I dont have a dad.

[psyrille_alphatrix]

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ganahan lang ko mu share para makabalo sad ang mga guys nga naay plano mamiya ug nabuntis nga girl unsa ang bation sa ilang anak kun makabaton na panimuot nga wala sila

very well said...

[Soul Doctor]

I'd like to share it to the people in cyberspace that I dont have a dad. I didn't know that the person I looked up to as my sister was my real mom. It was my grandparents who became the parents I respected and loved. What hurts a lot is the reality that I didnt have a single idea that I was hurting my mom for not loving her as my mother. I knew that I was different from the rest of the family because I was the only one dark skinned, and until high school I didnt know that my dad left my mom when she was 3 months pregnant. Right now, I still think that my dad did not have the balls to stand by my mom when she needed him.

mao ni sayop sa mga batan-on bro.
kusog kaayo mojudge sa ilang parents.
you will grow up miserably sad kung padayonon ni nimo.

it is never too late to be happy.

natawo ta dili tungod kay love ta nila.
natawo ta kay we need to exist.
walay labot ang mga ginikanan ug dili sad sila angayng basolon.
sakyanan ra na sila nga nagdala nato diri sa kalibutan.

Ug sama sa sakyanan, naay aircon nga sakyanan, naa say kagangkagang.
ang imoha naflatan pa jud so wala katiwas sa byahe.
naglakaw na lang ka karon.

ayaw na sigeg tan-aw sa likod.
padayon sa imong byahe.
kung unsa man gani tong mga butang nga wala mahimo sa imong ginikanan diha nimo.
ikaw na mismo ang mobuhat para kanila.

pananglit wala ka nila birthdayhi--
pagbirthday og imo.
birthday cake,
spaghetti,
hotdog,
children toys
tanan nga gusto nimo nga ilang ihatag unta nimo--
-ikaw ang mohatag sa imong kaugalingon.
think of it as a therapy.
you will feel better after this.

[monrayz69]

i accept nlng cgro na!! at least close mu as a sister db??

[fleur_66]

i have a relative who'm i observed as pregnant kay visible man kaayo sa iya tummy og boobs nga nidaku (5 mos. sa ako bana2) i ask d sister pero nakaingon kuno ang sis niya nga tambok ra. Sa dihang gi confront sa usa ka relative namo gipugos patug an nihilak, sabtunon na kaayo. The problem now kay nahospital ang papa the following day nga niangkon siya kay giatake sa high blood. Abi namo og nakahibalo na iya father wala pa diay. Ambot kaha og wala ba gyud kabantay ang amahan nga klaro na man kaayo. Mugawasay na sa hospital pero wala pa masultii ang father. Ang fear ani ron unsaon pagsulti direct niya kuyawan man sila kay basin atakihon balik, ni enlarge pa gyud ang heart.

Ang laki di pwede managot kay naminyo na kay nakapamabdos sad sa una 1 yr na ang bata. Bf ni niya sa una nga gipugos sila og buwag kay nag schooling pa ang girl. Wa say ayo ang laki kay hs ra og gangster pa gyud, unknown to us sige diay kita2. Open book sa girl ang situation sa laki kay kuno wala siya kauyon og napugos lang pakasal kay namabdos na.

Kung kamo, unsa inyo opinion unsaon pagsulti sa amahan nga delikado man iya kahimtang karon.

[monrayz69]

awts kalisud ana bai!! hmmmn think sko

[sfi.smith2009]

mao ni sayop sa mga batan-on bro.
kusog kaayo mojudge sa ilang parents.
you will grow up miserably sad kung padayonon ni nimo.

it is never too late to be happy.

natawo ta dili tungod kay love ta nila.
natawo ta kay we need to exist.
walay labot ang mga ginikanan ug dili sad sila angayng basolon.
sakyanan ra na sila nga nagdala nato diri sa kalibutan.

Ug sama sa sakyanan, naay aircon nga sakyanan, naa say kagangkagang.
ang imoha naflatan pa jud so wala katiwas sa byahe.
naglakaw na lang ka karon.

ayaw na sigeg tan-aw sa likod.
padayon sa imong byahe.
kung unsa man gani tong mga butang nga wala mahimo sa imong ginikanan diha nimo.
ikaw na mismo ang mobuhat para kanila.

pananglit wala ka nila birthdayhi--
pagbirthday og imo.
birthday cake,
spaghetti,
hotdog,
children toys
tanan nga gusto nimo nga ilang ihatag unta nimo--
-ikaw ang mohatag sa imong kaugalingon.
think of it as a therapy.
you will feel better after this.

dili man sad tingali ingon na ng judge ko sa ako parents; never had I been miserable nor self pitiful with what I am and who I am. I never doubted the judgement of my mom when it comes to her decisions. I am more than thankful that I grew up to have a life in this world. Mao gani wala nako nangita sa ako dad and wala sad ko plano mangita nya kay sakto na para nako nga naa ako mom ug ako family. Id just like this to be an example that decisions are not just for today nor the next days to come. Today might be a walk in a garden of flowers, tomorrow may be a plunge to a deep ravine.

(I am too deep! kamo nalang translate. I hope kasabot mo.)

have a great day everyone!

[stUbb0rn]

seguro ang sayop sa imu mother wa xia sulti more details about ur father katong naa naka sa stage na mangita ka "papa".

[Soul Doctor]

dili man sad tingali ingon na ng judge ko sa ako parents; never had I been miserable nor self pitiful with what I am and who I am. I never doubted the judgement of my mom when it comes to her decisions. I am more than thankful that I grew up to have a life in this world. Mao gani wala nako nangita sa ako dad and wala sad ko plano mangita nya kay sakto na para nako nga naa ako mom ug ako family. Id just like this to be an example that decisions are not just for today nor the next days to come. Today might be a walk in a garden of flowers, tomorrow may be a plunge to a deep ravine.

(I am too deep! kamo nalang translate. I hope kasabot mo.)

have a great day everyone!

im just saying dont keep negative emotions towards your father.
be happy that you were able to grow up strong as you are.
but be happy.
choose to be happy.
and be responsible in having relationship so you would not end up like your father.

[jntio]

nice sharing your story ts =)

[sfi.smith2009]

Thanks to all who responded.
People may think I am unhappy; that I hate my father. The truth is, I never have hated him. Life moves in a fast pace and I don't have time to think of people who are just part of the first chapter. Happiness comes in many ways, and I know that I have found some ways to be happy. I live my life the way I want it to be; the way I planned it.