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[Ginalyn]

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both os are at a mature age 25 then naa na pud mi work duha...

its getting more complicated man gud then think lang na am just provoking jealousy pain and suffering...

in dont really know how mych longer i could keep up and hold on...


but thanks ...

lower your expectations.
don't expect too much if you intend to stay in that kind of relationship.

[Soul Doctor]

Im back,
Thanks to the Mods.

Now what did I miss?

[Soul Doctor]

Hi doc.. naa bya ko na libogan ron.. dili na lab2 ha kay wala ko ana.. hehehe

I am a middle child and a little bratty pero independent ko in my own way SD. hehehe Dili man sad ko parehas sa akong mga igsuon na academic scholar.. hahahaha.. Standard sa ka bryton sa akong mga igsuon.. wala jud ko katunga nila SD.. sus! hahahahaha Then, they land a nice job or mismo ang company mo habol nila.. which is murag dili kow ma ing ana.. hahahaha.. don't want to be an agent too ( no offense meant sa mga call center agent - nice baya sad ng work as an agent kung kabalo sad sila, ako dili ko pwede ana.. deado ko sa english! char!) pero nahan ko maiba sad to my self and see my worth and also my course, i took.... and my family doesn't want me to be an agent too.. pressure jud ko , SD.. na stress nako! hahahahhahaha

Naa ko ask SD, IT ako course ko karon pero wala pa direction ako life at the age of 22 and I want to make a decision jud out sa mga manipulation sa ako family.

My parents wanted to take me a crash course na autocad... ask lang ko sd, boom ang autocad sa pinas?
Then ako sis nahan siya mag Wed Designer me.. hahaha..

karon summer.. they let me choice those 2.. pwede kaha duha sa? pero dili kaha kow ma buang anang summera.... din hahahha ka kalas ba nakog warta oi.. saonz.. But my sis told me.. one ra dapat ako echoice.. I am working right now as a researcher at the same time, i go to school once in a blue moon.. hehehe.. major ra ako naningan pero sa uban, dili.. pero ka looy sa Lord kay wala pa man noon ko na hagbung..

btaw SD... unsa jud nice? related sa akong course or didto sa autocad.. hahaha.. curious baya ko sa autocad jud SD... by the way, graduating nako karong march and I dont know if happy ba ko sa ako course or I will live with this kind of thing.. And also... dili nako feel ang programming life eventhuogh kabalo ko ana gamay.. hehehehehe

karon go with the flow jud ko SD.. I am asking my family to give me A YEAR (this year) na matarung akong life..

in short SD: Lack in motivation, Lack in determination, lack in everything guru.. hahahaha.. but I did promise to them, sincerely promise to them.. that ako tarungon ako life before they kick my ass next year if there's no improvement in my life... ! hahahhahaha

I think confused pa ka ani nga time karon.
Which is also normal for teenagers.
Sometimes you are pressured to excel and you do not want to make the effort.
You just want to go with the flow and relax and take life a day at a time.

This is what losers do.
Pardon the language.
If you want to be a winner---
Take control of your life.
You only live once, so make it count.

Leave your own legacy.
Be very good in what you do.

Find your passion.
Something you really want to do that you will do it
even without being paid.

Your parents will respect your decisions when they know you know what you are doing.

[krisaquino12345]

baog man ku ? unsaon ni?

[Soul Doctor]

baog man ku ? unsaon ni?

In this thread,
you just ask any question about relationships
and I will answer it.

It is that easy.

[Soul Doctor]

nganu dghan mnguyab naq.,mga laki nga through text ug internet ra... ?? trip2x lng na nla sah..?

It convenient and it is safe.

Taas og pride ni nga mga laki.
Dili gusto mabasted in person.
Kung manasted, moingon lang dayon joke ra bitaw to ako.

[neome]

hi!
unsa buhaton para magbalik mi sa ako ex?

[s3xyp1nk]

I have a question and lisod pud e decide...
Which will you prefer your fiance(you dont love him much anymore) or ur destiny guy (something like wrong that feels like right all along)

Si fiancee tawn 7 years na mi, about to get married this year tani if la ko mo back out
he just finished the house he made for me, japanese inspired the way I like it
But the thing is he's way older than me, and for long 7 years , didn't meet his parents pa.
Stable na ni siya and I don't have to worry about anything(I'm working so doesnt really matter)
Ako na ni xa gibulagan pero dili mo give up, he said he'll court me again. And he is.
Reason sa ako pagbulag kay for 7 long years saka pako ka realize dili diay nahan iyang mom nko.
I used to love this guy so much that we lasted 7 years, until...


SI destiny, were from same town sa province and we just met here, di mi kaila sa among lugar nga pirting gamaya, diri na kami na introduce. Im always happy if am with him, he already met my parents, I met his parents. Pero di pa ni xa stable, pareha ra mi age. Ive never been happier & feel complete till I met him. But I'm scared because he's young pa sad lagi dali ra matintal. Ang nice lang dyud ani niya all out xa mo love, he proved it couple of times na specially when am acting maldita.


But if you compare ilang love and care, pareha dyud.
And the respect of course. So which one?

[Soul Doctor]

hi!
unsa buhaton para magbalik mi sa ako ex?

Bad news my friend.
Boys don't go running back to her "e.x", except for "s.e.x."
But if comes back for just that, then he is not gonna stay for long.
Just let him go and learn from it.

Ask yourself why he went away.
Or what went wrong-- and learn from it.
Maybe you were both too young.

[Soul Doctor]

I have a question and lisod pud e decide...
Which will you prefer your fiance(you dont love him much anymore) or ur destiny guy (something like wrong that feels like right all along)

Si fiancee tawn 7 years na mi, about to get married this year tani if la ko mo back out
he just finished the house he made for me, japanese inspired the way I like it
But the thing is he's way older than me, and for long 7 years , didn't meet his parents pa.
Stable na ni siya and I don't have to worry about anything(I'm working so doesnt really matter)
Ako na ni xa gibulagan pero dili mo give up, he said he'll court me again. And he is.
Reason sa ako pagbulag kay for 7 long years saka pako ka realize dili diay nahan iyang mom nko.
I used to love this guy so much that we lasted 7 years, until...


SI destiny, were from same town sa province and we just met here, di mi kaila sa among lugar nga pirting gamaya, diri na kami na introduce. Im always happy if am with him, he already met my parents, I met his parents. Pero di pa ni xa stable, pareha ra mi age. Ive never been happier & feel complete till I met him. But I'm scared because he's young pa sad lagi dali ra matintal. Ang nice lang dyud ani niya all out xa mo love, he proved it couple of times na specially when am acting maldita.


But if you compare ilang love and care, pareha dyud.
And the respect of course. So which one?

This is easy.

Im a future guy.
So I picture the future.

With Stable Guy,
picture yourself 5 years from now.
You are married with 2 children and a comfortable life.
A good house, a car and hassle free life.

With Destiny guy,
picture yourself again, working your butt off
to support him and two kids,
renting a house.
It may take you 15 years to save for your own house.

But hey, young women trade a comfortable life for a momentary happiness.
Especially if they read a lot of love story pocketbooks.

With the stable guy, i think he is a keeper.
keeper give their love ones something that lasts.
A player would never give a woman a house.
He is older and his mind is set on settling down.
But you have to be decisive on this.
If he already have a house for you and you turned it down,
other girls would love to have that house for themselves.
So you will have that problem too.
If he has money then some girls find it attractive in a man,
so they might attempt to seduce your guy.


With the destiny guy, he is young.
he would want to play around from time to time.
he get insecure with out a stable job,
so this may translate into vices and womanizing--
just to compensate for his insecurities.

Hey! It is just my opinion.
I'm just a man. What do I know.