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[Soul Doctor]

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grabeha no, hehehe. cinderella jud. but no problem with that. if you have knew about your in-laws first, could you have had second thoughts about marrying your current wife?

Of course, we came from a good family and we respect each other.
I never hear a single insult from my mother.
But here they are judging me.
insulting me
just because i cant give them the money they want.
My wife worked and with a salary of P7,000 a month in 1990.
Her parents asked for P5000 a month
so they can hire themselves a helper.
How are we going to survive with just P2000 a month
when we have an asthmatic kid to take care of.?
They were outrageously selfish.

If I knew then they were that selfish.
I'd rather look for another girl.
But how would I know, really.
How would we know what our future in-laws are really like?

[Soul Doctor]

o ui..love jud kah pa niya..sahai gd ang girls lahi ang true feelings sa gpakita nga moves..maybe she's still messing up with her mind. dghan factors ui. try to recnsider..evntually if ur both meant to be bck in ich other's arms it wud happen.. but infairness to her..it myt also be..she has a guilt feelings she's done to u but cnt tell u mao buwag nlng last option for the betterment of u two.

Maka relate ka sa iyang situation maam?

[EmoYBien]

doc we just broke up last sat lng jud...nka decide man gud nga sayup gyud akong relation ron..i came from a family that has respect with each other..ive never heard my mom and dad nag siningkahay or nag away man laang(mag away cguro cla pero sa ila room cguro).....pero akong relationship ron doc grabe daghan kay kog nakat-onan oy tananng klasing pag pamisT=e hlabi na doc kong mag away mi walay lugar gipasaylo doc....mao tong ni decide jud ko nga mag buwag mi..ang pangutana sakto bah kaha ni akong desisyon?doc what can you say?

[anjerika]

Of course, we came from a good family and we respect each other.
I never hear a single insult from my mother.
But here they are judging me.
insulting me
just because i cant give them the money they want.
My wife worked and with a salary of P7,000 a month in 1990.
Her parents asked for P5000 a month
so they can hire themselves a helper.
How are we going to survive with just P2000 a month
when we have an asthmatic kid to take care of.?
They were outrageously selfish.

If I knew then they were that selfish.
I'd rather look for another girl.
But how would I know, really.
How would we know what our future in-laws are really like?

yeah, you wouldn't know. same as everyone who got married. coz it takes a lifetime to know a person. samot na ang in-laws. hahaha. back then you wouldn't know they were selfish because you had money then. but when you didn't have any, nang gawas ang ilang true colors. btw do you live with your inlaws? or your parents? or do u live in your own house na.

[analog man]

Serious ka bro?

very serious brod.

Lower your expectations.

i've done this brod

Prioritize.

mao sad ni wala nako ma-organize pa.
any advice doc about prioritizing
hatagi lang ko sample

i badly need advice

Kuya-Ig

[miakka070]

my ques.wud be: why do moms favor more to the BF/GF of their children rather than favoring their own flesh?

[Soul Doctor]

doc we just broke up last sat lng jud...nka decide man gud nga sayup gyud akong relation ron..i came from a family that has respect with each other..ive never heard my mom and dad nag siningkahay or nag away man laang(mag away cguro cla pero sa ila room cguro).....pero akong relationship ron doc grabe daghan kay kog nakat-onan oy tananng klasing pag pamisT=e hlabi na doc kong mag away mi walay lugar gipasaylo doc....mao tong ni decide jud ko nga mag buwag mi..ang pangutana sakto bah kaha ni akong desisyon?doc what can you say?

It was the best decision for you.

You choose how to live your life.
You want to live in peace then by all means do so.

My wife, she came live in a verbally abusive home.
And when we got married, she said she never felt so peaceful before.
We live a peaceful home.
Even our helpers wonder why we never have a quarrel.
And our kids never saw us fight.

but we do argue.
only we go to the beach or a quite place
where we can argue alone with each other..

Personally I find fighting "malas".
We would talk, and argue. And the one who is right always wins.
It is not me or my wife.
All points should be taken into consideration.

[Soul Doctor]

my ques.wud be: why do moms favor more to the BF/GF of their children rather than favoring their own flesh?

I do not know.
Maybe the bf has more money.
Or they can get material things form him.
i can not say much with out more details.

[Soul Doctor]

yeah, you wouldn't know. same as everyone who got married. coz it takes a lifetime to know a person. samot na ang in-laws. hahaha. back then you wouldn't know they were selfish because you had money then. but when you didn't have any, nang gawas ang ilang true colors. btw do you live with your inlaws? or your parents? or do u live in your own house na.

when we got married we live on my little nipa house.
we only got to live with my inlaws once
when my mother sold her house
and i have no choice but to give her my house for her live in.

so we lived with my inlaws thinking they were good people then.
it was hell. i was dead wrong.
we moved to cagayan to get away from them.

[miakka070]

I do not know.
Maybe the bf has more money.
Or they can get material things form him.
i can not say much with out more details.

if like mg-awai mih ngadto jud mo laban sa guy nga ako unta ang anak..kai maldita dw ko..then gnhan jud atitude ako mom sa guy..to the point wn were having a big fyt with mom ha..ang guy ra nkapa uli namo sako mom..