Unhealthy Relationships

[Veng3ancE]

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had an experience also.....

our relationship lasted around 2 yrs. i tried my best to make the relationship work, always forgave her even when she had a lot and i mean A LOT of flings. i was probably afraid to lose her since it was my first serious relationship. finally had it when the "cousin" he introduced to me months before was actually his 2nd boyfriend. really felt like a j@ckAss during that time. told her she was dead to me and f**k off.

[anjerika]

unhealthy kung hasta imong health maapektuhan. hahaha!


like di naka kakaon og tarong or katulog og tarong.
masakit na ka.
di naka kahuna huna og tarong: labi nag naa kay suicidal tendencies
you lose focus in life
you lose meaning in life/nakapagubot ang relationship.
sige na lang kag ka down, depressed og guol
naapektuhan na pud imong relationships sa ubang tawo
dako kag gasto!


give up the stressor~! hehe

[emjee17]

an unhealthy relationship is when:

1. you are deprived of your own freedom
2. you cannot express your rights
3. you are bounded by certain DOs and DONTs
4. you are living your life in someone else's way.

ex. Imung uyab mu ingon nga ayaw ani, ayaw ana, ayaw kuyog nila, ayaw ug adto, to the point nga i-isolate ka niya from your friends, from the life you had prior to having him - which would definitely be a drastic change to your system. Siguro, a little changes lang but not to the point nga wa na pud kay time sa imung self ug di naka pwede maka laag or have fun sa imung friends.

[tenzor73p]

true.... so sad... and so sayang ang time , effort and emotions na nainvest nimo sa relationship....

di man jd totally sayang ba at least na a kay na learn about sa imu self ug about sa relationships hehe nya..

[tenzor73p]

an unhealthy relationship is when:

1. you are deprived of your own freedom
2. you cannot express your rights
3. you are bounded by certain DOs and DONTs
4. you are living your life in someone else's way.

ex. Imung uyab mu ingon nga ayaw ani, ayaw ana, ayaw kuyog nila, ayaw ug adto, to the point nga i-isolate ka niya from your friends, from the life you had prior to having him - which would definitely be a drastic change to your system. Siguro, a little changes lang but not to the point nga wa na pud kay time sa imung self ug di naka pwede maka laag or have fun sa imung friends.

So therefore i conclude na a healthy relationships is when YOU COULD BE YOURSELF and still be loved by your partner? am i right? hehe

[emjee17]

So therefore i conclude na a healthy relationships is when YOU COULD BE YOURSELF and still be loved by your partner? am i right? hehe

exactly tenzor. hehehe.. XD

[scorpia]

4 years bro.

haha well, there's someone I know who took it 9 years before she realized the man wasn't for her and was married to another guy who had been her BF for only 8months.

[tenzor73p]

haha well, there's someone I know who took it 9 years before she realized the man wasn't for her and was married to another guy who had been her BF for only 8months.

This is like waking up in somebody else's house... grabe ka sakit cguro. chabaw2 na man gali kog 2 years hahahah

[nnixx]

unhealthy ang relationship kada kita nimo sa imonh uyab kai maglagot kas iyang nawong.

[abrafacs]

haha well, there's someone I know who took it 9 years before she realized the man wasn't for her and was married to another guy who had been her BF for only 8months.

Good for her. Kaso sayang ang na invest na time didto sa karaan niya.