Cooling Off

[jimmy128]

yup, and try adding "our love" at the end. btaw, its just my joke! good luck on your decision.

yup2 hehe thanx for the healthy discussion by the way.. all the more na remind ko sa reason why we made the decision to SET ASIDE our LOVE

Good thing you both have the courage to "cool off" so that you both can concentrate on working for the future. No violent reactions here, just as long as you know what the consequences will be for this decision, the future is a question that can only be answered with time, so with time you'll know if this was the right decision or if it was the best decision you have ever made. Good luck! Hope things work out for you!

thankx much.. i hope things work out too

for me bro, love is about growing up together, both of you are two different persons doing and living life as one.

the more na if you're married to each other, its ok to give space to your selves, thats what i call respect and understanding.

even if you get to be grandparents, both of you will still learn new things from each other. life is a never ending education of experiences, growing and learning together is a difficult task. its like walking together with the other one in a faster pace and the other is slower.

i agree with ur aspects in life, that's the reality of the world, but go with turn of the world as one.

para nako lang na ha. but i respect your decision, inyoha pod na. good luck bro

very true.. thanks so much for the insight

[batang_bronse]

just learn in the process bro..dha mo grow on how u react in a problem and how u solve it together... as what i understand naglikay noon mog problema..in a relationship d jud na malikayan mka encounter jud mog problems its a test in a relationship it takes two to tango d man cguro na pwede ma program nga someday ma perfect couple mo..somehow it must be tested just IMO.

[disomniac]

WOW! galing...

its going to be risky but as long as both of u stand on the same ground..well it should be worth.

and only time will tell..

[jimmy128]

just learn in the process bro..dha mo grow on how u react in a problem and how u solve it together... as what i understand naglikay noon mog problema..in a relationship d jud na malikayan mka encounter jud mog problems its a test in a relationship it takes two to tango d man cguro na pwede ma program nga someday ma perfect couple mo..somehow it must be tested just IMO.

bro.. i mentioned wala jud mi problema between each other.. thanks for your input

[treize]

why intrust your future to someone who cant even express his feelings to you via words or whatever...

[jimmy128]

why intrust your future to someone who cant even express his feelings to you via words or whatever...

love can be expressed in more ways than just words

[annerhexian]

why do u complicate things when it is already simple?

are u 2, both idealistic in the reality?

[jimmy128]

its not really that complicated.. i thought the exact same thing the 1st time me and her talked about it.. but for the two of us here.. but both of us believe that there is a higher power at work and that is why we did what we are doing right now...

simple.. become the best we can be.. learn to be independent from each other as i mentioned in my 1st post for numerous reasons.. then once we are the best we can be individually then we can give the best to each other once the time comes

[ayki]

naa ko pangutana..
pila edad ninyo?

[ayki]

sorry ko daan for being critical. "cooling off" has a negative impact in relationships.

unsa diay nang "cooling off"? kung sa bisaya pa, "magpabugnaw", kung mangutana why? kay giinitan man. kinsay giinitan? who initiated the cool off?

so you(both) decided cooling off and decided na kamo na in the end? hmmm. hope it's real. let's just pray that it will happen in the near future. and btw, when is the end?

sakto si Su-Hae in her first post. but your answer is still open ended also murag bahala na. hahaha...

in my view, you're just putting a strain in your relationship. ok naman unta inyong relationship before cool off. if you're inlove with the girl, you will continually see her (well with the big SPACE of course) until the time she will tell you to start having real relationship with you.

you think maturely but the decision you've made is immature.

kung ang girl naginitiate sa cool off, if i were you, i will accept the cool off but i wont go back to her anymore. unless she will beg for it.

kung ikaw nag initiate sa cool off, you're just putting chains on her. petty the girl. i hope she's smart enough to not believing in you.

showbiz ra kaayo nang cool off uy, in reality it does not work! (count 1 in a thousands or millions bah) hihihi

dang. she spoke what's on my mind. agree sab ko ani iyang gi sulti.