Cooling Off

[aozora]

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YOUR decision is immature. (why there's a "we" and "both of us" always?)
i just don't get cooling off when there's nothing wrong in between. who blurted out the word "cool off" first? don't tell me, nagdungan mo ug tingog? kay grabeh na nga coincidence.

just a reminder, we are just having a healthy discussions ha. i'm not going personal here.

[jimmy128]

yup2 im getting healthier and healthier

just trying to emphasize that i didnt come up with the decision on my own..

the cooling off is not to fix anything but basically for us to get better on our own.. i want to give her the best that i can be, she wants to give me the best that she can be.. its not that we aren't accepting our imperfections pud..

[im_ur_girl1984]

yeah me too jim.. i dont understand also your decisions of this "cool off" thingy..

ako ang gisayangan sa inyo relationship.. if everything is going smooth then y cool off?.. it's just the same thing as break up.. well neway decision has been made.. focus nalng on what makes both of you happy..

[jimmy128]

yeah me too jim.. i dont understand also your decisions of this "cool off" thingy..

ako ang gisayangan sa inyo relationship.. if everything is going smooth then y cool off?.. it's just the same thing as break up.. well neway decision has been made.. focus nalng on what makes both of you happy..

thanks for the input btw

[aozora]

yup2 im getting healthier and healthier

just trying to emphasize that i didnt come up with the decision on my own..

the cooling off is not to fix anything but basically for us to get better on our own.. i want to give her the best that i can be, she wants to give me the best that she can be.. its not that we aren't accepting our imperfections pud..

kung mao na, its a matter of understanding. sa bisaya, ato nlng sabton.
i'll take it as a YOU made the cool off and i'll say good luck coz i can see that you have a good girl in your hands. there's never a "WE both cooled off" just to make it clear. the other person just go along with it coz there's no other options.

btw, mao diay ni meaning sa "cool off":
1. cool off - become quiet or calm, especially after a state of agitation
2. cool off - lose intensity; "His enthusiasm cooled considerably"
3. cool off - feel less enamoured of something or somebody

this thread reminds me of the line "it's not you, it's me" problem.

[jimmy128]

yeah maybe cooling off is a bad term..

how about. setting aside?

[cutycute]

yeah me too jim.. i dont understand also your decisions of this "cool off" thingy..

ako ang gisayangan sa inyo relationship.. if everything is going smooth then y cool off?.. it's just the same thing as break up.. well neway decision has been made.. focus nalng on what makes both of you happy..

mau jud..nganung lisud lisurun man jud ang life uy...cool off( 2 times) pa jud...seryoso ra kaayu ka bro..mura ka ug taga ELIM, or mura kag pari-onon..hehehe..peace!!

[aozora]

yeah maybe cooling off is a bad term..

how about. setting aside?

yup, and try adding "our love" at the end. btaw, its just my joke! good luck on your decision.

[nijazared]

Good thing you both have the courage to "cool off" so that you both can concentrate on working for the future. No violent reactions here, just as long as you know what the consequences will be for this decision, the future is a question that can only be answered with time, so with time you'll know if this was the right decision or if it was the best decision you have ever made. Good luck! Hope things work out for you!

[unique]

for me bro, love is about growing up together, both of you are two different persons doing and living life as one.

the more na if you're married to each other, its ok to give space to your selves, thats what i call respect and understanding.

even if you get to be grandparents, both of you will still learn new things from each other. life is a never ending education of experiences, growing and learning together is a difficult task. its like walking together with the other one in a faster pace and the other is slower.

i agree with ur aspects in life, that's the reality of the world, but go with turn of the world as one.

para nako lang na ha. but i respect your decision, inyoha pod na. good luck bro