Ask me any question about relationships

[s3xyp1nk]

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This is easy.

Im a future guy.
So I picture the future.

With Stable Guy,
picture yourself 5 years from now.
You are married with 2 children and a comfortable life.
A good house, a car and hassle free life.

With Destiny guy,
picture yourself again, working your butt off
to support him and two kids,
renting a house.
It may take you 15 years to save for your own house.

But hey, young women trade a comfortable life for a momentary happiness.
Especially if they read a lot of love story pocketbooks.

With the stable guy, i think he is a keeper.
keeper give their love ones something that lasts.
A player would never give a woman a house.
He is older and his mind is set on settling down.
But you have to be decisive on this.
If he already have a house for you and you turned it down,
other girls would love to have that house for themselves.
So you will have that problem too.
If he has money then some girls find it attractive in a man,
so they might attempt to seduce your guy.


With the destiny guy, he is young.
he would want to play around from time to time.
he get insecure with out a stable job,
so this may translate into vices and womanizing--
just to compensate for his insecurities.

Hey! It is just my opinion.
I'm just a man. What do I know.

thanks , good point.
Destiny guy is the only son sa ilang family, naa man pud xa say.
He has a huge house. But mainly am not after that,
and he finished polsci hopefully he'll finish his law.

And I don't depend much man pud sa what they have
I can make it on my own, I have a job.
I'm just confused asa ko ma happy...still complicated

[Soul Doctor]

baog man ku ? unsaon ni?

Sorry abe nako bag-o man ko
hehehe my bad.

Baog as in infertile?

Kanang baog nga male naa na silay mas dako nga mission sa kinabuhi.
Usually dapat na sila magpari or mahimong religious leader.
Maybe pari ka sa imong previous life yet wala nimo mahuman imong mission.
Basin natintal ka og babaye.
So in this life, try to find what is your mission in life.
Search your talents and skills.

Sometimes your talents and skills are your tools needed to finish your mission in this life.

But if you want to have a baby.
That is not a problem at this age.
You can have a baby anytime for P200,000 pesos.
Why do you think actors have twins for children?
They are all artificially inseminated.

Tuyoon sa doctor og himog twins
just incase dili kasurvive ang usa,
para dili masayang ilang bayad.

[Soul Doctor]

thanks , good point.
Destiny guy is the only son sa ilang family, naa man pud xa say.
He has a huge house. But mainly am not after that,
and he finished polsci hopefully he'll finish his law.

And I don't depend much man pud sa what they have
I can make it on my own, I have a job.
I'm just confused asa ko ma happy...still complicated

you can not be happy with a guy who finished law.
there is no peace of mind there.
it is in the spiritual sense that he attracts negative energies due to his job or profession.
Its the same with politicians and cops.
I would not recommend them to you.

If he studies pol sci then he talk smart.
That might be impressive at first,
but later on you will realize that it is actually not as impressive as you think..
It is more stressful because he can always reason his way in and out of anything.

So, whats the nature of the job of stable guy?

[anjerika]

Im back,
Thanks to the Mods.

Now what did I miss?

wow you are back!!!!!!!! wohooo


we missed you


goodbye ginalyn though

[Ginalyn]

goodbye anjerika!

@SD ayaw kalimti akong TF ha.

Suroy suroy ra jupon ko diri woi.

[anjerika]

goodbye anjerika!

@SD ayaw kalimti akong TF ha.

Suroy suroy ra jupon ko diri woi.

see you around! maghuna huna sa kog ipangutana nimo. hehehe


@ SD :

[s3xyp1nk]

you can not be happy with a guy who finished law.
there is no peace of mind there.
it is in the spiritual sense that he attracts negative energies due to his job or profession.
Its the same with politicians and cops.
I would not recommend them to you.

If he studies pol sci then he talk smart.
That might be impressive at first,
but later on you will realize that it is actually not as impressive as you think..
It is more stressful because he can always reason his way in and out of anything.

So, whats the nature of the job of stable guy?

Haciendero..businessman
and yeah ur right,, if polsci he can always reason his way in and out of anything.

[Soul Doctor]

Haciendero..businessman
and yeah ur right,, if polsci he can always reason his way in and out of anything.

If I were you, you should make your decision now.
You are going to miss the opportunity.

Im not a materialistic person, yet Im practical.

We use to have a coconut oil refinery, a feed mill plant and a soap factory in minglanilla.
I married one of our employees at the age of 21.
When I was married, there was a point that I regretted my move.
Especially that I usually have lot of ideas.

And there are times you get frustrated
when you do not have the money to do what you want to do.

At those times I wished I married someone with money.
I thought life would be a lot easier if a married a rich woman.

Yes I eventually did the things i wanted to do, but it took me a lifetime to achieve it.
It would have been a lot easier if i married someone with money.
That is in the hind sight though.

I just hope you will not regret your decisions in the future.

[analog man]

soul doc

What will I do to minimize or eliminate my frustrations in life?

Kuya-Ig

[Soul Doctor]

soul doc

What will I do to minimize or eliminate my frustrations in life?

Kuya-Ig

Serious ka bro?

Lower your expectations.

Sometimes we think there are great things we can do,
but when we come to actually doing it,
we realize that we really can not because of all of those obstacles or things that gets in the way.

Set smaller and more attainable goals.

Prioritize.
Keep only the important goals.
The more goals and plans you have the more frustrated you become
when they do not materialize..