with normal children / animal behavior, punishes them brutally, may tease them until they cry.

* Verbal abuse: Constantly criticizes and / or says blatantly cruel, hurtful things, demeaning and attacking your self-esteem when you fail to meet some expectation.

* Rigid roles: Expects you to conform to his / her idea of how a wife / husband should be without a mutual consensus.

* Threats of violence: Intimidation of threats of physical violence directed at self or the partner; often later dismissed as temper.

wow nice really helpful stuff hehe