Ask me any question about relationships

[AntitaniC]

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i tried na bitaw for a million times na but cge lang japon xa samok2 nku...then lately, i told him na dili nku...iya pud ko gi-threaten na mag suicide xa..i dunno..possessive au xa..he told me na dili xa gusto na makakita daw ko ug lain..hahayss...ok ra mn mi if magkuyog mi..but then cant help jud nga magduda..grabe gud ako experiences naagian niya..den before he would share kung giunsa niya pag -alibi iyang gf...tsk tsk

to-o man ka ana hikog2x uy.... kung mag hikog siya dili nana nimu sala nga weak siya.....

ma bokbokan ka if makig dayon ka ana..

[babypaupau]

...ingna go ahead paghikog. diba kay di ghapon na maghikog. di na tinuod oi, yaw tuo ana.

[anjerika]

ngek hikog2x hehe he is just using it against you para di nimo siya byaan. saon na lang.

[Ginalyn]

^^you are all right!
It is called emotional blackmail.

[disomniac]

emotional blackmail sakyan sa iyang personal issues...

@TS here is mine
i have a very close friend who happens to be in a relationship wit a lesbian, we were so close before and in fact we had this thing na ibutang lang nato ug "naudlot na pag ibig kunuhay" ,we had our share of arguments and also we've been into our worst terms and this was before she met this lesbie,,..iwas able to regain our friendship and in fact even sweeter this time, we usually spend more time together and the best is naa nay gamayng friendly benefits...now my question

1.shoul i pursue my love and go beyond our friendship eventhough we havent talked yet bout where stand on ech other (MU ba or frend lang or unsa na ba..etc)
2.should i just let it be and endure hurt and jealousy?
3.or stick and leave things as it is no quesions asked?.. am a bit going confused so i really need ur advice and answers guys..t.Y!

[Ginalyn]

emotional blackmail sakyan sa iyang personal issues...

@TS here is mine
i have a very close friend who happens to be in a relationship wit a lesbian, we were so close before and in fact we had this thing na ibutang lang nato ug "naudlot na pag ibig kunuhay" ,we had our share of arguments and also we've been into our worst terms and this was before she met this lesbie,,..iwas able to regain our friendship and in fact even sweeter this time, we usually spend more time together and the best is naa nay gamayng friendly benefits...now my question

1.shoul i pursue my love and go beyond our friendship eventhough we havent talked yet bout where stand on ech other (MU ba or frend lang or unsa na ba..etc)
2.should i just let it be and endure hurt and jealousy?
3.or stick and leave things as it is no quesions asked?.. am a bit going confused so i really need ur advice and answers guys..t.Y!

Ah the challenged friend.
The way I see it---- the lesbian girlfriend is never a match for a guy.
Imba man ni. kung Dota pa.

She's just using her for her own reasons.

In the end its always the guy who gets the girl, that is if you play your cards right.

It all depends on your age.
If you are below 20, then stay as a friend.

But if you are 25 and above,
then by all means----
Stop being a friend.
Write a resignation paper if you must.
Friends are pathetic boyfriends.

At a mature age,
You don't make lovers from friends.
You make friends from lovers.

Know what you want.
If you want her, then tell her straight.

[disomniac]

worst case scenario would be??..

dba i lost our frenship once ..

[Ginalyn]

worst case scenario would be??..

dba i lost our frenship once ..

As I have said, know what you want?

Do you want her as a lover?
or do you want her as a friend?

Be specific.
You can not have both most of the time
you are bound to lose one to the other.

If you want her to be your friend, then be contented with being a friend.
And find yourself another lover.

If you want her to be your lover, then you have to risk losing that friendship.
As long as you are serious,
there is no harm in risking losing a friendship if you need something better than friendship.

[Ginalyn]

worst case scenario would be??..

dba i lost our frenship once ..

Depende man sad ni sa situation.
For example, dili pa mo financially stable,
kamong duha wala pay kwarta or you still need to help the family.

So you are not free to have a serious relationship or commitment.
This is when you need to stay as friends, for the moment.

[disomniac]

both os are at a mature age 25 then naa na pud mi work duha...

its getting more complicated man gud then think lang na am just provoking jealousy pain and suffering...

in dont really know how mych longer i could keep up and hold on...


but thanks ...