Imo hubby so dependent with his parents

[diamme]

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kasabot jud ko anang bana too dependent sa iya parents. and like you dli ko gkan ug datu nga family. ang ako lng gyud, kayahon nlng on ur own. sakit huna hunaon nga ikaw ray naninkamot pero go nlng kaysa magsalig sa lain diba..
mga laki, d nana cla mu mature...yaw nalag asa sa imo bana

[orochimaru700]

oi ka wlay honor gud nga hubby, dpat byaan na klase tawhana, in the future super irresponsible gyud ni....

[babyjr]

lisod sad hinoun imo beyaan dayun after. this talking2x denhe istorya.timbnga lng sis .kng deli na gyud kaya. ekaw ang desisyon. i till you directly wala gyuy ayo na klase na bana. deli kabalow maka barog sa iyang kaugaligong iyang tiil. tink wisely.........

[Pinkish]

lisod sad hinoun imo beyaan dayun after. this talking2x denhe istorya.timbnga lng sis .kng deli na gyud kaya. ekaw ang desisyon. i till you directly wala gyuy ayo na klase na bana. deli kabalow maka barog sa iyang kaugaligong iyang tiil. tink wisely.........

yeah i know, thanks for the advise ninyo tanan. right now i dont feel that i love him pa. pra lng sa mga bata ng antus ko. but if i have enough money and stable job i would definitely leave him. he treats me so bad especially if we have no money...

[orochimaru700]

irresponsable ky ni sa future, dpat ni ma extinct nga klac sa taw,...

[icon_king]

actually case to case basis raman na. what if kung ikaw ra ang bugtong anak, ma agwanta nimu biyaan imung ginikanan... di man pod sila manghilabot cguro sa inyung personal lives pod. mao ra unta na...

[Pinkish]

those are strong words... unfortunately, walay try again sa marraige. so just focus more on his good points that made you love / marry him in the first place. as to his dependence, no other way but to teach him a lesson....ur way. tell him that you will leave him and bring your kids with you. as the mother, you have this privilege. then rent a place of your own. if he really loves you, he should pack his things and go with you. if not, well at least you'll have peace in your own home. at one point of my life I thought like your husband does right now. naanad ko nga always naa ako parents. but I made a decision to stick by my family. maybe he just has to wake up to this. ma realize ra na niya which is more important in his life if mawala na na sa iyaha. hopefully that good that you so in him once will surface and you'll win him back.

y man diay kenz? did your wife left you? I arleady did left him but pro nbalik ko ky he made a promise that he would be a good husband and keeps telling me that lisod daw if wla ko. But now, i realized he never did change and he became worst na. I didnt know what to do now espcially that im already jobless. Feel nko iya nko gi under estimate ky la nko work and mag init jd prme iya ulo bsta mglisod mi sa money. pero f naa gane ko money maau au xa ug tagad nko. I dont think he would realize if naa pa ghapon iya damn mother on his side..

[anelger]

sus! ingon ani jud akong life karon! akong bana toga2 minyo pero wla pa diay ka biya sa saya sa iyang mama...akong gibuhat akong giuli sa ila oi, wla ko plan mangwintas og bokog!

[maddox_pitt]

mao gyud. why did you marry your hubby in the first place. he hee. maybe nag tuo ka or you were hoping that marriage would make him an independent person. tsk tsk. wrong mistake.

sa una, mag lagot ko sa ako papa kay di ko kuyogan sa school kung mag pa enrol. pero i think that is one of the major responsibilities of being a parent: preparing your child in such a way nga kung wala na sila ning kalibutan, maka survive ug mo grow ra gihapon ilang mga anak

i like this comment hehe right... ako sad... when i was younger i would be left to do my homework alone and do the things that i need to do by myself...when i went to college my mom just sent me to cebu and left me alone bisag di pa ko kamao magbisaya...i was left to enroll myself sa skul... and later on pag abot sako manghod ako sad ang guardian...sometimes i'd feel bad kay murag gineglect ko sako parents..but now that i've matured alot, i wouldn't have it any other way...nakat-on jud q paningkamot...and it made me a better and stronger person...
@ts: mayta your hubby realizes that his parent's richness is not his...and he's bound to stand on his own and prove himself worthy of his family....i can't imagine a 30-something guy who's still asking for "allowance" from his parents..it's a pity

[chiara]

bati kaayo nang hubby nga dili maka barog sa iyang kaugalingon....patugatuga ug minyo unya dili d i kabarok mag salig lang gihapon sa gini kanan, maypa wala cya nag minyo...immature paman d i na cya...biya e na para maka amgo sa sayop...