Imo hubby so dependent with his parents

[rAiNe_]

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aguy .. di man ta ni dapat kay hes already married, he has a family of his pwn and besides laki xa, xa ang bana ug amahan so he's the one who should be supporting his family. di sala nmo ug pobre imo parents.. ingna xa nga wala xa nabuta pagpakasal nmo or pakigminyo nmo..in the first place kahibaw xa nga di ka milyonarya..irresponsible klaro kaau..

[Big J]

That's tough. I suppose his family is in control because you're living with them. Why oh why did you marry your hubby? I'm sorry if you just found out how dependent he is. If you knew ahead, I guess you'll just have to sit tight, sis, and demand respect, at the least.

mao gyud. why did you marry your hubby in the first place. he hee. maybe nag tuo ka or you were hoping that marriage would make him an independent person. tsk tsk. wrong mistake.

sa una, mag lagot ko sa ako papa kay di ko kuyogan sa school kung mag pa enrol. pero i think that is one of the major responsibilities of being a parent: preparing your child in such a way nga kung wala na sila ning kalibutan, maka survive ug mo grow ra gihapon ilang mga anak

[bosin]

maybe family man pud xa like he wants to take care his parents db?

[magpul]

Kana iyang pag engon nimo na mangayo sa imo family og kwarta when he knows na dili maka support financially ang imo family - ge toyo rana niya para ma insolto ka or ge sogo na siya sa iya parents para magka bikil inyo relationship.. I find no reason as to why sigi siya pressure nimo mangayo financial support from your family na kabalo man siya na walay ma tabang financially imo family diba ... Therefore, nangita rana siya og way na ma insult ka or his parents has instructed him para ma insulto ka... I know sakit kaayo imo situation Sis - so dapat by now mangita naka og way na maka barog ka by yourself with ur kids kay I thnk nangita ra na siya og way malayo nimo.. Just be prepared ... nothing to loose...

[Pinkish]

mao gyud. why did you marry your hubby in the first place. he hee. maybe nag tuo ka or you were hoping that marriage would make him an independent person. tsk tsk. wrong mistake.

sa una, mag lagot ko sa ako papa kay di ko kuyogan sa school kung mag pa enrol. pero i think that is one of the major responsibilities of being a parent: preparing your child in such a way nga kung wala na sila ning kalibutan, maka survive ug mo grow ra gihapon ilang mga anak

I married him because I thought he is a good man. Pro d jd diay nmo mailhan ang taw if d jd nmo ig uban sa usa ka balay. Yeah, I made a mistake of marrying him. But I was just a considerate person before without thinking that things might get worst in the future. I thought he would grow mature...

[rom69erz]

you are in big trouble sis. nothing can change the attitude of your hubby even his mother will no longer in his side. he grow up that way, he will die the same. speak with him your situation, if you are not satisfied with his decision then go out from where you are. you have no future of a man who is very dependent. if you can stand in your own the better than to stay with him in a chaos life. just my thoughts.

[Pinkish]

^^^yeah i know. but i think he will grow mature fast without the presence of his mother. ky grabe jd ka hitler iya mom. ky kung di nya sundon mag suicide2x daun. paeta uy...

[rom69erz]

timbang-timbanga lang sis ang linugdangan kung angay ba ka magpabilin sa iyang poder o mo hikling naka aron mahigmata imong bana sa makatouran.

[kenz]

I married him because I thought he is a good man. Pro d jd diay nmo mailhan ang taw if d jd nmo ig uban sa usa ka balay. Yeah, I made a mistake of marrying him. But I was just a considerate person before without thinking that things might get worst in the future. I thought he would grow mature...

those are strong words... unfortunately, walay try again sa marraige. so just focus more on his good points that made you love / marry him in the first place. as to his dependence, no other way but to teach him a lesson....ur way. tell him that you will leave him and bring your kids with you. as the mother, you have this privilege. then rent a place of your own. if he really loves you, he should pack his things and go with you. if not, well at least you'll have peace in your own home. at one point of my life I thought like your husband does right now. naanad ko nga always naa ako parents. but I made a decision to stick by my family. maybe he just has to wake up to this. ma realize ra na niya which is more important in his life if mawala na na sa iyaha. hopefully that good that you so in him once will surface and you'll win him back.

[jessa_surban]

maybe spoiled au cya pagka bata pa....