Unhealthy Relationships

[Me_eM]

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work on it till it becomes healthy... dah ranag smile

[EightEqualsD]

work on it till it becomes healthy... dah ranag smile

hehe never give up? hehehe

[HeartStops]

there's no such thing as good and bad relationships its a matter of handling the situation and communication.

[cyberZone]

when can you say its an unhealthy relationship anyway?

[HeartStops]

physically
emotionally
intellectually
abusive?

[yvonne6]

there are only very few people who are in what we call " healthy and productive relationship". ang kasagaran man gud nato mo settle for less basta lang naa tay someone to share life with. im guilty of this too. lisud ning ingon ani, lahi kaau mong duha but then u cant let go of each other kay daghang mga reasons. eventually, u will learn to hate and blame each other. i should say, if the relationship is making both of you unhappy, then its not the relationship u want. u better be hurt by the break up rather being hurt and stuck with the person always hurting you

[roinuj10189]

i dont know, im not sure with the term unhealthy relationship,...i guess its not the relationship, i guess the 2 persons who are in a relationship..........opinion lng nako na.

i wont really walk into a path that i am not sure of.............ing-ana lng gud....hehee.

i super agree....

[palanggako123]

Here are some warning signs that can alert you to whether you or your partner may get 'stuck' and develop an unhealthy relationship:

* Seeks instant intimacy: A person who develops an immediate sense of attachment and belonging without really knowing anything about the other person and pressures the new partner for an exclusive commitment has unhealthy dependence needs.

* Clingy: Considers intensity of need for each other as proof of love. Wants you alone for himself / herself. At the extreme, tries to isolate you from friends and families with constant demands of attention.

* Excessively possessive: Trust issues - extreme inquisitiveness about the partners activity and whom they talked to, jealousy and controlling behaviors like keeping the money or car, demanding he / she ask permission for activities.

* Unrealistic expectations: Expects you to be perfect in meeting his / her every needs or becomes disappointed and angry.

* Lacks a sense of responsibility: Blames others for problems and mistakes. Makes the other person responsible for his / her feelings - instead of saying "I am angry", he / she says "You make me angry".

* Hypersensitive: Feels insulted, hurt or angry at perceived slights or criticism when realistically there wasn't any.

* Cruelty to animals and children: Often very impatient with normal children / animal behavior, punishes them brutally, may tease them until they cry.

* Verbal abuse: Constantly criticizes and / or says blatantly cruel, hurtful things, demeaning and attacking your self-esteem when you fail to meet some expectation.

* Rigid roles: Expects you to conform to his / her idea of how a wife / husband should be without a mutual consensus.

* Threats of violence: Intimidation of threats of physical violence directed at self or the partner; often later dismissed as temper.

[Cory1986]

they said opposite attracts but for me, dili jd ni mahimo in the long run.

[redjvshopnshop]

they said opposite attracts but for me, dili jd ni mahimo in the long run.

well i agree with you mam! not all the time proverbs always prevails

ive been through this circus of incompatibly we both tried jud to wrk things out pero as time passes by nagka way au...

for me better let it go nlang if ever you can sense that the wind is changing for both of you... its like earth shakes when you are together!

and you said love will keep us alive?