How would you react?

[RainDrizzle07]

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I think it's entirely his fault. Heartbreaks suck, but to the point of trying to take one's own life for it? Not a good idea at all. I understand where your guilt comes from, but when you look at it deeply, you had nothing to do with what he did. He made that decision on his own. And about him being afraid to enter into new relationships after what happened, well, it's time he start toughening up. You're not responsible for his actions and choices, sis. That's entirely up to him. If he doesn't want to get up, move on, and do something with this life, then iya sad na. You can only do so much. As you said, this happened a long time ago. Time to let things -- and your guilt -- go.

Thank sis ^_^

again i bet for 1000 dollars he cannot commit suicide...he dont have that kind of strength...dili lage tawn na maghikog oi.....dili as in dili...

its what u called a TRICK.....yaw jud padala sa trick...

ahaha.. ur the boss.. ka social! bah..wla man pud g alang2x ang pusta U$1000 man jud @_@

[heisenberg69]

in-ana ko ka confident...dili jud lage na maghikog...

[BackEdge]

ah grabe pod ka bro, malay mo na love jud diay to sya sa man and nasakitan jud sya ug maayo.. mao na usahay gud na ang tao madala sa iya emotion and di pod baya ka ka blame kung naa tao na mas ni over power ya emotion kay sa iya utok..

wahahaha..love kaha na na destructive kaayu? even to his own life? and what about the lives of others (parents/siblings). madala sa emotion? what a complete ASS****! emotion over utok, are you sure naa pay UTOK ning tawhana? dont get me wrong, this is a very diffective way of thinking and I dont think we willl be easy on this kind of people..dapat neh latuson why nag love2x kunohay unya maka-igit diay ug buwagan!

laslas or inum glutathione este malatione..murag uk-uk! nganu mamugus man? sunod aneh mang rape na? sunod mamusil? grabeh ko? maayu ikaw ma-timingan aneh tawhana ayaw lang ang uban.

[RainDrizzle07]

wahahaha..love kaha na na destructive kaayu? even to his own life? and what about the lives of others (parents/siblings). madala sa emotion? what a complete ASS****! emotion over utok, are you sure naa pay UTOK ning tawhana? dont get me wrong, this is a very diffective way of thinking and I dont think we willl be easy on this kind of people..dapat neh latuson why nag love2x kunohay unya maka-igit diay ug buwagan!

laslas or inum glutathione este malatione..murag uk-uk! nganu mamugus man? sunod aneh mang rape na? sunod mamusil? grabeh ko? maayu ikaw ma-timingan aneh tawhana ayaw lang ang uban.

bwahahaha.. ka getz ko sa u point bro... and ka getz sad ko sa iya point.. lolz.. bacn mag LQ mong duha ah... ^_^

Pero honestly inyo mga comments & POV's help me in a way baya, kay I have moved on na from that situation pero after ato kay ka na btawng feeling na mahadlok na nya ka mo buwag kay bacn mao napud ang buhaton..ka getz mo? ^_^

Kay if ever btaw naa nsad next mo buhat ana...then what if dli na jud matabang...ka imagine mo sa guilt unya nako? and ang rage sa family unya sa guy?

Let's put it this way, pag naa man gud ko sa relationship. Tanan checklist (if ever naa man) sa usa ka relationship ako jud na buhaton tanan..aside sa pagka gf;

I can also be my bf's buddy if ganahan xa mo watch ug sports sa tv (its either I'll sit beside him or probably made some popcorn or prepare snack for him while he is watchin)

if ganahan xa mo tan aw porn! - pag tagbaw- (pero ayaw lang sad jud ko patan awa, unless its hentai, he knew that) just as long as after he watch it kay dli jud intawn xa magparamdam nako sexually! okey ra jud kaayo... ^_^ ( personally dli jud ko ganahan makig do sa ako bf if gkan xa tan aw porn, do I need to elaborate more? I don't think so ^_^)

if ganahan xa mo duwa ug dota and wla xa kaduwa (just as long as ALL PICK and ONLY MID ^_^ or bsag dli Only Mid just as long as wlay AI and one on one ) wla sad jud hasol ( c Lina Inverse, Kelthuzhad, Razor,Krobelos ako gamiton, mao man ako fave..^_^) pero ug ganahan ka makig 5 on 5 ayaw nlang jud ko pa apila kay dli ko ganahan magsamok2x nya cge pangutana unsa ako items paliton if ever dli ko kaila sa hero na akong makuha if ARNP xa ^_^ (pero ug all pick kaya raman ^_^)

nya ug ganahan xs na molaag kyog iyang friends -Go jud daun- (basta as a BF na naay GF kahibaw lang xa unsa iya imitations)

and if ever makig away xa - be sure na wla xa tatsa, kay ug naa gani xay bun og- (kay ako jud motiwas nya) ^_^ ( kay sa akong utok nano tuga2x man intawn ka ug apil2x anang gubot nya dli ka ka defend sau self.. dba? @_@) the reason why I have this is because... as a GF xmpre magoul sad ka oie ug na unsa imong uyab..nano nagka bun og2x or worst ma ospital dba? ^_^ murag hint ni nako nya nga dapat bsag asa xa mo ad2.. he needs to be really careful kay somewhere, somehow, someone is expecting for his return, text or call. Ana lang. ^_^

bitaw kahibalo jud ako BF anah.. murag mao na na akong rules... in general.. so from bf 1 - bf 3 mao na jud na xa...

probably the reason why I do have serious relationship jud... pero mao sad lagi.. as a human.. na sometimes we are govern by our emotion..naa jud mahitabo na dli nato malikayan...ginagmayng away na mahimong dako...na at one point maka ingon na ka nga I need to quit. can't stand this anymore.. ^_^

Basta..thank you kaayo nin u nanatch.. ^_^

[heisenberg69]

bwahahaha.. ka getz ko sa u point bro... and ka getz sad ko sa iya point.. lolz.. bacn mag LQ mong duha ah... ^_^

Pero honestly inyo mga comments & POV's help me in a way baya, kay I have moved on na from that situation pero after ato kay ka na btawng feeling na mahadlok na nya ka mo buwag kay bacn mao napud ang buhaton..ka getz mo? ^_^

Kay if ever btaw naa nsad next mo buhat ana...then what if dli na jud matabang...ka imagine mo sa guilt unya nako? and ang rage sa family unya sa guy?

Let's put it this way, pag naa man gud ko sa relationship. Tanan checklist (if ever naa man) sa usa ka relationship ako jud na buhaton tanan..aside sa pagka gf;

I can also be my bf's buddy if ganahan xa mo watch ug sports sa tv (its either I'll sit beside him or probably made some popcorn or prepare snack for him while he is watchin)

if ganahan xa mo tan aw porn! - pag tagbaw- (pero ayaw lang sad jud ko patan awa, unless its hentai, he knew that) just as long as after he watch it kay dli jud intawn xa magparamdam nako sexually! okey ra jud kaayo... ^_^ ( personally dli jud ko ganahan makig do sa ako bf if gkan xa tan aw porn, do I need to elaborate more? I don't think so ^_^)

if ganahan xa mo duwa ug dota and wla xa kaduwa (just as long as ALL PICK and ONLY MID ^_^ or bsag dli Only Mid just as long as wlay AI and one on one ) wla sad jud hasol ( c Lina Inverse, Kelthuzhad, Razor,Krobelos ako gamiton, mao man ako fave..^_^) pero ug ganahan ka makig 5 on 5 ayaw nlang jud ko pa apila kay dli ko ganahan magsamok2x nya cge pangutana unsa ako items paliton if ever dli ko kaila sa hero na akong makuha if ARNP xa ^_^ (pero ug all pick kaya raman ^_^)

nya ug ganahan xs na molaag kyog iyang friends -Go jud daun- (basta as a BF na naay GF kahibaw lang xa unsa iya imitations)

and if ever makig away xa - be sure na wla xa tatsa, kay ug naa gani xay bun og- (kay ako jud motiwas nya) ^_^ ( kay sa akong utok nano tuga2x man intawn ka ug apil2x anang gubot nya dli ka ka defend sau self.. dba? @_@) the reason why I have this is because... as a GF xmpre magoul sad ka oie ug na unsa imong uyab..nano nagka bun og2x or worst ma ospital dba? ^_^ murag hint ni nako nya nga dapat bsag asa xa mo ad2.. he needs to be really careful kay somewhere, somehow, someone is expecting for his return, text or call. Ana lang. ^_^

bitaw kahibalo jud ako BF anah.. murag mao na na akong rules... in general.. so from bf 1 - bf 3 mao na jud na xa...

probably the reason why I do have serious relationship jud... pero mao sad lagi.. as a human.. na sometimes we are govern by our emotion..naa jud mahitabo na dli nato malikayan...ginagmayng away na mahimong dako...na at one point maka ingon na ka nga I need to quit. can't stand this anymore.. ^_^

Basta..thank you kaayo nin u nanatch.. ^_^

why you saying all this things here all the likes and dislikes..*rules*... for sure..if you have bf right now your not happy with it..i can sense...or you dont even know how to define happiness...

you said YOU MOVE ON...our opinions and different POV help you MOVE ON....(that's a lie...a big LIE)

i dont know about the others but im pretty sure you didnt' move on..you still in the process of moving ON...

and beliv me it will take long (a year or more than a year) before you can say that you already MOVE ON...

og mag attempt gali og suicide ang usa ka tao due to the reason nga gibuwagan siya sa iyang uyab, dili jud na ang LASLAS method iyang gamiton...the best way is drink too much medicine or jump to the bridge...(just like the story of rico yan and heath ledger)

[RainDrizzle07]

why you saying all this things here all the likes and dislikes..*rules*... for sure..if you have bf right now your not happy with it..i can sense...or you dont even know how to define happiness...

you said YOU MOVE ON...our opinions and different POV help you MOVE ON....(that's a lie...a big LIE)

i dont know about the others but im pretty sure you didnt' move on..you still in the process of moving ON...

and beliv me it will take long (a year or more than a year) before you can say that you already MOVE ON...

og mag attempt gali og suicide ang usa ka tao due to the reason nga gibuwagan siya sa iyang uyab, dili jud na ang LASLAS method iyang gamiton...the best way is drink too much medicine or jump to the bridge...(just like the story of rico yan and heath ledger)

I already did move on quick ^_^ with that ex bf suicide.
The opinion and POV's help me on.my.fear.that.if.ever.Im.gonna.break.up.again.an d.if.the.present.bf.will.do.it You get it? ^_^
I just feel like writing my rules. Why, what's with it?

As.of.my.happiness.to.my.present.bf.will.its a bit tainted. But it is not something that can't be fix.

For over 3 years of bein together. I can say that my bf is really boring.(is that really a problem? a bit.specially for someone who is as outgoing and as adventurous as I am)

pero gamay ra kaayo ng problemaha.kaysa sa problema sa uban. Right? ^_^
And it is not something na can't be fix as I have said.
At least my bf doesn't smoke nor drink. And his only addiction is computer games. Which makasabay rasad ko..^_^

Does.he.know.that.I.think.na.he.is.boring? Of course. coz I told him already.
Did he do something about it? No. Why? because, at this point. we can't do anything, we are always @ work..OT.@_@. We do have the money and we can't even go out and play. ^_^

(I should have probably post this one on my "Just Expressin" but then I would love to hear/read your POV bout this one)

[heisenberg69]

I already did move on quick ^_^ with that ex bf suicide.
The opinion and POV's help me on.my.fear.that.if.ever.Im.gonna.break.up.again.an d.if.the.present.bf.will.do.it You get it? ^_^
I just feel like writing my rules. Why, what's with it?

As.of.my.happiness.to.my.present.bf.will.its a bit tainted. But it is not something that can't be fix.

For over 3 years of bein together. I can say that my bf is really boring.(is that really a problem? a bit.specially for someone who is as outgoing and as adventurous as I am)

pero gamay ra kaayo ng problemaha.kaysa sa problema sa uban. Right? ^_^
And it is not something na can't be fix as I have said.
At least my bf doesn't smoke nor drink. And his only addiction is computer games. Which makasabay rasad ko..^_^

Does.he.know.that.I.think.na.he.is.boring? Of course. coz I told him already.
Did he do something about it? No. Why? because, at this point. we can't do anything, we are always @ work..OT.@_@. We do have the money and we can't even go out and play. ^_^

(I should have probably post this one on my "Just Expressin" but then I would love to hear/read your POV bout this one)

you really want my opinion? would you like to hear it I mean read it here?? beliv me...you dont wanna hear it...

[jntio]

pasagd nalng ky iya mn na gusto. kita nka ug gwapo ts? joke

[RainDrizzle07]

you really want my opinion? would you like to hear it I mean read it here?? beliv me...you dont wanna hear it...

Just post it pal, if you need to used harsh words or insult me..then just do it.. if that's the only way you can make me understand bout your opinion. ^_^

It is your opinion. I will respect it. But at the same time. I know who I am and what I am. ^_^

[heisenberg69]

I already did move on quick ^_^ with that ex bf suicide.
The opinion and POV's help me on.my.fear.that.if.ever.Im.gonna.break.up.again.an d.if.the.present.bf.will.do.it You get it? ^_^
I just feel like writing my rules. Why, what's with it?

As.of.my.happiness.to.my.present.bf.will.its a bit tainted. But it is not something that can't be fix.

For over 3 years of bein together. I can say that my bf is really boring.(is that really a problem? a bit.specially for someone who is as outgoing and as adventurous as I am)

pero gamay ra kaayo ng problemaha.kaysa sa problema sa uban. Right? ^_^
And it is not something na can't be fix as I have said.
At least my bf doesn't smoke nor drink. And his only addiction is computer games. Which makasabay rasad ko..^_^

Does.he.know.that.I.think.na.he.is.boring? Of course. coz I told him already.
Did he do something about it? No. Why? because, at this point. we can't do anything, we are always @ work..OT.@_@. We do have the money and we can't even go out and play. ^_^

(I should have probably post this one on my "Just Expressin" but then I would love to hear/read your POV bout this one)

its really hard to LIE to ourself....beliv your still in the process of moving ON..thats the whole truth...you have new bf right now tapos mo ingon ka nga BORING siya...Boring siya compare sa imong X...pero beliv me he's not boring, you just dont know how to get his attention...maybe lets say IKAW ang boring..I bet YOU are...can I ask whats the reason ngano nag buwag mo sa imong X??