How would you react?

[khimmy]

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personally? I really havent think of that..
kay we already talked nmn gud, before sa break up
or as pag break mismo, pero after his attempt,
we havent meet face to face yet, its been 3 years already
yet I still receive text and emails from him
sayin he will be waiting @_@

hmmm.. maybe I will do this
I just dont know when, coz if I were to think of it
we can talk through phone, dba? hehe
and honestly I really dont want to talk
in person coz same ra man ata amo storyaan
mag tuyok2x lang meh..sakto ba? ^_^

talking in peson will help the most kai para mas mapagawas nimo imu emotions...
miskan pa siguro ug same ra imyu sturyaan kai it will all go straight to one topic...
mas better if magtuyok2 ang sturya kay makahibaw jud ka sa details whereas kung ahatun nimu ug
dritso sa piont kai naa man gud possibility nga you couldnt express yourself thoroughly...
possible naa na hnuon kai makalimtan..

[RainDrizzle07]

if wala najud ka feelings niya, ayaw nlang pud pakigbalik just for the sake nga na guilty ka lng.
if love nimo sya, e-work out jud ninyo ang inyo differences, and that is ang long distance relationship- onsaon ninyo pag adjust, how to keep each other bisan lagyo,etc...

hi sis!! mana man na let go na nako.. ^_^
kay Im too coward at that time man
mao to nagdecide ko na mag buwag mi ^_^
btw.. ikaw okey na ka sa imo dilemma pud ryt?

[RainDrizzle07]

talking in peson will help the most kai para mas mapagawas nimo imu emotions...
miskan pa siguro ug same ra imyu sturyaan kai it will all go straight to one topic...
mas better if magtuyok2 ang sturya kay makahibaw jud ka sa details whereas kung ahatun nimu ug
dritso sa piont kai naa man gud possibility nga you couldnt express yourself thoroughly...
possible naa na hnuon kai makalimtan..

Cge sis..puhon ug c knsa ang makalugar sa amoa.. ahhaha
12 hours by boat man pdong sa ilaha..then
25 mins pag plane ^_^

pero btaw ako sis.. kusug au ko mo express sa ako na feel
pero ug ingon ana na bitaw na murag confrontational
or basta ingon ana nga set up mura kog d kbaw mo storya
wa juy mo gawas sa ako baba..lolz

isuwat na noon nako..mao na ug pa express sa ako emotion
through letters or text jud.. ^_^

[ranzzz]

ahahaha

okey2x ka getz na ko..btaw pud

pero maau nlng jud wla ma deadz pud oie

kay paminaw nako hangtod karon

dli cguro ko ka pasaylo ako self

pero mahadlook ko bacn makarma btaw ko TT_TT

don't blame yourself oi.. you just love yourself lang jud mao ni give up ka.. dli sad ka conceited or selfish in any way.. you know who you are and what you want.. ang2x man sad mag pa dayun ka bisan d ka ganahan..dba? hahaha sucks to be that guy though..

[tamse]

I already did that namn..hehehe
just want to know other people's opinion with
regards to this matter hehe..

thanks tam tam.. *bleeh* mingaw nako nmo..hahaha
tambay nya ko dha puhon ug sunday..@_@
open ba mo tomorrow ah?

haha... hasta! miss you sad... ok ra na miga...

[aozora]

What will you do if you find out that your ex commit suicide after the break up? let's say 2 - 3 weeks after the break up?

Nag suicide ra ah... then wla jud na deadz..

The story man gud is like this..

I do have a bf before not from cebu,
in the Philippines lang..
we have a long distance relationship
and since maglisud nmn jud mi ug kita
I decide na much better ug mag break nlng mi
after 2 weeks sa break up namo
her Ate called up and told me
what seems to be the problem?
coz iya daw brother nag laslas.. @_@
and naa sila sa ospital..

Pagkbaw nako aneh..kay na guilty jud ko..
coz after ko nakgbreak nya kay dli nmn jud ko
motubag sa text or call..dli man xa ganahan mo give up
sa relationship nya ako kay in order for me to let go
mao to ako gbuhat btaw..d na motext or answer

Nsa inyo masulti?

tinuod jud nga nag laslas cya? o made up story rana nila para lang mo balik ka niya.
tell you, dapat iwas naka niya kay kuyaw man diay na cya nga pagkataw.

[RainDrizzle07]

tinuod jud nga nag laslas cya? o made up story rana nila para lang mo balik ka niya.
tell you, dapat iwas naka niya kay kuyaw man diay na cya nga pagkataw.

tinood na naglaslas xa
coz his ate was calling me man
crying, na they need to rush my ex
to the hospital, kay nag suicide
unsa daw problema @_@

uu ni iwas na bitaw ko
coz I may have love him during that time
and I admit I was really coward, the reason
why I decided to give up the relationship
coz I realize na I really dont want to be in a
relationship na my bf since we are very far
murag imbistigador daghan kaau pangutana
then duduso, though I cant blame him coz
we are really far, pero sometimes maka pissed off na pud
btaw ng dli lang gani ka maka reply after 1 minute daghan
na au txt or motawag na, its really irritating
though at first I really find it flattering.. lol
pero kadugayan maka irritate na ^_^

mao sad na..

[ronz_rodz]

gamay ra utok ang imong ex.. di na angay magbalik pa mo

[RainDrizzle07]

don't blame yourself oi.. you just love yourself lang jud mao ni give up ka.. dli sad ka conceited or selfish in any way.. you know who you are and what you want.. ang2x man sad mag pa dayun ka bisan d ka ganahan..dba? hahaha sucks to be that guy though..

Thanks ^_^


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BTW... kabantay ko cge lagi ka OL..

wla ka lingaw sah.. ^_^

[Maikeru]

I really can't tell if what you did (break up) is right nor wrong. We have a set of "wants" and goals in our life. And we are entitled to pursue it. So maybe you were right. In relationships (serious type or pangMinyoay na), you don't forget to love yourself, but you also shouldn't forget to give it. It is were you and your partner starts to align your goals and start to face into the same direction. Sacrifices at times, are necessary.

But I'm quite confident to say that you shouldn't be guilty. It is not your fault in the first place. The breakup might be the reason or say you might be part of the reason, but the whole decision of committing suicide is all his. You didn't ask him to do it dba?

Basing from what you mentioned about him, I think he aint a bad azz guy. Nga binoangan lang ang mga babae. So I hope he'd learn his lesson and finally start to walk and move on.

To your question, unsa ang iReact if mahitabo ni nako. Probably, mao mao ra pud sa imong iReact. Human nature. And maybe, I'll be posting same thread as yours.