if you think yourself as a failure.. then you already failed... if magstart ka karon, with that negative attitude, your doomed to fail already..
may i ask what imu job karon?
gaan tika exercise... go on a weeklong vacation, anywhere.. bring no celphones, dont log-in to the net, with no companion.. kanang place nga wala ka kaila... chances are youll go crazy by the 3rd day, trust me.. by the fourth day, magic happens.. youll learn to make new friends, explore your surroundings in detail.. youll begin to notice things that your arent able to notice before..
kung wala ka connections, make some.. kanang thick face, you gain it thru practice.. gusto ka mka learn ani? go to clubs and party, try to "meet" new people.. if your a guy, try meeting a chick.. dont expect youll succeed first, if you do.. wow.., expect to be successful after a few visits to the club.. practice makes perfect..
there is nobody here who can train you.. i cant train you, nobody else can, ang uban mobayad pa gani para sa training but all they get are advices, but i can only give you advice (yes, im not offering you, im giving you).. what you need is self-decipline to train yourself... go to clubs to practice having a thick face.. and while trying to approach someone of the opposite gender, try to do it with no help from alcohol.. (this is easy for women since women man doulon sa men, thats why women make good salespeople, yes naa gender bias dire, naa jud advantage women)..
kanindot sa bar kay one.. you get to practice thick face.. two, you get to practice making strategies to get someone you like, three, you get ro practice salestalk, or basically talking to strangers.. hehehe.. there is no better training ground than here for such exercises.. hehehe..
(kung diha sa cebu, i would advise vudu, formo, or casanova, sophisticated man gud mga tao compare sa juliana or sa paseo before, wala to challenge didtu..)