How would you react?

[RainDrizzle07]

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I really can't tell if what you did (break up) is right nor wrong. We have a set of "wants" and goals in our life. And we are entitled to pursue it. So maybe you were right. In relationships (serious type or pangMinyoay na), you don't forget to love yourself, but you also shouldn't forget to give it. It is were you and your partner starts to align your goals and start to face into the same direction. Sacrifices at times, are necessary.

But I'm quite confident to say that you shouldn't be guilty. It is not your fault in the first place. The breakup might be the reason or say you might be part of the reason, but the whole decision of committing suicide is all his. You didn't ask him to do it dba?

Basing from what you mentioned about him, I think he aint a bad azz guy. Nga binoangan lang ang mga babae. So I hope he'd learn his lesson and finally start to walk and move on.

To your question, unsa ang iReact if mahitabo ni nako. Probably, mao mao ra pud sa imong iReact. Human nature. And maybe, I'll be posting same thread as yours.

Nice said maikeru, Thanks ^_^
So you will be posting.. hahaha ^_^

[heisenberg69]

nag laslas?hehehehe.....

beliv me dira rato kutob...dili to niya malahos nga mag suicide....

one thing ha...if you are really seryos nga mag suicide ka y do it in a "LasLas method"

u can do it in a simple way...go to a bridge and jump or if you have a gun then shot yourself..

he did it because he want you to feel the pain hes suffering right now...

he did it because he think its the only way that you will come back to him...

he did it because he is so selfish....

he cannot face the truth...

thats the whole truth why he did it...

its not about he is commiting suicide....

it wont...he will not....

[RainDrizzle07]

n

he did it because he want you to feel the pain hes suffering right now...

*Ouch* .../sob @_@
as in ingon ana ka sakit..? *emo mode*

I was hurting man pud at that time.. like I can't stop cryin for days TT_TT

[heisenberg69]

*Ouch* .../sob @_@
as in ingon ana ka sakit..? *emo mode*

I was hurting man pud at that time.. like I can't stop cryin for days TT_TT

it doesn't matter how many gallons of tears you cry...it wont count...

for sure....dili jud na siya mag hikog....

i bet for 1000 dollars he can't do that....

its what you called trick....

if madala ka sa iyang trick aw magbalik jud mo...

[AZI]

faeta ana oi! lisora anang naa kay suicidal partner.. kung ako nmo miga, klaroha sa imong kaugalingon f luv p b nmo cya..ky madaunan gane na, nya marealize nmo na luv pa nmo, d na na mbuhi pa..pro, f wa na jud, ahw yaw pod isacrifice imo freedom juz for pitty. Juz make sur, do it with a mor acceptable reason..

[treize]

wa ka to sila magsabot sa iyang ate? para maguilty ka unya makigbalik ka niya?

[BackEdge]

What will you do if you find out that your ex commit suicide after the break up? let's say 2 - 3 weeks after the break up?

Nag suicide ra ah... then wla jud na deadz..

The story man gud is like this..

I do have a bf before not from cebu,
in the Philippines lang..
we have a long distance relationship
and since maglisud nmn jud mi ug kita
I decide na much better ug mag break nlng mi
after 2 weeks sa break up namo
her Ate called up and told me
what seems to be the problem?
coz iya daw brother nag laslas.. @_@
and naa sila sa ospital..

Pagkbaw nako aneh..kay na guilty jud ko..
coz after ko nakgbreak nya kay dli nmn jud ko
motubag sa text or call..dli man xa ganahan mo give up
sa relationship nya ako kay in order for me to let go
mao to ako gbuhat btaw..d na motext or answer

Nsa inyo masulti?

unsay masulti WHAT A COMPLETE ASS***!!! Maayu mamatay dayun para dili makahasul sa paryente, kapoy bantay sa hospital, ulaw pa kaayu, kalas kwarta...kaning klasi sa tao murag bb ba, dili gyud neh cya ment to survive sa real world. Mau neh resulta sa spoiled na bata pag daku kay mag andam ka ug para ospital or para lukat prisohan...

Ask lang ko, why kaha ka makunsensya wahahahaha, kay abnormal ang imung gipili na uyabon..wala pa malutas..wahehehee!

[esotericlove]

unsay masulti WHAT A COMPLETE ASS***!!! Maayu mamatay dayun para dili makahasul sa paryente, kapoy bantay sa hospital, ulaw pa kaayu, kalas kwarta...kaning klasi sa tao murag bb ba, dili gyud neh cya ment to survive sa real world. Mau neh resulta sa spoiled na bata pag daku kay mag andam ka ug para ospital or para lukat prisohan...

Ask lang ko, why kaha ka makunsensya wahahahaha, kay abnormal ang imung gipili na uyabon..wala pa malutas..wahehehee!

ah grabe pod ka bro, malay mo na love jud diay to sya sa man and nasakitan jud sya ug maayo.. mao na usahay gud na ang tao madala sa iya emotion and di pod baya ka ka blame kung naa tao na mas ni over power ya emotion kay sa iya utok..

[sandsss]

I think it's entirely his fault. Heartbreaks suck, but to the point of trying to take one's own life for it? Not a good idea at all. I understand where your guilt comes from, but when you look at it deeply, you had nothing to do with what he did. He made that decision on his own. And about him being afraid to enter into new relationships after what happened, well, it's time he start toughening up. You're not responsible for his actions and choices, sis. That's entirely up to him. If he doesn't want to get up, move on, and do something with this life, then iya sad na. You can only do so much. As you said, this happened a long time ago. Time to let things -- and your guilt -- go.

[heisenberg69]

again i bet for 1000 dollars he cannot commit suicide...he dont have that kind of strength...dili lage tawn na maghikog oi.....dili as in dili...

its what u called a TRICK.....yaw jud padala sa trick...