How to overcome depression on a broken marriage?

[Fern]

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lisud ni imo problema bro. kung ako sa imo talk to your wife heart to heart gyud. dapat honest gyud mong duha even if it hurts one or both of you. ask her what's wrong? kung walay 3rd party involved basin ma tabang pa inyo marriage pero kung naa morag samot kalisud. basta bro do you best lang to save your marriage pero kung dili madala then it's time to move on. daghan pa baye sa kalibutan bro, nga puede ka maka start over.

mao lage... daghan kaayung babae dire sa istorya uh... mga hot kaayu and uhaw sa tunay nga pag ibig

[redcheek]

go on and tell her u dont love her anymore and you are willing to move on. gusto ra na cya ug challenge ky i think na bored lng cya. give her enough time and space and dont communicate with her. let her get in touch with you

[Warnok]

bro...unsa man imo priority imo mga kids or imo kaugalingon nga kalipay?...if chose ka imo kids then ikaw paubos ug try to reconcile sa imo wife,,,,if dili gyud siya then pangita lain...at least ni try na ka to reconcile niya...dili na ka ma guilty ana bai....just try to make amend lng sa bro....just always remember nga it is not yet the end of the world....


truly yours,
papa joe..hehe

[jntio]

dli ko mo tuo kng wla 3rd party involv ani inyo situation bro

[Warnok]

dli ko mo tuo kng wla 3rd party involv ani inyo situation bro

agree ko ani bro....duda gani ko bro ikaw mao sad-an,...naka 10 months man sad ko sa mideast....pwera lng sa maayo pero rampant kaayo ddto ang extra marital bro.....tanan nako kauban naa gyud gibuhi ddto....ang usa taga pasil iya baje kay minyo sad dri....paetz...

pangutana sad imo self bro...wla ba ka sala...naay katulo nag-ilis ug wife...naa sad taga manila dili maihap ang wife pulos ra ba mga DH iya tirada....grabe gyud bro...pwera lng sa maayo ha..labi na tong maningkamot sad nga madala ila family ddto....

[Fern]

agree ko ani bro....duda gani ko bro ikaw mao sad-an,...naka 10 months man sad ko sa mideast....pwera lng sa maayo pero rampant kaayo ddto ang extra marital bro.....tanan nako kauban naa gyud gibuhi ddto....ang usa taga pasil iya baje kay minyo sad dri....paetz...

pangutana sad imo self bro...wla ba ka sala...naay katulo nag-ilis ug wife...naa sad taga manila dili maihap ang wife pulos ra ba mga DH iya tirada....grabe gyud bro...pwera lng sa maayo ha..labi na tong maningkamot sad nga madala ila family ddto....

does that mean prime nlang naay grey side of this issue ?

basta akong duda ani is kaning iayng wife naay na hitabo ani niya physically...

daghan biyang tao ang na daot sa lawasnung needs.... duda ko ang wife niya nka *** ug another guy sa gawas.... basin na hubug iayng wofe or something and she did s2xual activities . and basin hapit ma mabdus

mao nang murag uwaw kaayu ang babae...

[itwasnme]

I wouldn't call anybody's wife any names without knowing exactly what's going through her mind. Reiterating that she is involved in extra marital affair won't really help. It will most likely make him more depressed. Being realistic is good, but only if we know the facts. TS himself doesn't even know exactly whats wrong.

We always assume that when a marriage ends up on the rocks its because of a 3rd party. Not always true though. Most women I know who are separated say it was because they feel they are in a what they call Monolithic Marriage.

She maybe going through other emotions as well that she herself can't figure out.

For now, all I could tell you TS, Be positive and that just go on about your life abroad and keep your son close to your heart and as time goes on hope for the best that she will find what it is she is looking for in her life.

Until you know the truth, then will it set you free. (peace of mind)

[Fern]

anyway... his wife is a weakling... swerte lang if dili ma liwat ang mga anak