Cooling Off

[aozora]

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sorry ko daan for being critical. "cooling off" has a negative impact in relationships.

unsa diay nang "cooling off"? kung sa bisaya pa, "magpabugnaw", kung mangutana why? kay giinitan man. kinsay giinitan? who initiated the cool off?

so you(both) decided cooling off and decided na kamo na in the end? hmmm. hope it's real. let's just pray that it will happen in the near future. and btw, when is the end?

sakto si Su-Hae in her first post. but your answer is still open ended also murag bahala na. hahaha...

in my view, you're just putting a strain in your relationship. ok naman unta inyong relationship before cool off. if you're inlove with the girl, you will continually see her (well with the big SPACE of course) until the time she will tell you to start having real relationship with you.

you think maturely but the decision you've made is immature.

kung ang girl naginitiate sa cool off, if i were you, i will accept the cool off but i wont go back to her anymore. unless she will beg for it.

kung ikaw nag initiate sa cool off, you're just putting chains on her. petty the girl. i hope she's smart enough to not believing in you.

showbiz ra kaayo nang cool off uy, in reality it does not work! (count 1 in a thousands or millions bah) hihihi

[mhaw]

manglibre ka Jimmy? cge cge..kuyoga na si mhaw ai..hahahah.. adto mog SM? my pa mo..boring ky diri sa house..molakaw pud nia ko oi..

IT: Thanks ani imong thread..naa pud koi na learn..!

kuyog ta tulo..hehehe kapoi anang lakaw oi! abog2x lang na sa tiil!hehehe

[itarnate]

lisod sad nang ingon ana na situation,,kay walay commitment sa usat-usa..

[jimmy128]

sorry ko daan for being critical. "cooling off" has a negative impact in relationships.

unsa diay nang "cooling off"? kung sa bisaya pa, "magpabugnaw", kung mangutana why? kay giinitan man. kinsay giinitan? who initiated the cool off?

so you(both) decided cooling off and decided na kamo na in the end? hmmm. hope it's real. let's just pray that it will happen in the near future. and btw, when is the end?

sakto si Su-Hae in her first post. but your answer is still open ended also murag bahala na. hahaha...

in my view, you're just putting a strain in your relationship. ok naman unta inyong relationship before cool off. if you're inlove with the girl, you will continually see her (well with the big SPACE of course) until the time she will tell you to start having real relationship with you.

you think maturely but the decision you've made is immature.

kung ang girl naginitiate sa cool off, if i were you, i will accept the cool off but i wont go back to her anymore. unless she will beg for it.

kung ikaw nag initiate sa cool off, you're just putting chains on her. petty the girl. i hope she's smart enough to not believing in you.

showbiz ra kaayo nang cool off uy, in reality it does not work! (count 1 in a thousands or millions bah) hihihi

thanks for your input.. but we have a different view with regard to our decision..

i didnt ask her to wait for me.. she made that decision on her own.. so did i

[ritchepaul]

Musta Jim?

Cooling off stage diay mo ron sa imong Love, all I can advice as of now Jim is to give yourself sometime (alone) and rethink for the next phase of life. I've been in your shoes Bro, I know it's kinda difficult for sometimes memories haunts you down especially in those idle moments.

There's a risk involve in this stage of the relationship, a risk that would lead to break-up but we must be open to uncertainties.

Growing up with life isn't a stroll in the park (as most people would hope) but nothing is impossible if we have faith.

[jimmy128]

doing great bro just got back from my vacation..

yup2 faith is exactly why we are making this decision.. it is not because there is something wrong between us but its what we believe is best for this moment in our lives.. a lot of people will not understand this but thats ok

[aozora]

thanks for your input.. but we have a different view with regard to our decision..

i didnt ask her to wait for me.. she made that decision on her own.. so did i

you initiated the cool off and then she decided to wait for you. right? that's a girl in love with you diay.

[im_ur_girl1984]

y man mg cool off kung love ninyo ang usag usa?.. kung di pa mo ready mgminyo pwede ramn mo mag uyab lang sa.. in the process of being together both u you will grow emotionally and spritually.. for the "financially", of course you need to save jud or might as well get a good paying job.. but it doesnt have to be ds way na kelangan jud mag cool off..

well, i guess u have ur own reasons for the "cool off" thing but many things will hapen man gud if ur seperated.. basin makakita na nya mu ug lain..

[ritchepaul]

doing great bro just got back from my vacation..

yup2 faith is exactly why we are making this decision.. it is not because there is something wrong between us but its what we believe is best for this moment in our lives.. a lot of people will not understand this but thats ok

One of the enemies you'll encounter Bro is *TIME* itself...both of you needs to cool off but as time passes by there is a greater risk of break-up (it's either you or her makakita ug bag-o).

Also, time can heal wounds...just try to engage in some worthwhile activities Bro for diversion.

If you're ready to go back into that relationship, you know what to do.

[jimmy128]

you initiated the cool off and then she decided to wait for you. right? that's a girl in love with you diay.

i mentioned that there is nothing wrong between the both of us.. you see this decision as immature and i respect your view.. unfortunately we both me and her have a different view.. we have assessed the pros and cons.. and both decided that this is best for us for now.. i didnt make the decision on my own.. we made it together

@im_ur_girl1984

i do understand that.. but one of the things that also affected our decision is a teaching in the community that me and her are in.. like i said it would be hard for a lot of people to understand.. there are a lot of ways to reach a certain goal in life.. and as i stated above.. we weighed the pros and cons.. and decided what is best.. what is best for us may not necessarily be best for what is best for you and other people..

@ ching

yes bro.. what i will be focusing on is working for a good future :P